Why are you single?

Nice avatar cuteguy79. ;)

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thank u Hara_Juku Tgirl nice avatar urself :)

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Originally Posted by cuteguy79

thank u Hara_Juku Tgirl nice avatar urself :)

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Thanks cuteguy79. :P "I vant to see moree"..J/k LOL ;)

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Why are you single?

Im wondering how many people on here can answer these question honestly:

1. Why are you single? (If you're attached, in a relationship or is married..then the question would be: Are you happily married or happy with your current relationship?)

Ovid said, "I chase those who flee me, and flee those who chase me", and I think that pretty much sizes me up. I don't suffer from a dearth of female companionship, but there is no depth in any of those relationships. I've had one woman who until recently gave up on me after two years. She had it all: Looks, education, success,etc., but she wasn't for me, as I felt I didn't have compatibility where it mattered. I try to account for all contingencies, as I don't care to have my heart broken by not studying the situation clearly through. Iow, I can't allow my libido to take charge.

2. How long have you been single? (If you're attached, in a relationship or is married..then the question would be: How long have you been in a relationship or have been married?)

Hmmmmm. It's been a long time since I've had someone I could call "my girlfriend". Too long. :)

3. What are you seeking out on here (online or in real time)? If married or attached and in a relationship..What then seems to be lacking in your present relationship as the case may be?

Hmmmm. Compatibility for one thing. Someone to have fun with.

4. Do you think you'll ever find what you're seeking for within a few months to a year (timeframe) from now?

No. The worse thing one could do is put a timeline on something like that, because you can't ... you shouldn't. Not only that, I am not really actively seeking that right now. If it happens, it happens.

5. If you've answered YES to No.4, How do you plan to go abouts finding what you are looking for?

6. If you've answered NO to No.4, Why not?

It is the epitome of desperation to force a relationship with another complex individual based on a timeline. These things generally happen when one is not on the prowl.

7. Would you invest alot of your time on here (Online or in real time), money and what not to find it?

Hmmmm, good question. Again, this is something that would just happen. I don't know if one can plan on this.

8. If you answered NO to No.7, Then what are your other options?

This should make for very interesting thread and responses. So start the ball rollin'. LOL. Laughing

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Originally Posted by whatsupwithat

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Originally Posted by Hara_Juku Tgirl

Why are you single?

Im wondering how many people on here can answer these question honestly:

This should make for very interesting thread and responses. So start the ball rollin'. LOL. :lol:

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Honesty...okay.

Haven't found the right person. I'm not just after sex. I wish I was. But I'm not. I'm looking for intimacy, trust, and and an open and honest relationship. Finding that is anything but easy.

The worst part is my sexuality. I have girls that like me. Not a problem at all. But I like transgendered girls. So, I've basically been celibate for about 4 years now since I ended a 13 year relationship with a TS (we're friends now...long story).

As for hoping I'll find something online...given up hope on that. As for meeting someone at one of the many parties, I really doubt it. Or at least finding what I'm looking for. I mean, grabbing my crotch or wagging an ass in front of my face is really lame. And I really, really don't care how big someone's dick is. I'd much prefer a conversation...maybe I'm looking for love in all the wrong places? :P

The thing is I don't have a problem taking care of someone financially. But, to me, I feel bad giving a tgirl money for sex. I feel I'm letting her down, if that makes any sense. Money doesn't buy happiness or if it does, it's very short-lived. I know, I've had tons of money, lost tons of money, and got it all back again. Yeah, I can afford lots of stuff, but I kick around in jeans and a tshirt and take the subway. To me, anyone who's impressed by a car or a jet or whatever accoutrement people buy to give themselves self-esteem is only letting him or herself down in the end.

I sound bitter, but I'm really not. Always find me with a smile and always, always ready to have fun and dance. Life's too short to take it seriously.

much peace all. :)

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Wow. Amazing how much one can change from day to day. There's still a bit of me in there...and a bit of someone else.

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Wow. Amazing how much one can change from day to day. There's still a bit of me in there...and a bit of someone else.

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Could you elaborate Mr whatsupwithat? :P

What has changed?

;)

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