It's getting to that point with me as well. And I treat her like any woman should be treated...with respect.Quote:
Originally Posted by simon13
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It's getting to that point with me as well. And I treat her like any woman should be treated...with respect.Quote:
Originally Posted by simon13
Are you serious? You need to look in the mirror baby you're a beautiful woman that needs to work on your self esteem but beautiful non the less.Quote:
Originally Posted by blonde_sweetheart
I'm sorry, but that sounds like a load of self-loathing bull crappies. I'm not claiming you haven't been through some seriously rough patches, but you're still young. I just don't think you're being fair on yourself coming to the conclusion that you'll remain single the rest of your life.Quote:
Originally Posted by blonde_sweetheart
Everybody gets screwed over. I've been cheated on twice and I couldn't ever put anyone else through that because I know first hand how much that shit sucks. I feel for ya. It seems as though society as a whole has completely given up on the idea of a monogamous relationship, but that's pretty easy to say when you're content staying single. I just don't imagine that contentment is going to last forever.
All guys aren't the same, but I'll give it to you. Most of the guys who would profess an interest in you are chasers with exploitative fetishes. I really can't offer any advise on how to avoid creeps, but that's what you need to learn. Good luck with that, lady. lol.
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Originally Posted by GrimFusion
Relax dude. Did you notice the date on that post? Or the guy who has been resurrecting really old threads like this one all day? All it took was moving to Chicago to cheer her up. She's a real sweetheart IRL.
I wasn't uppity to begin with, and no... I didn't notice the date. I usually just assume that since it's on the front page, it's open discussion.Quote:
Originally Posted by JoePitt
Good to hear, though.
i wish i had a bf... still looking for mister right...sigh.. :-/
I'm sorry that most of the girls on here have had bad experiences with guys. But many guys have had bad experiences with girls. As for me, never dated a tgirl or been with one, but if I choose to so, I would do so without regret or shame. What are people gonna call me.......gay??? Wow, I'm scared. LOL!!
As far as treatment, why would I date someone who I consider a woman and treat them like a man?? or different from how I would treat an ordinary gg?? For BLONDE SWEETHEART no, all men are not all the same you couldn't be further from the truth. As a matter of fact when "I" swim, go out etc, I leave my shirt "on" because I hate the way women look at my body and I never go shirtless in public either. And no I'm not fat,ugly etc. I'm a bodybuilder and in great physical shape, also drug free. It's funny to me because they stand there gawking, waiting like I'm just supposed to show all my goodies; because they assume that men in my physical condition want to show off their six packs. LOL!! I also refuse pathetic female advances in the gym(and I have heard some pathetic advances..... my goodness) it happens quit often, as a matter of fact I'm totally against fraternization in "many" parts of my social life. In short, I involved myself with the opposite sex only when truly necessary and it better be truly necessary.
It's funny, you see these women walking around in those "see more" clothes/shirts etc. With them so tight that their breasts have turned purple and they'd pop a button if they bent over. (Personally, I find this very offensive). Then they have gall to get offended at men when they start acting like "MEN" or when they get ogled or the men want to see them undressed to find out what else is there......??? Most little boys have peeked under a barbie dolls skirt at one time or another. I guess that's why I just stay to myself, who needs that garbage?
I have dated 2 transsexuals and 1 crossdresser
im also looking for a bf/husband always been my dream ;)
I'm in a relationship with a transsexual now, and last month we celebrated our 2 year anniversary. We have our ups and downs just like any other relationship. The main things (in my own opinion) you need in any relationship (Straight, Gay, lesbian, etc....) are:
1. Trust
2. Communication
3. Honesty
4. Respect for each other
The list could go on and on, and in no particular order. But you will never be able to have a long lasting loving relationship if you don't love yourself first. No I'm not talking about being in love with yourself (nobody likes an arrogant, self absorbed, narcissist). I mean if you don't like/love your self how can you expect someone else to. Easy thing to do is look in the mirror, and if you wouldn't date you - why would someone else?
I'm not bashing anybody here either. For and example (if I were single) I'd love to date Alyssa Luxor. I find her to be intelligent, honest, open minded, and very attractive. Then again there are girls on this bored I would not touch with a 10 ft pole.
So just remember the next time your out a a club, a bar, or any where you run into somebody. People aren't pieces meat, a random hole to stick your dick into, some mindless unemotional meat sack for you to get your rocks off on, or walking dollar signs. That goes for all genders. Treat the people they way you want to be treated, and in turn they will treat you the same way. If they don't...fuck 'em and get them out of your life. If you can follow these small simple things aka "common sense" you will be able to look in the mirror like what you see, and then be able to find someone.
Sorry I had to rant on and on like that.