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a friend of mine is thinking of escorting. she's a very intelligent ts woman, but she's recently been laid off and needs money. she lives in LA.
I was wondering how dangerous is escorting? Would be great if some girls who are escorts could chime in. How often do you encounter problems/situations with men, do they ever become violent, etc, etc. thx in advance.
I would never ever do it. The risk of violence, not to mention catching HIV from a split condom.
Also wondering..
I have been a male escort for over 12 years. The business has been very good to me. We all can be fooled, but if you use your head, advertise in the right places and trust your instincts, you can get through it no problem.Have never had a serious incident. Been weirded out a few times, but never felt threatened. Might be easier for guys, but I have escorted couples, women, men and groups. Don't be desperate for the money, it's easier to use your head and turn down anything that does not feel right. Or walk out too. Just my experience.
The business is not made for everybody. I been on it for 3 yrs. I had some girlfriends that couldn't handle it.
The risks depends on your self-displine, your awareness, where you advertise, your intuition/intelligence, and most important ability to have the looks and be a good actress or actor to make someone cum regardless of what mood your in.
I had never had problems either, so if your careful, health educated, safe, and aware of every movement of what happening than your fine. You/Your friends and environment influence you wether if your going to be an intelligent escort or a drug addict whore.
The only things I notice in escorting in me was un-ability to fall in love easily, I lost my humble personality, and to be a very mean person to men in my life, well only sometimes lol Other than that the biz is good, do it while you can it makes you smarter person in some ways ....
u can ask Adriella Vendramine about it
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Originally Posted by Nikka
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Escorting its only for who can handle it...Its not easy to meet strangers but in the end you know why you doing it...Of course some of had terible experience like the girl from the last year who was beaten and end up in coma....
In Seattle the gg escorts often associate with a review board and obtain references from others that have seen them. This improves the safety in that you are seeing people that have already seen two escorts.Quote:
Originally Posted by Bunzee
For TS there are no boards in our area, I think posting on eros vs backpage, having a website, posting rates, and having realistic (and real) pictures would improve safety. I can't confirm this but it seems safer to have appointments by email, so someone plans to see you a day or few days before than someone that had the impulse just an hour before. Also that approach would tend to draw repeat customers.
I know 2 gg escorts that have done it for over 20 years and they love the work. However, many stop just a few months in. So it can be good if it fits your personality.