What the f*ck is up with some girls?!? Only date straight?

LOL

WORD! ;)

Welcome to the club Allanah. :P

~Kisses.

HTG

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Originally Posted by AllanahStarrNYC

I will no longer date any guys that are really into the scene, knows everyone's name, who every girl is and how big every girls dick is.

Never happening again.

In my personal life, I also only date tops. True tops. Not the ones that will pretend to be a top and then be bending over in an instant.

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ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh shaddup

Miss Girl Scout getting tagteamed porn queen.

Yes but that is bizness

Personal life and Work Life are two different things for me.

This has been a very enlightening thread. Plus, very few flames. :rock2

I'm here to learn to try to find an answer to some of my own curiosities and the info here appears to be some good advice!

I guess in the strictest sense of the word, I would probably be considered a 'trannychaser' (TC). However, I think that would apply to any guy here. If some of the guys are in LTR with a TG, granted they have more of an emotional involvement but 'technically' they are the most devout TC's. The rest us are just wannabe's :)

Perhaps there is more to the TC stereotype than I'm aware of so I don't mean offense to anyone.

The mental image of someone chasing a Scotsman in a kilt - OH THE HORROR! lol

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Originally Posted by JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel

warning my reply will be longer than anything Peggy has ever put up so you might want to skip it

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Originally Posted by Kabuki

But I often heard some girls say that they wouldn't date anyone who knew that they're a TG. They consider the men that don't know their TG status as "straight". They want a "straight" man to fall in love with them. Not an "admirer" or "trannychaser".

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uh huh, they always know, anyone that thinks otherwise is fooling themselves

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Originally Posted by trannybanger

i think any transwoman that thinks she can honestly only date "straight" guys that never had any previous interest in women like her, will not be dating very much. or she will look for a guy like that but take on the occasional "trannychaser" at her whim we she needs the attention... and how often is that?

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exactly............................

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Originally Posted by justatransgirl

To me just because a man enjoys the company or experience of being with a TS doesn't automatically make him gay or bi, unless HE feels he is. This is because straight men see TS's for the most part as women, not as femme gay boys with boobies. So they are relating to us as women - which is the wany most of us like it.

And why does it even matter?

Giggle,
TS Jamie

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Where are you located?!? Are there other women that THINK like you????? I'd like to at least visit this town because it sounds like a place I might like. I've been waiting for a woman to say something like this for a long time. THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

p.s. it doesn't matter

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Originally Posted by hollywoodbuckstrap

hmmmm I think ill add my own spin on this....they want a guy who has never been with a ts...never looked at ts porn....especially never been to any ts bars or events...that way they control the situation...therefore there is no support system for him but the girl... I think its total bullshit cause it sounds more like they want a guy they can mold and manipulate...these labels are so funny ...

I had a girl I know casually , ask about her boyfriend...I told her I saw him hanging in VIP hanging out years back...she was gonna break up with him cause ,he wasn't totally honest about going to a club....fucking so funny cause this was years b4 they met...

oh well I date ts girls!!!!!so fucking what...I had some ts pluck me out at a ts club..then she was done with me...where did it leave me? ill tell ya , real fucking confused about my current sexuality (never saw ts porn or sites b4 this)...I never had any problems with going out in public and shit with a ts...but inside I didn't know what is going on...it wasn't till I met this wonderful person who helped me find my way and cleared the air for me..If I hadn't met her I can tell you that I def wouldn't be here today...

like I had posted in an earlier post " if she's into you . U are str8 ... when she's done with you U are a fag...well I guess im str8 enough to have a gg sleep with me, cause her boyfriend can't make her orgasm...well enough of my rants...I will be returning to my one liners..

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this is post 'Gears of War' aggression, but it was a wonderful reply

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Originally Posted by peggygee

You guys, can ask each other a million times, in a million different ways.
And you can contuinue to re-affirm to one another your beliefs, but
when a women is telling you stop chasing her for her dick, you ain't
trying to hear it.

