What the f*ck is up with some girls?!? Only date straight?

The following was my first post on this board:

"Okay, I just joined and this may not make me very popular, but I have to get it off my chest.

Okay...I am NOT an "admirer" or a freakin' "tranny chaser". My preference for transsexuals happens to be my sexuality, who and what I'm attracted to. I'm really sick of seeing guys like myself referred to by transsexuals as one of the aforementioned names.

Look, I know society treats transsexuals as oddities and lacks understanding of the decisions you made for yourself. I also understand the sick and twisted cyclical oppression that goes on in our community.

Wait a minute...did I say "OUR" community?

That's right, I said OUR community. The simple fact of the matter is that when I realized my sexuality and entered into a relationship with a transsexual, I became part of the transgender community. I, as a young white male open about who he was and is, became an oddity, a pervert in society's eyes.

And I'm not. Pisses me off to no end.

So, I refuse society's labeling of me. And of you. And because of that, I also refuse to let you, the people I support and love and am attracted to, demean me and the men who are similar to me for liking and supporting you for who and what you are.

peace. "

Now I bring it up again because, well, what the f*ck is wrong with some of you girls?

This whole "I only date straight men" is ludicrous.

I mean...come on! I never understood why transgender women would NOT want a man who loves and respects who they are, where they came from, and won't have any hangups about it. And it's fucking self-defeating for them because they choose guys that DO have hangups.

Arrrggghhh!!

*breathe*

i feel better now. carry on.

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I'm curious to hear what the "straight" dating ladies have to say :popcorn

"I only date straight" is another way for a TS to say that she only dates top guys. It doesn't really have any other hidden meaning.

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Originally Posted by Vicki Richter

"I only date straight" is another way for a TS to say that she only dates top guys. It doesn't really have any other hidden meaning.

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Well, thanks for letting me in on that. I'm a top....so I guess that makes me "straight" in a girl's mind? It sounds like too easy of an explanation...there's got to be more...no?

Hmmm. now that is interesting Vicki. That means I'm straight.. Hooray!

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Originally Posted by whatsupwithat

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Originally Posted by Vicki Richter

"I only date straight" is another way for a TS to say that she only dates top guys. It doesn't really have any other hidden meaning.

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Well, thanks for letting me in on that. I'm a top....so I guess that makes me "straight" in a girl's mind? It sounds like too easy of an explanation...there's got to be more...no?

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I think there is,maybe a little labeling!

But I often heard some girls say that they wouldn't date anyone who knew that they're a TG. They consider the men that don't know their TG status as "straight". They want a "straight" man to fall in love with them. Not an "admirer" or "trannychaser".

well, its confusing.

The question is among us "straight men who like transexuals" are we gay?..

Our minds tell us we're straight. My mind tells Me i am straight.. I have only been with ONE tgirl and I didnt go downstairs and i didnt want too. I am sure everyone here is slightly different about that. But as for me that's how i feel..

so we are straight.. but then there is the little issue down below to deal with. wait a minute.... but..
uhm
I dont feel like getting graphic here... but.... its confusing..

Also, from what I gather "trannychaser" is more applied to creepy guys that chase/stalk ts women on the d-l than an upfront no-nonsense fellow like yourself.

You sound like a nice guy so I'm sure there's someone out there for ya. Take care.

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Originally Posted by Kabuki

But I often heard some girls say that they wouldn't date anyone who knew that they're a TG. They consider the men that don't know their TG status as "straight". They want a "straight" man to fall in love with them. Not an "admirer" or "trannychaser".

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And that's what pisses me off. It's my sexuality. I'm not judging the girls for who they are. I just want to know why, to some, maybe not Vicki, it's bad thing to like them for who they are? What's up with that? A little self-hatred, maybe? Low self esteem?