Some of us old timers had one of our 7AM post club breakfast roundtable discussions last night/this morning and the biggest subject was what people in this scene think of as "fame". People who think they are famous because they get 200 views on a Youtube video. People who think they are famous because they made a porn video or two. People think they are famous because they are Craigslist escorts. People who think that every girl is looking at them and jealous of their fame and beauty (when most of them are staring and whispering "Is that a guy?"). People who take credit for everything, like the rooster who takes credit for the sun rising. People who run around all day thinking/saying "they can't come for my realness".
But also important is the reason the discussion started is the "Star mentality" which has seemes to pervade this community. Girls treat other girls and the guys like they deserve to be treated like stars. And since they think they are the only one's who are stars, they want the limelight all to themselves. Girls who have known each other for years and should be friends stabbing each other in the back as soon as one of them thinks they are a bigger star than their friend. Girls unwilling to acknowledge that anyone else has had anything else to do with their "success" (like the girls who are constantly putting down any guys who are "chasers", when if it weren't for these very chasers, all they would be is "odd looking girls who most guys were afraid to talk to").
So, what is fame? Is it having a couple of hundred guys on a TS worship site kissing your ass all day every day? Is it a certain number of views on a Youtube video or a certain number of Myspace friends? Is it being on a couple of porn sites? And if that is fame, does that mean that the new celebrity is above her old friends and/or her "admirers"? Does the person owe anything to her friends who supported her on the way up? Does she even owe it to help the girls who would come behind her and encourage them, give them advice on how to get to where she got (help with advice on thing like what surgeries to get or not to get, what hormones to take, how to get into whatever section of the business she wants to - or a warning about what parts of the business to avoid).
Is there anything owed as payback? Is there any accountability or is there only entitlement? Have these girls worked so hard to be the beauties that they are that they deserve to have every whim catered to just because "they are them"? hHow much of it is just the admirers fault for the Codependent activities which allow/make them feel the ways they do? How much is it that tricks deserve to be treated like tricks* (even if the defintion of "trick" becomes "anyone but me")
* Somewhat of a correlary to the statement often attributed to Canada Bill Jones: "It's immoral to let a sucker keep his money."
