Re: Does being black matter?
You remind me of myself. I'm also black and not a stereotype.
Being black will not prevent you from dating. There are many women and ts women who love black men. However, it may prevent you from dating someone who isn't interested in black men stereotypical or not.
Some women are turned off by black men for not being stereotypical. This is where you may have a lot of problems. Women have complained about me not being "black enough" for their tastes.
Welcome to the forums. I hope you stay active here. You sound like a nice guy.
Re: Does being black matter?
Be Yourself, Have Fun and Bring Lots of Cash
Black, White, Yellow doesn't matter but Green does
Re: Does being black matter?
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DevAero
Hey guys, I'm new here and this is my first post. I'm a 19 y/o black guy and in love in Transgirls, but I was wondering if being black would automatically shut me down from dating and sex. I don't act black, and some call me an oreo meaning I act like a white person (if that matters).
I mean not harm by this post if I offended anyone I'm sorry, but I don't know where else to ask. I'm spending the summer in NYC so any tips on dating and hooking up there would be great.
Thank for any answers and advice you guys can give me.
If you in shape and got the bbc, the trans world is your oyster lol
Re: Does being black matter?
I'm black, have a big cock, and have dated more TS "off the clock" than probably any other member here. Many TS actually prefer black dudes off the clock...they just don't want us as paying customers...cuz we don't pay
Re: Does being black matter?
Re: Does being black matter?
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giovanni_hotel
Confidence. Find some.
:iagree:
i've found that looks, money and a big cock are often cited by men as the main thing most women look for where as many women would say its confidence and personality.
i'm not saying one group is right where the other is wrong, but a confident man will generally be more successful than those without. don't worry about race so much otherwise you are the one that might make it an issue more than your target.
Re: Does being black matter?
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RallyCola
:iagree:
i've found that looks, money and a big cock are often cited by men as the main thing most women look for where as many women would say its confidence and personality.
i'm not saying one group is right where the other is wrong, but a confident man will generally be more successful than those without. don't worry about race so much otherwise you are the one that might make it an issue more than your target.
As a black man I can say that one may want to worry about race. I know from personal experience that some women will not date a black man. Some women are disinterested in black men. Then we have women who have racist opinions about black people and will not date us. There are also women who want to date blacks but their families will disown them for choosing a black man.
I spoke to a porn director about interracial porn. He told me stories about how girls want to shoot IR scenes and their fathers found out and beat on or off set.
I met a girl in college who said that she wanted to date me but wasn't allowed to. Her family was racist and would have kicked her out of the house if she dated a black man. She's now married to a white guy and has a kid. I think she also dropped out of school.
Re: Does being black matter?
In this country unfortunately it does.
Re: Does being black matter?
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nysprod
If you in shape and got the bbc, the trans world is your oyster lol
Huh, I'm good looking and in shape. Looks like I'll be alright lol
