My first real date since 2005

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06-12-2008
TsVanessa69

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Originally Posted by Mylon

You get what you ask for. If you haven't had a date since 2005 that's because you haven't been looking for one.

Escorts have to go out of their way to have non-escort-like encounters.

Now thats the most stupidest thing I have heard yet. See I don't escort full time, I have other legit sources of income. Have I looked for a date since then , no because nobody "looks" for dates. Have men ask me on dates to impress me, the blow me off or stand me up last minute, YESS! The problem isn't me, its men and their insecurities! Look at the pics I posted in this thread. Not a drop of make-up!
06-12-2008
TsVanessa69

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Originally Posted by tstv_lover

I find myself very much in agreement with Hostile and Moon.

It's often the seemingly little things that make the biggest difference in a relationship. When I dated my last transsexual gf she got so much pleasure just being seen with a date in a restaurant, bar or shopping without the guy trying to hide in the dark or constantly be on guard. She just wanted to be treated like any girl on a date wanted to be treated.

It all comes down to respect, empathy and sharing time together. Sex is really such a small part of a relationship.

Hope that other girls follow your example Vanessa, and hope that other guys follow Phil's example.

Same with me, all I ask is to be treated like any other girl! Movies, burgers, pizza, bowling, walking along the lake, simple fun "normal" things. But when you are ts, thats all men see, they fail to realize that dep down inside, we are still woman. I posted this thread to hopefully enlighten the guys on here to what we realy want! To be treated normal and like a woman!
06-12-2008
Moon

Well said Vanessa, it is a shame some men don't look any deeper at a person than their skin, on the other hand some of us understand and treat others how they should be treated.

Come on guys be a little more sensitive and understanding. They are ladies, treat them as such
06-12-2008
tslvr

Vanessa, I sure hope you'll let me take you out on my next visit to Chicago. Don't know when that will be, I only know that it isn't going to be soon enough.

On the other side of the coin, I wonder how many times guys have sincerely asked a girl out for a date and got the response, 'sure, that'll be $xxx's'?
06-12-2008
thezodiac

I haven't been on a zoo since I was 10, 9 maybe? I'm now 33 years old...
06-13-2008
thx1138

"On the other side of the coin, I wonder how many times guys have sincerely asked a girl out for a date and got the response, 'sure, that'll be $xxx's'?" LOL
06-13-2008
BeardedOne

First off, Moon's av of 'Killer' is just to die for (I'm a cat lover, so sue me). :D

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Come on guys be a little more sensitive and understanding. They are ladies, treat them as such

Yet, as nature made us, we are guys and we picture them in oversized team t-shirts with a beer in one hand and a condom in the other asking "Izzit half-time yet?". :roll:

I see what both sides are saying though, and I'm glad Vanessa posted this thread. While it is nice to see one of the gurls having a fine day enjoying her life (They do have them, you know), it also shows that there was someone out there who stepped beyond the boundaries of the norm and treated her to and shared this most wonderful day.

I've been out and about with gurls since Gawd was a pup. In the 'old' days (And there were so many of them), they were chance meetings in odd venues (Gay Pride parades, bookstores, development conferences) and in recent times there were meetings from these forums. I've never treated them any differently than I've treated anyone else (Or so I believe. Only they could say for sure). How they see me may be skewed by the fact that I had a major breakdown in the late 1990s (Triggered by my last GG lover) and really don't fare well in public venues. What, to me, is a discomfort with the public at large for no more reason than the fact that they =ARE= the public at large, may appear differently to a gurl that doesn't know me very well.

Yet, when I spend time with a gurl it is as often to spend time with =her= as with the sum of her parts. There's no denying that I like the she-cock and there's at least a couple of gurl's here on HA that were afraid they'd lose it to me, I was so enthusiastic, but you can't have a conversation with a dick. Assholes don't tell the best jokes (Unless it's your boss, then you're just faking that laugh). And big tits can't chitty-chat about the weather and cats and flowers and old cars.

Yah, it's hard to 'date' an escort. As hard as it is for an escort to date a 'potential client'. Been there, done that. My first true 'girlfriend' was a street whore in Boston. A far cry from being an 'escort', the friendship/relationship presented challenges that I'd not wish on my worst enemies. Yet, when things got rough she'd call me and knew I'd always show. Yah, there was sex, but the relationship was always more than that, and I was happy to see her grow and move on to a better life.

Is your lady an escort? So what?
Is she a T-gurl? So?
Is she a Republican? Er...Never mind, I don't wanna travel that road.

Do you like her? Dare I say it? 'Love her'?

Take her to the zoo! Take her to the Museum of Science and Industry! Take her to Wrigley for a NIGHT GAME (They have lights now!).

And when people look at you, you know they are thinking "Now, =there= is a couple that is enjoying their life!".
06-13-2008
TsVanessa69

Quote:

Originally Posted by BeardedOne

First off, Moon's av of 'Killer' is just to die for (I'm a cat lover, so sue me). :D

Quote:

Come on guys be a little more sensitive and understanding. They are ladies, treat them as such

Yet, as nature made us, we are guys and we picture them in oversized team t-shirts with a beer in one hand and a condom in the other asking "Izzit half-time yet?". :roll:

I see what both sides are saying though, and I'm glad Vanessa posted this thread. While it is nice to see one of the gurls having a fine day enjoying her life (They do have them, you know), it also shows that there was someone out there who stepped beyond the boundaries of the norm and treated her to and shared this most wonderful day.

I've been out and about with gurls since Gawd was a pup. In the 'old' days (And there were so many of them), they were chance meetings in odd venues (Gay Pride parades, bookstores, development conferences) and in recent times there were meetings from these forums. I've never treated them any differently than I've treated anyone else (Or so I believe. Only they could say for sure). How they see me may be skewed by the fact that I had a major breakdown in the late 1990s (Triggered by my last GG lover) and really don't fare well in public venues. What, to me, is a discomfort with the public at large for no more reason than the fact that they =ARE= the public at large, may appear differently to a gurl that doesn't know me very well.

Yet, when I spend time with a gurl it is as often to spend time with =her= as with the sum of her parts. There's no denying that I like the she-cock and there's at least a couple of gurl's here on HA that were afraid they'd lose it to me, I was so enthusiastic, but you can't have a conversation with a dick. Assholes don't tell the best jokes (Unless it's your boss, then you're just faking that laugh). And big tits can't chitty-chat about the weather and cats and flowers and old cars.

Yah, it's hard to 'date' an escort. As hard as it is for an escort to date a 'potential client'. Been there, done that. My first true 'girlfriend' was a street whore in Boston. A far cry from being an 'escort', the friendship/relationship presented challenges that I'd not wish on my worst enemies. Yet, when things got rough she'd call me and knew I'd always show. Yah, there was sex, but the relationship was always more than that, and I was happy to see her grow and move on to a better life.

Is your lady an escort? So what?
Is she a T-gurl? So?
Is she a Republican? Er...Never mind, I don't wanna travel that road.

Do you like her? Dare I say it? 'Love her'?

Take her to the zoo! Take her to the Museum of Science and Industry! Take her to Wrigley for a NIGHT GAME (They have lights now!).

And when people look at you, you know they are thinking "Now, =there= is a couple that is enjoying their life!".

Life long Sox fan! Would love to catch a game with a cute guy!
06-20-2008
TsVanessa69

Quote:

Originally Posted by joserchi2002

A, did you kids have a chaparone?

and,

B, Did he have you back before curfew?

Well, I am sterile, so no kids, LOL
And yes we were back before curfew. We also kissed on the front porch :lol:

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