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Originally Posted by deee757
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same here lolQuote:
Originally Posted by deee757
And I as a transexual totally agree with this statement. I am 37 years old, have been iditifying as transgenderd since i was 17, and when I go in public, even to this day, a black person will always be the one to talk shit, call me a man and laugh. Case in point, last week in my job, myself and 2 trans girls were walking in Humbolt Park, a Puerto Rican neighborhood, where 2 Puerto Ricans and a Black man stood. The Black man was the only person to say some bullshit. This is an everyday occurance in both Chicago and NYC. I apss thru white, asian and latino people in groups and why is it blacks are the ONLY ones to think its a joke? This is not stereotyping, this is a FACT that I have lived for well over 15 years. And funny, I always look better than the people talking shit and the woman with them.Quote:
Originally Posted by blckhaze
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Originally Posted by TsVanessa69
Well I just want to make it clear, all blacks are not like that and all parts of chicago is not like that. I know that for a fact
i lived in the projects a while back when my mother was alive and surprisingly i didnt have a hard time at all with anyone making comments or remarks
Ive lived in hunts point where it was awfully ghetto and hookers roamed in the daytime with children on their way to school, and i dint have issues with people out there eiither
When i was in college there was an incident with a black girl who swore up and down i was a "dude" and felt it her business to tell some other students in the break area, and i approached them about it. i told them if u wanna know what i am dont ask her, she's not fucking me. She dont know what i have between my legs. They asked me and i told them its irrelevant because im not interested in any of them, im here for school and they should b as well instead of sitting around the lounge trying to figure out what i have between my legs.
There was another incident with a black guy without cause, who stalked me down a very busy street with a fkkn butcher knife simply because im trans. I stopped the police, and an elderly black woman told the police i started it!!!
Another incident on 42nd street where i was walking with some of my friends and some black guy in the backseat of a SUV tried to spit on me
Another incident with a black client who assaulted me because he had been drinking and wasnt able to cum within the hour
Another incident, actually this one was in hunts point, where a blk guy pulled out a gun on me and stole my jewelry, AFTER WE HAD SEX
Another blk client who would pay the first time and then wen he earned the girls trust he would put empty envelopes down on the table
Another situation where a group of black guys on the train wanted to jump me and my boyfriend just for looking at them
MOST OF MY negative experiences in life have been with black folk. and if u ask most other transexuals they will tell u the same. Not saying that spanish people dont have their fair share as well but they joke and laugh, while blk guys get angry and offended at the very thought of a person living their life opposite the sex they were assigned at birth
I can go on and on about my experiences with black folk, but yet and still i am not a racist. Someone mentioned earlier about girls who dont date black men, that if they ran a legit job, would be slammed with lawsuits. I found it funny. But the truth is while that is true, this is not a legit business and the girls do what they have to do to protect themselves. Sometimes forming these generalizations is the difference between life and death. I have learned over time to avoid groups of young black men. And while some may be harmless, a lot of the times when u put them in groups they DONT KNOW HOW TO ACT! Maybe thats a generalization, but id rather cross that fucking street than wind up on the 10 oclock news. I STILL date black men, but i dont date any character with a shady/urban/ghetto vibe over the phone whether they r white black brown green blue red or whatever!
[quote="jjhill"]You are very right on both points and I never siad EVERY black person was. Just I have been conditioned by black people and the way they treat me in PUBLIC to know when I am going to pass them, expect bullshit, and without fail, it happens. But as I am always on point when I leave my house, I see it as jealousy or the fact they know they are out of their league. Thus I do find a great satisfaction and thrill about shoving my cock down a black clients throat or pounding the frustartions out on their asses.Quote:
Originally Posted by TsVanessa69
AMEN SISTA! Your stories are parellel to mine.Quote:
Originally Posted by RubyTS
But YES I do have black clients, and I have even tried to date black men in my personal life, which was another disaster.
And the funny thing is, the kool black people always say Puerto Ricans are the same as black, yet growing up I got shit from them for being Puerto Rican and trans. So I just always have my guard up, and I deal with every person of ANY race I meet on a 1 on 1 bases. Do white people have issues with TS? Yes, but are much less likely to ever open their mouths about it in public. Do Puerto Ricans have issues with TS? Yes, but its NEVER been as fierce as it has with black people. And once again I am only speaking on what I have PERSONALLY lived.
and if any of the other girls spoke up im sure u would see many more common denominators
So you do these things too? Or are different than those "people". You're also stereotyping yourself with your comments.Quote:
Originally Posted by blckhaze
This is a ridiculous statement. I've served 15 years in the U.S military living with many different races. I think i've seen more diversity than any of you ladies. Again any of your negative comments toward blacks can be applied to ANY racial group. But it's clear that you have had some pretty bad experiences with CERTAIN black people.Quote:
Originally Posted by RubyTS
yeah cuz we see tons of asians chasing trannies down the streets with bottles :roll:Quote:
Originally Posted by fitz207
A couple of black friends of mine have told me that Puerto Rican's and Mexican's were the most racist of all hispanics groups. You pass white, asian and latinos and nothing is said? Again that's because you haven't been everywhere, you're mostly talking about NYC and Chicago. Walk down the road in my uncle's neighborhood in Louisiana. You would run back to Chicago. Because latinos, asians and blacks are hated equally there. NY and Chicago is a cake walk in comparison. :lol: :lol:Quote:
Originally Posted by TsVanessa69
This has turned into a verbal lynching of black men.
