Re: Men on dating ts women
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Originally Posted by
KittyPride
You call that a holocaust?
Well I think a lot of Tgirls deserve chasers because of their masculine behavior... and a lot of chasers deserve those Tgirls coz they are after transwoman that are half men anyway...
I know a lot of transwoman dont live in reality...
Ive talked to some that claimed they slept with men who did not notice at all they were TS... while I could obviously see it... let alone that men would not sense it...
Also a lot of them are in some sorth of denial that they are TS.
I know a girl that wanted to show her new date to a transgirlfriend of hers... and introduce him as "finally found a guy that isnt a chaser or cockhound" Turned out that he dated with her pre op girlfriend before and he especially like the cock lol
But my girlfriend did not tell her... not to dissapoint her... or betray the guy.
I am totally at ease with guys that have been with TS before... even TV's no problem!!! Its actually a plus cause you know they wont go mental after sex with strange feelings of guilt or go into a sexual identity crisis.
To be honest I really dont like men that do that. lol
I have been able to avoid it... but I think its horrible. happened to a lot of Tgirlfriends of mine. I kept my ears open and listened very carefully to them and tried to make sure it never happened to me.
I was warned for the cockhounds long before I ever dated fortunately lol.
I remember at first being so dissapointed to hear it and even kind of upset. But I had to take this for real.
Good thing that are guys out there that match with me too.
Also you are right about dating heterosexual men. Its not that easy. Especially for him... cause he has to give up his heterosexual identity to the outside world. It actually makes ME feel very bad for those guys.
Its unfair for them also.
Oh, please. Fuck them and their precious straight sexuality status. Talk about little boys not growing the fuck up. NO ONE CARES WHO'S "GAY" or really knows for sure quite how "gay" they are. There's a homosexual male subculture and there are meat markets which surround it. You'd do yourself a huge favor if you stopped confusing sodomy and "being gay". It speaks volumes about how sexually repressed you are, and how you were raised to feel guilty and embarrassed about yourself and what's in between your legs.
And something about your personal history rings untrue. I can't put my finger on it, but that "hearing about the cockhounds, and then I experienced them" stuff sounds like bullshit. Your philosophies on everything you talk about don't sound like they're based in reality. I get the sense that you're a part time CD living in a daydream.
Re: Men on dating ts women
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Originally Posted by
GrimFusion
I understood what you meant the first time. I think we're actually agreeing on a lot of stuff, but I went off on some weird tangent about HA specifically. I'm not denying that transgendered women generally have issues in relationships, especially if they get into escorting to support their transitions and then try dating. That's a crazy-ass lifestyle. My argument is that they have reasons neither of us totally understand because neither of us escorted (for any length of time... shhh! lol). I think it's understandable that they would mistreat good men they end up with. It's not right, especially when it's not the "defective boyfriend" but rather the girls own personal insecurities, a need to feel completely independent, and a fear of getting too close or personal that has them jumping through a series of shitty, short-lived relationships. It's not right, but it comes with the territory when your profession is getting used.
I know you're probably thinking "well, you're just considering escorts. That's not fair". You're right, and you may know better than I do, but I think there's a correlation between transsexual escorts and this type of behavior that doesn't exist in the same degree with girls who chose not to escort. The "I think I'm better than you" condescending attitude is human nature whenever anyone's self-image improves. Eventually that sense of entitlement wears off unless there are other underlying hang-ups.
My first post wasn't meant to demonize the guys around here. My only intention was to say that there's bull shit coming from both sides. It's not just a "Guys are all chasers" and "Tgirls are all so petty and insecure" deal. It's a "There are shitty people in both camps" issue. I've just noticed that in hanging around here since 2005, the majority of girls have a reason to be bitchy. The dudes? Not so much.
Lemme put it this way; despite the amount of ostrazation men face in introducing transgendered girlfriends to friends and family, if a dude just can't put up with the scrutiny, he still has the option to break up and go date a GG. Nearly instant normality. Do transgendered women have the same option? Just go right back to being a dude? Not really. It's not the same thing.
Guys that have been through two or three relationships with transsexuals know what they're getting themselves into. Assuming the first-timers are aware of the community, they hear about all that crap second-hand anyhow. It's not like we're completely blind-sided when we get dumped by a chick in the middle of a mental breakdown.
Wow grim im impressed!
I agree with you and you hit it right on the nail...Good job! I wish I could kiss you but the computer is kind win the way.
Re: Men on dating ts women
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Originally Posted by
EvonRose
Wow grim im impressed!
I agree with you and you hit it right on the nail...Good job! I wish I could kiss you but the computer is kind win the way.
Yeah, that was a good post.
