do ts's ever turn back n go back to living as a male?

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Originally Posted by theone1982

That's an interesting point. How many post-ops actually bring up the fact that they are transsexual? Obviously, it would come up in a relationship when the thought of having children comes up, but isn't one of the points of being post-op that the topic isn't brought up unless they want it to be? Unless, they are one of the muscular ones in mini-skirts that you mentioned. However, it seems unlikely that someone who isn't on a hormone regimen whould have SRS surgery. Can you even be allowed to have the surgery if you aren't on hormones first?

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It is an interesting point. I've been with quite a few post-ops and they've always been pretty and very feminine in every way, so it is hard to tell, especially with petite Asian girls. Some are terrified about letting you know because they've been rejected so many times before, sometimes violently, others are simply shy, but they will usually tell you, quite often the first time, especially if you're gentle and considerate, which is how I tend to be.

I was once dating a very pretty ts, and she randomly asked me one night if I would still date her if she went back to living as a man...I was honest and said no, and she got pissed and we basically stopped dating,...still not sure if it was because she was testing to see if i liked her personality over her looks or if she was really thinking about going back, one thing i do know...all traces of her have disappeared from the internet...O_o

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Originally Posted by mealticket

I was once dating a very pretty ts, and she randomly asked me one night if I would still date her if she went back to living as a man...I was honest and said no, and she got pissed and we basically stopped dating,...still not sure if it was because she was testing to see if i liked her personality over her looks or if she was really thinking about going back, one thing i do know...all traces of her have disappeared from the internet...O_o

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Well I doubt she would wanna date you anymore if you decided you wanted to be a woman one day, so thats kind of a ridiculous question.

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Originally Posted by mealticket

I was once dating a very pretty ts, and she randomly asked me one night if I would still date her if she went back to living as a man...I was honest and said no, and she got pissed and we basically stopped dating,...

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I'm sorry, but that actually did make me laugh. People are funny. Thanks for sharing that.

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Originally Posted by theone1982

That's an interesting point. How many post-ops actually bring up the fact that they are transsexual? Obviously, it would come up in a relationship when the thought of having children comes up, but isn't one of the points of being post-op that the topic isn't brought up unless they want it to be? Unless, they are one of the muscular ones in mini-skirts that you mentioned. However, it seems unlikely that someone who isn't on a hormone regimen whould have SRS surgery. Can you even be allowed to have the surgery if you aren't on hormones first?

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Honesty is always the best policy.. When I'm post op i wouldn't want to be with a guy, begin a relationship, then after things become serious worry about telling him and how he's going to react. I think most girls would just rather be upfront and sort out the guys that would be comfortable with it and the guys that wouldn't be right from the start.
Unless they're just looking for one night stands then I guess it wouldn't particularly matter
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Originally Posted by tsnajwa

Honesty is always the best policy.. When I'm post op i wouldn't want to be with a guy, begin a relationship, then after things become serious worry about telling him and how he's going to react. I think most girls would just rather be upfront and sort out the guys that would be comfortable with it and the guys that wouldn't be right from the start.
Unless they're just looking for one night stands then I guess it wouldn't particularly matter
xx

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Like I said before, Najwa, that pretty much ties in with my experience, unless a girl has suffered a violent response or multiple rejections in the past. My view is that it doesn't matter - it was the initial attraction that got us to that point in the first place, so why should the revelation make any difference? And if a girl has taken her transformation to the point of becoming a total woman, rejoice in the fact with her.

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Originally Posted by tsnajwa

Honesty is always the best policy.. When I'm post op i wouldn't want to be with a guy, begin a relationship, then after things become serious worry about telling him and how he's going to react. I think most girls would just rather be upfront and sort out the guys that would be comfortable with it and the guys that wouldn't be right from the start.
Unless they're just looking for one night stands then I guess it wouldn't particularly matter
xx

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Exactly. Thank you. Why should I be ashamed, or even want to be with someone, who wouldn't understand? Far too many awesome guys don't care.

But it goes even beyond just me. Some people have standards and a moral compass. My friend is really amazing. She's a GG. And two of her biggest dealbreakers with guys are that her closest friend is a TS, and that her niece is half black. She looks at it like, 'whoever can't accept them doesn't belong in my life'. You've gotta love that. :)

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Originally Posted by Nicole Dupre

Exactly. Thank you. Why should I be ashamed, or even want to be with someone, who wouldn't understand? Far too many awesome guys don't care.

But it goes even beyond just me. Some people have standards and a moral compass. My friend is really amazing. She's a GG. And two of her biggest dealbreakers with guys are that her closest friend is a TS, and that her niece is half black. She looks at it like, 'whoever can't accept them doesn't belong in my life'. You've gotta love that. :)

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I'm genuinely shocked to learn that there are still guys who actually think like that. Where do they get it from? SMH.

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Originally Posted by robertlouis

I'm genuinely shocked to learn that there are still guys who actually think like that. Where do they get it from? SMH.

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Just look at the type of people who demanded to see Obama's birth certificate. That should give you an idea.

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Originally Posted by Nicole Dupre

Just look at the type of people who demanded to see Obama's birth certificate. That should give you an idea.

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You have to admit that birth certificate situation was pretty damn funny when it was going on