Yeah, but I'm close to silver spring MD. Which has a large hispanic population. A lot of the spousal abuse is committed by hispanic men toward hispanic women. So i guess that proves ALL hispanic men are wife beaters. Right? :roll:Quote:
Originally Posted by RubyTS
who said all?
I'm white and we're the ones often accused of being the most racist. But it seems like some in the latino community are about to take our place.Quote:
Originally Posted by jjhill
Ok Ruby 99.9% right? :lol:Quote:
Originally Posted by RubyTS
when i speak, i speak from my experience using the terms "in my experience ive noticed that the majority of black people ive come into contact with...." If u read thru my posts youll notice i never say all or every, unless im referring to my experiences as a whole, or when im just being cute.
:lol: lmfao, I love white people. I love all people. Majority of my friends are white and my lady white.Quote:
Originally Posted by fitz207
i would just be happy when u call me coon nigger boy, all this side talking. You dont like blacks dont sugar coat it. you cant use your experiences as an excuse
i have more than enough reasons to dislike black people, but i have ONE REALLY GOOD REASON not to :peanutbutter
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lol, george wallace with hormonesQuote:
Originally Posted by RubyTS
i love this
SAomebody telling you and you expierencing it for YOURSELF are 2 different things. I speak on what I have EXPIERENCED. This months Puerto Rican newspaper features an article written about me and my contributions to my community despite being a transwoman. I am Puerto Rican and when I go to my country the men are LOVE, RESPECT and thats it. Even my girlfriend who is incidentally black and lives in Brooklyn pointed out the fact that when we are on the island, she wishes guys in the states would learn from them.Quote:
Originally Posted by fitz207
No he is just stating facts.Quote:
Originally Posted by fitz207
He's stating an opinion based off his experiences.Quote:
Originally Posted by TsVanessa69
I can't believe this has gone on for 31 pages!
.....of bullshit.
Should we compare the racism and prejudices that transgendered individuals or even puerto ricans have endured compared to blacks, native americans, irish, jews, etc?
Look we're basically saying, don't let personal experiences dictate how you feel about a race. If I let personal experiences dictate my feelings, I would hate everyone. Even black people.
Puerto Rican people have been treated badly too.Quote:
Originally Posted by jjhill
But thats a whole nother story.
Just for he record, this Puerto Rican transexual take money from all races and creeds, and ass and mouth too!
Your right your right, everyone has. My comment was out of place. I'm just tired of the black male being the big bad bully or the ultimate oppressor.Quote:
Originally Posted by TsVanessa69
So because he is black he is now the authority? In case you haven't noticed I am as well. To use 1 man as the authority for an entire race is dumb.Quote:
Originally Posted by RubyTS
Absolutely correct.....Quote:
Originally Posted by deee757
aww yoshi u such a cute lil puppy dog mmmuah
HAH!
It's only an issue in your head cos you make it an issue. It's not an issue in mines. And I don't really need to justify or prove anything to you or anyone. You can interpret it any way you wish. :roll: People that has known me at this forum knows.Quote:
Originally Posted by deee757
Despite the bad experiences I've had, that still does NOT change my relationships with each one of them nor has stopped me being friends with others.
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Well thanks to you, playing devils advocate and fanning the controversy even more by linking another thread, this one just spun out of control. But you never said your piece about the 'touchy' subject, now have you?Quote:
Originally Posted by SarahG
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I wasn't trying to get turn this into a bash Hara thread.Quote:
Originally Posted by Hara_Juku Tgirl
I was simply showing that there is a double standard here.
When certain people say things, everyone goes and complains.
But when other people say them? No one says a damn thing, certainly don't react as passionately or belligerently.
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Originally Posted by Hara_Juku Tgirl
in other words : racists are those who choose to be racist.
those who don't tolerate poeple that are different from them.
those who preter to generalise races instead of judging poeple individualy.
there are assholes in every race , and there are good poeple 8)
Ok Ok, lets take a different approach... We can all presume that a racist is a person who dislikes or judges people based on their race......so all of the people who refuse to offer their services to certain races, explain why this is not being a racist, and give some examples of what you think racism is. (please don't refer to your three black friends you have tolerated for humanitarian reasons) Next thing....Are there any positive experiences with black man that can be shared on this forum....please speak up. I once heard a man say, nobody oppresses like the oppressed.......
@deee757Quote:
Originally Posted by deee757
On point One, I'm NOT offering services (I work in health care full time). And back then when I lived back east and I did bdsm session 3 nights a week (for 3 years) at an NYC fetish club, I've always been an equal opportunity dominatrix. Money talks, bullshit walks! If anyone who's seen me work at the club, they know I mean business. Sure, I've been stiffed inside the club by a black guy no less. But that didn't stop me from entertaining others that came in.
Point Two, That's never been done (I don't think)..a feel good thread..why don't you initiate it and see where it leads?
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