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Haha! I'm with ya on not being able to watch a dude go down on a sexy as T-girl if he's got a beard. Like I and the OP alluded to, it's kind of funny how we all got our own individual likes and dislikes when it comes to these perfectly evolved women. But I just can't get with the anything up my ass. Had a doc give me a rectal exam years ago that lasted all of a few seconds, and that was the first and last time anything ever went in.Quote:
Originally Posted by bzzzay
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Originally Posted by giovanni_hotel
after 4000+ posts and years on this site where this question has been asked and answered in a variety of ways, i'm a bit shocked you are still curious.
it is not a unique concept that one's tastes can evolve...that is what makes us distinctly able to evolve...that we are not stagnant, we have the ability to change our behaviors. moreover, who says that anything is in fact evolving. one can just have had the right experience to trigger what could have been otherwise repressed desires. just because you may now act on something that you didn't or wouldn't have done when you were 15 is meaningless.
the question of why so many men like pre-op transwomen is as complex and equally meaningless as why men like brussel sprouts. there are many many different reasons, many of which have very little to do with evolving tastes.
there are also the two 800lb gorillas in the room which is ACCESS and ACCEPTANCE! you cannot discount what it means to be able to google any kind of porn or for that matter, any phrase and find that rule 34 applies. moreover, you cannot discount that we live in a time where acceptance of "alternative lifestyles" is more mainstream than not.
so, that being said, i find that your question, "why are SO MANY str8 men attracted to...." is flawed because you have to ask that relative to the time we live in where it is far easier to see/interact with transwomen and more acceptable to do so. transwomen represent a subset of "all women" who have their admirers. maybe the issue is that you see transwomen as something unique or taboo, where i do not. to me, just as black chicks are a subset of "all women", blondes are a subset of "all women," or asian chicks with webbed toes are a subset of "all women," so too are transwomen...a group to be admired for whatever artificial designation you give them.
Omg you are so full of shit you're married for crissakes...go jerk off in the library again.
because i love to suck a woman's dick. does that make sense? to hear her moans and taste her cum. and visually it is incredibly arousing to see that beautiful feminine face with a hard cock below ready to shoot a load
I agree with a lot of this.Quote:
Originally Posted by RallyCola
A fine TS woman who has her act together and takes care of herself is so sexy it's almost an unfair advantage. I love the latinas with their accent and the way they dress.
He jacked it in the library?Quote:
Originally Posted by nysprod
Totally uncool.
I'm still convinced it comes down to the penis.
I like it in my mouth, but she has to be really pretty.
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Originally Posted by RallyCola
You're comparing one's attraction to Black women to that of a man who discovers he has an attraction to a transwoman???
TS at best are uncommon. For me it's not about them being unique or a taboo.
I don't have a problem with my attraction to transwomen, however I've begrudgingly learned to accept the labels that are associated with men attracted to preop TS.
That's a huge leap for most identified straight men to accept, but it something we have to work through and learn to deal with.
Being attracted to transwomen is not about ACCESS and ACCEPTANCE.
I have access to all kinds of things through the magic of the internet. But for the most part my views on my own sexuality have been augmented, they didn't radically change. There's certain kinds of bodytypes I like, certain features I prefer in women. Generally that's where I gravitate to on the internet.
My attraction and exposure to TS is one of the few times since my adolescence where an image alone absent any experience coalesced my feelings sexually absent any real experience.
As an adolescent when you see a pic of a pretty naked woman, you know immediately how much you desire to be with her and know intuitively what you would do sexually.
For the same thing to happen after age 32 when you see your first images of TS isn't something IMO you would anticipate happening.
And it's not whether or not I believe TS are a subset of all women. When you meet a genuine trans-chick for the first time, everything about her personality wise vibes you the same way as any other woman would.
But it's definitely NOT accepted.
Lesbians are accepted. Even gay football players are accepted, except maybe in the lockerroom.
I have yet to see a straight guy in love with a TS embraced or supported publicly by anyone or any advocacy group.
Straight man/TS relationships threaten the status quo, and make both MEN and WOMEN insecure on a level that gay and lesbian relationships do not.
Sexuality and changes in food appetites is a really poor analogy.
Most of us are hardwired into who we are going to be sexually in our teens.
We might add a few kinks here and there, but for straight men the finale still ends with our dick in a woman's mouth, or fucking a pussy or ass.
My younger self would literally not know who I was sexually.:ignore:
To reach a point in life where you now view genitalia as gender-neutral and NOT gender defining, at least for me, is a radical change in perspective.
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Originally Posted by giovanni_hotel
Well I can only give you my take on it through my experiences. I too am a Black man, I love pussy. In fact, I didn't even know what I TS was before 1992. I still remember my first experience it I remember when I saw her dick and I didn't freak out. She went down on me, I didn't touch her (in fact it would be another two years before I would get the courage to touch a penis) but after that initial experience, I was hooked. I would go to NYC all the time Sally's became one of my favorite hangouts. Eventually I did everything with a TS (include getting fucked - tried it twice 11 years apart and I realize that is not my thing). I too would date one IRL if the opportunity presented itself. I love their femininity and some can be quite charming once they know you are not bullshitting them. Treat them like ladies and most of them will treat you like a king.