Re: Men on dating ts women
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Originally Posted by
Nicole Dupre
Oh, please. Fuck them and their precious straight sexuality status. Talk about little boys not growing the fuck up. NO ONE CARES WHO'S "GAY" or really knows for sure quite how "gay" they are. There's a homosexual male subculture and there are meat markets which surround it. You'd do yourself a huge favor if you stopped confusing sodomy and "being gay". It speaks volumes about how sexually repressed you are, and how you were raised to feel guilty and embarrassed about yourself and what's in between your legs.
Humm hummm not quite sure what you mean. I mean... terms like sodomy to me sound like they originated from sexual repression????? I mean; cmon??
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Originally Posted by
Nicole Dupre
And something about your personal history rings untrue. I can't put my finger on it, but that "hearing about the cockhounds, and then I experienced them" stuff sounds like bullshit. Your philosophies on everything you talk about don't sound like they're based in reality. I get the sense that you're a part time CD living in a daydream.
I did not experience cockhounds... IRL. I filtered them out when I started online dating. There were very few men left lol. Close to none actually. lol
Once you say you are a TS... all kinds of shady people come after you lol.
I had the luck of meeting a transgendered woman with long experience and she told me all about the men she encountered... and also the stories her girlfriends told her through the years and it turns out she was a 100% accurate... well almost.
Im glad I was prepared... I would have felt very dissapointed when a nice guy would hit one me... only to find out he wants to wear my lingery and feel my cock in his ass.
I actually really dont get it, that I am one of the few girls here upset about that lol
Re: Men on dating ts women
Actually I have to apologize for comparing men to dogs awhile ago... That wasn't fair...
Dogs are loyal...
haha
Re: Men on dating ts women
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Originally Posted by
EvonRose
Actually I have to apologize for comparing men to dogs awhile ago... That wasn't fair...
Dogs are loyal...
haha
True I wish men were dogs :D lol
Re: Men on dating ts women
Sodomy is any sexual penetration outside of penile/vaginal. And I know the origin of the word and I still don't care. Sodomy's more accurate than saying "gay". I'm a proud sodomist.
You should read Michel Foucault's The History of Sexuality - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
Re: Men on dating ts women
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Originally Posted by
Nicole Dupre
Oh, please. Fuck them and their precious straight sexuality status. Talk about little boys not growing the fuck up. NO ONE CARES WHO'S "GAY" or really knows for sure quite how "gay" they are. There's a homosexual male subculture and there are meat markets which surround it. You'd do yourself a huge favor if you stopped confusing sodomy and "being gay". It speaks volumes about how sexually repressed you are, and how you were raised to feel guilty and embarrassed about yourself and what's in between your legs.
And something about your personal history rings untrue. I can't put my finger on it, but that "hearing about the cockhounds, and then I experienced them" stuff sounds like bullshit. Your philosophies on everything you talk about don't sound like they're based in reality. I get the sense that you're a part time CD living in a daydream.
Nice bait post.
Wouldn't it be kinda redundant if Kitty got all upset because you called her a crossdresser when you just got done claiming that dudes shouldn't get all worked up over petty labels? Oh, shit. I just spoiled it.
I agree with the first paragraph, though... kinda. There are people out in the world that have such a personal disdain for alternative sexuality that they're more than willing to meddle and cause problems. For guys that purposely seek out transsexuals, that's not a valid reason for a dude to claim he's 100% straight. That's just a big fuckin' lie. That's where your opinion and mine kinda part ways.
If a dude wants to be a dumb ass and claim he's 100% straight on a transsexual porn forum, I don't feel the need to call him out because intelligent posters can already see right though that veil. If that same dude gets a shot with a girl around here that's gullible enough to believe him, more power to the dude. At least he's getting laid, and I know which chick I probably want to avoid talking to.
I know I don't need to get into it, but fuck it. Personally, I'm secure in the idea that I have no fucking clue what my "determinable sexuality" is. I don't give a damn. If I could give less of a damn than that, I'd set it aside for the dipshits who think their opinions of my sexuality have an impact on me. If someone else's opinion of my sexuality is so negative they feel the need to explain it to me, I don't need them around. I don't get mad about it, I just don't get involved. Call me gay. It'll make me giggle.
Re: Men on dating ts women
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Originally Posted by
Nicole Dupre
I'm more content just calling it anal sex. I don't need to be reminded that one of my sexual interests is named after a city in ancient Canaan and the basis of a fucked up set of Bible passages that speak against the act of sodomy as a sin. It's kinda a buzz kill.
Re: Men on dating ts women
Sodomy wasn't not a sin, it was an abomination...
Ancient translation translated abomination to something uncommon, or unclean. Not sin.
