Re: Men on dating ts women
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Originally Posted by
alyssaluxor
I really appreciate guys who are honest to say to me that they really want to meet and fuck me but they dont have money. Its good for me as long as i find them hot and yummy ill fuck them lol
But the guys who will tell they want date or make friends just to get a freebie sex and I dont feel they are serious for a date or friendship! Ewwww total waste!
Fantastic post! Thanks brother!
Re: Men on dating ts women
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Originally Posted by
tsadriana
Kelly honesty is the key, however, not everyone is going to be honest about their intentions when you first meet them and some men will just downright lie and tell you what you want to hear. So far, I have only had a small percentage of men be honest in admitting they only want NSA sex, the vast majority of men have lied to me and then to make it even more difficult you have the men who were interested in a LTR but have now deemed you easy and decided you are no longer LTR material.
Agree i could relate to this so much
So much lie from guys saying they want date or friendship but the truth they just want free sex lol
Re: Men on dating ts women
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Originally Posted by
KellyShore
This is exactly what I am talking about! I am so glad you shared this and came out respectfully!
I like when we all can have intellectual conversations on here and not bash one another!
I so can feel you on this and have seen this time and time again with my ts girlfriends. Which is why most of my girlfriends are female. Transsexuals to me are just to superficial and have so many inside hatred it's hard to be friends with them. I've only met a handful that are sane and cool. I wont mention names so it doesn't cast anyone out.
But I have always felt transsexuals are the major cause of a lot of their issues! As well as deaths..that may seem unfeeling of me...but it's the truth.
Thanks Kelly, you are the bomb dear. lol. I don't know if you will recall this but I remember mentioning twice before that I take great satisfaction and hope from the relationship between you and your husband. I am happy for you both, I just want to see it happen more in our community.
The two main reasons why I use this forum are to (hopefully) have healthy discussions pertaining to our community and to post pictures of my photoshop work that I enjoy so much! (lol @ myself.) I don't consider this to be "just a porn forum" it is a discussion board with very few limits. It is what it should be in design, it is not nearly what it could be in the hands of many of the participants.
There are so many petty squabbles that go on every week on this forum about who is most attractive or who is less slutty among the gals. There is so much bickering among the men about "I only like the feminine part. I ONLY top, neeeevvvvvvvvvveeeeeeeeeerrrrrrrrrrrrr bottom!!!"
Newsflash people: it doesn't fucking matter what part of any of this that you enjoy. It doesn't matter if your asshole is wider than the Grand Canyon or smaller or tighter than the tip of a needle. Nobody in their right mind, no one that is truly connected to themselves in a spiritual way believes you are a good or bad person or an ok or not ok person because you like super-fem trans chicks or if you like wigs on a football. The people that worry about that stuff condemned ALL of us a long time ago. There are is no partial credit among that crowd for your specific tastes.
Wake up people: stop the infighting here at this forum about these petty differences. There are people lurking these threads searching for answers and seeking acceptance for who they are. How you treat your own self and how you treat others for their preferences on here could be the difference between saving a life and making one more person believe they will never belong or be ok anywhere.
Re: Men on dating ts women
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Originally Posted by
dabaldone
Fantastic post! Thanks brother!
My pleasure always sis :jerkoff
Re: Men on dating ts women
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Originally Posted by
dabaldone
Great post Kelly, thank you! I happen to be a trans-attracted man. I've been in a couple of reelationships (3yrs and 8yrs). I've heard the "Oh, you date trans-women. I want a man that hasn't or doesnt date trans-women". WTF! So you would rather be with a man who has no idea on what issues he may have nor what his family and friends would say. These same misguided fools then wonder why thoes guy's have issues and can't handle it. SMH!
Exactly...sometimes guys that are past the fact are so much easier..
Lord knows I have had to baby and be patient with quite a few of my exes and my husband..was it worth it to me..yes..but would I of rather they had already known what they wanted and dealt with everything OF COURSE
Re: Men on dating ts women
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Originally Posted by
EvonRose
This is something culturally very western, Allysa. Men here are stuck on those ways and forget life outside other countries, what do expect from a culture who's divorce rate is 50 percent...
I see thanks for the info girl i think this is the reason why I always feel and notice that Western guys ive dated are more expecting to have sex on the first date. Asian men in Asia doesnt really expect sex on first date
Re: Men on dating ts women
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Originally Posted by
EvonRose
Being an escort does make one incapable of emotion, or a love life. So the totality of what your saying is false.
i can see now the problem with you is more complicated than just miscommunication.
Re: Men on dating ts women
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Originally Posted by
KelticForce1349
Thanks Kelly, you are the bomb dear. lol. I don't know if you will recall this but I remember mentioning twice before that I take great satisfaction and hope from the relationship between you and your husband. I am happy for you both, I just want to see it happen more in our community.
The two main reasons why I use this forum are to (hopefully) have healthy discussions pertaining to our community and to post pictures of my photoshop work that I enjoy so much! (lol @ myself.) I don't consider this to be "just a porn forum" it is a discussion board with very few limits. It is what it should be in design, it is not nearly what it could be in the hands of many of the participants.
There are so many petty squabbles that go on every week on this forum about who is most attractive or who is less slutty among the gals. There is so much bickering among the men about "I only like the feminine part. I ONLY top, neeeevvvvvvvvvveeeeeeeeeerrrrrrrrrrrrr bottom!!!"
Newsflash people: it doesn't fucking matter what part of any of this that you enjoy. It doesn't matter if your asshole is wider than the Grand Canyon or smaller or tighter than the tip of a needle. Nobody in their right mind, no one that is truly connected to themselves in a spiritual way believes you are a good or bad person or an ok or not ok person because you like super-fem trans chicks or if you like wigs on a football. The people that worry about that stuff condemned ALL of us a long time ago. There are is no partial credit among that crowd for your specific tastes.
Wake up people: stop the infighting here at this forum about these petty differences. There are people lurking these threads searching for answers and seeking acceptance for who they are. How you treat your own self and how you treat others for their preferences on here could be the difference between saving a life and making one more person believe they will never belong or be ok anywhere.
It's a reason I distanced myself from the board...
I used to love the group of girls and guys that were on here before even with our differences we still all got on and were able to still speak to each other as humans..
Johnny, Nicole, Emily, Ed, Mimi, Ashley etc etc etc
Now it's turned into a whose the hottest and whose the most passable and whose bitchier than who and whose got the biggest balls contest on here..
It's boring
Re: Men on dating ts women
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Originally Posted by
amberskyi
I have always said that if a guy doesn't want to date a girl for no other reason than the fact that she is a ts than he is a chaser.
I don't care about a guys past, what I do care about is if he sees me as a person or as an experience/fantasy
Even if your not a TS, technically you are an experience.
Re: Men on dating ts women
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Originally Posted by
alyssaluxor
I see thanks for the info girl i think this is the reason why I always feel and notice that Western guys ive dated are more expecting to have sex on the first date. Asian men in Asia doesnt really expect sex on first date
Asian men have more traditional values, and that's why marriage there is 80 percent successful! lol...