Alot of you guys are mistaking passable with beautiful.
We all know there are different tastes for everyone- so this post is not about being critical. It's about a truth that many of you are mixing up.
Being passable has nothing to do with being beautiful. They are two states that can be mutually exclusive- or if you are lucky combined.
We tend to forget that there are many mediocore or unattractive women in the world. Certain transsexuals, can blend very well into society and be extremely passable, and not be beautiful. Of ocurse a girl can be paasable and beautiful, there is no doubt- but transsexuality nor surgery is a gaurantee of being either.
Then comes the end of the other spectrum. There are many beautiful transsexuals who might not necesseraily be as "passable". I know many girls who are beautiful, but you can tell they are transsexuals. They can be striking, just plain beautiful- but this garnishes a degree of attention and one can quickly realize that is indeed not a "real" woman. In fact, most of the transsexuals who tend to fool me, tend to be the most "plain jane" looking girls. Girls you would not look at twice, but they blend in so well, they look like an every day woman.
As a personal prefference, given the choice, I'd rather be beautiful or striking than "passable". Maybe that has to do with growing up feeling ugly? But, I think if one is comfortable with oneself, and lives her life happily to her own aesthetic desires then she can be satisfied and you then you let all those worries go. Some girls just want to blend in and look unnoticible. Still, there are certain people and places who will always clock you. That is just life. We are not talking cross dresser here- or an obviously bad attempt to look like a woman. I don't care who you are- you are bound to get spooked on occassion.
Alot of men expect ALL transsexuals to be beautiful or passable and that is impossible. Just as there are fat,skinny, short, tall, unattractive, ok looking, and beautiful women- you will find the same spectrum with men and in transsexuals. I just think the difference is that most transsexuals strive to be beautiful or passable- but you are dealing with genetics and surgeons are not magicians and everyone has certain limitations. I often find it funny when someone says- oh her hands are too big, her feet-, well yes I feel bad for a girl who has to wear a size 13 shoe but she can't do anything about it. There are a lot of women with big feet- there are shoe sites on the net especially designed for women with larget feet. These products are all made and marketed TO WOMEN.
I certainly do not find every man I see personally attrective- so why should you expect the same from transsexuals? I think this has to do with they myth that we are all beatiful and well hung.
Sopeaking from experience, I can tell you that a lot of men have varied taste in transsexuals. I have seen guys at the parties trying to talk the prettiest of the girls there and then to a drag queen next. I don't know if they are horny, or what have you, but it goes to show you that THERE IS SOMETHING FOR EVERYONE.
