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Blackaddaer wrote:
"If i spent all week talking to a girl and then she told me she was in prison for dismembering and eating people, well...Id kinda not want to talk to her. "
Are you seriously equating being TG with murder, dismemberment and cannibalism?
On this forum?
And you're also implying that if she told you up front about being a homicidal cannibal, you WOULD talk to her?
Hey, im only espousing being up front with a guy when you KNOW your interested and he may be interested back.... To my way of thinking it really behooves you to make every attempt to find out if hes going to be trassexual friendly from the get go.
Regular schmucks in your day to day life dont need to know anything.
Your wrong. If someone is turned on and attracted to another person it isn't something you can just turn off. Secondly, sexually orientation is the attraction to a man or a woman, not the attraction to a pussy or a cock. The mind doesn't work like that, its a mind funk in a way but its true.Quote:
Originally Posted by BlackAdder
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Originally Posted by str8curiousm
Quiet noob...
Oh i know just how complicated it is lol....But if were going to bandy words like "straight", "gay" and "bi" in the strictest sense.....Then i still think you cant be truly straight if your going to cross over...even with a truly beautiful TS like yourself or some of the other girls who post here....Im not sure what you are even after years of thinking about it, but i know your not "straight" by the definition.
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Originally Posted by NYTSJulie
I think you are wrong.......
Some guys DO NOT WANT a penis, Julie.
Edit in........
In fact, I KNOW I'm right about that.
I'm willing to bet that you do too.
I agree....some guys do not...its not anywhere in there worldview.
Some guys do, and are generally labeled as chasers by the community...unfortunate because again a small, malicious minority has ruined it for everyone.
And then theres the guys that might be okay with it after they know you for awhile..
But Ill tell you straight up......getting a guy emotionally hooked on you and then revealing your a TS can be devastating and dangerous.
Again, those are not the people I like to associate with. So what??? Let them talk! It takes more strength and compassion for others to be a transsexual then people will ever know. I am not asking for a man to tell his parents BUT if the convo came up he could just ask " Do you love her, do you think she loves me? Do you see how happy I am? Then why should it matter what's between her legs? That's between me and her and a very personal subject. I am a grown man and I love my girl, no matter who she is physically she is a respectful, smart, amaizing human being and you should care for her for that reason and that reason only! "
That's my kind of man, my kind of person.
Transsexuals tend to carry alot of burden on their shoulders. We sometimes forget that we are the only ones who can need to accept ourselves, and we do not need that from others to retain our happiness. Once we let go of some of that, and love ourselves, then you can be above any one who may not accept us. We need to search for those who do accept us. Like burn victims who feel ugly outside and just want someone to see who they are on the inside, or a blind person who can only see inner beauty, we need to do both for the sake of our own sanity. For ourselves.
Sexual orientation is not the attraction to a pussy or a cock. People are not attracted to genital. Example I like cock but I dont want to be with a tranny. I would be with a FTM be4 a tranny. I am attracted to a man, and someone who has the gender roles of a man.
By the way, if you think that SRS will release you from the responsability of being honest or being who you are - That is a HUUUUUUGE mistake. You will still need to be honest with yourself and others to acheave true happiness. That goes for the tranny chasers as well. Releasing yourself from what holds you from completing your lessons in life is a HUUUUGE mistake.
Love is about honesty - It starts with yourself first!
Don't be delusional thinking SRS will change things. MOST men will turn you down just out of fear of being "OUTED " even if you do have a pussy. You were still born a man and that will always be part of who you are. A relationship is based on honesty first. That is why alot of people are unhappy in their current relationships, they forget what is the fundemental basis of a healthy living.
There is a big difference between Living and just Surviving