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HEHE.............................my response to that

I might portray an asshole at times on HA but years before this website existed I was friends with someone who is a legend in the ballroom scene. We met on the street and I never EVER chased her or wanted her for her dick, I knew she was a transsexual and I just thought she was cute as fuck and we both got along (both Virgo's go figure). We hung out alot at her place, did the movie thing, restaurants, typical shit, we didn't date we just enjoyed each other's company. I respected her escorting thing and never questioned her on it, we had sex one time and I blew her back out, that was it. We are still friends to this day and I'd do anything for her. She lives elsewhere and whenever she calls me and tells me she's coming home to NYC we go out and have a good time, again NO SEX just a man & a woman having fun. Is she passable, yes? Would it matter? No. Why? Because I LIKE HER FOR WHO SHE IS, I LOVE HER SOUL. I love HA because I get to see people's perspectives about transgendered women which is something I never had when my close friend packed up and moved out of NYC. I was left with the pickup bar scene which I have no shame in sharing with any of you. It began with the original Edelweiss, followed by a brief horrible stint at the NowBar (which I don't totally hate because that's where I met Allanah) followed up with Opaline, Shelter, & Vapor all Allanah's party spots over the recent years. The pickup bar scene will make a man like myself, E, & Hollywood very bitter and very cold towards many of the girls and many dudes because overall we aren't like they are. There's a genuine attempt at trying to get to know someone on my behalf if I'm interested, I'm not out trying to fuck every chick that throws me a glance, believe me I have the stories and witnesses to verfiy how much sex I've turned down from Allanah's parties alone, which I'm proud of.

E you're a straight man. At the end of the day most of us are STRAIGHT men unless we say we aren't. Your sexual preference is just that: YOURS!!!!!!!!!!! No woman: GG or TS', no man: hetero or homosexual can determine what you are based on a few hours of seeing you at an event/bar/or club. Any of you men can walk away at anytime from the scene, grab a GG have some kids and move on. It's something rarely ever uttered on here, but it's a fact.

If a woman in this scene has a hard time dealing with you being in or around it you will have a tough time. It's like knowing your girl works at a strip club as a bartender or a stripper, and you're out with the fellas or at home watching ESPN while dudes and chicks are at her job trying to get in those panties. If you can deal with that thought in your head and trust your girl then you're good, if you can't it will never work. That's the pickup bar scene for guys like us. Broads that frequent them will ALWAYS have a hard time with you being around it because they don't like you seeing them possibly leave with a client, give a client a lapdance, etc.

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C,mon now Johnny, you know I've made posts
way longer than that. :lol:

However, for all of your eloquence, I'm sorry, but
that dog won't hunt.

http://i92.photobucket.com/albums/l2/magi43/Rover.gif

Maybe to the guys, your statements ring true, but to the
ladies, for the most part, your logic won't hold water.

If it did, we wouldn't be having this discussion. And the
ladies saying one thing and the guys saying something
totally different.

Like I always say "women are from Venus, men are from
Mars, and cock bandits want you to ask, can I put this up
Uranus".

Damn I had to work hard for that joke.

:roll:

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Originally Posted by JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel

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Originally Posted by peggygee

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You guys, can ask each other a million times, in a million different ways.
And you can contuinue to re-affirm to one another your beliefs, but
when a women is telling you stop chasing her for her dick, you ain't
trying to hear it.

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HEHE.............................my response to that

I might portray an asshole at times on HA but years before this website existed I was friends with someone who is a legend in the ballroom scene. We met on the street and I never EVER chased her or wanted her for her dick, I knew she was a transsexual and I just thought she was cute as fuck and we both got along (both Virgo's go figure). We hung out alot at her place, did the movie thing, restaurants, typical shit, we didn't date we just enjoyed each other's company. I respected her escorting thing and never questioned her on it, we had sex one time and I blew her back out, that was it. We are still friends to this day and I'd do anything for her. She lives elsewhere and whenever she calls me and tells me she's coming home to NYC we go out and have a good time, again NO SEX just a man & a woman having fun. Is she passable, yes? Would it matter? No. Why? Because I LIKE HER FOR WHO SHE IS, I LOVE HER SOUL. I love HA because I get to see people's perspectives about transgendered women which is something I never had when my close friend packed up and moved out of NYC. I was left with the pickup bar scene which I have no shame in sharing with any of you. It began with the original Edelweiss, followed by a brief horrible stint at the NowBar (which I don't totally hate because that's where I met Allanah) followed up with Opaline, Shelter, & Vapor all Allanah's party spots over the recent years. The pickup bar scene will make a man like myself, E, & Hollywood very bitter and very cold towards many of the girls and many dudes because overall we aren't like they are. There's a genuine attempt at trying to get to know someone on my behalf if I'm interested, I'm not out trying to fuck every chick that throws me a glance, believe me I have the stories and witnesses to verfiy how much sex I've turned down from Allanah's parties alone, which I'm proud of.

E you're a straight man. At the end of the day most of us are STRAIGHT men unless we say we aren't. Your sexual preference is just that: YOURS!!!!!!!!!!! No woman: GG or TS', no man: hetero or homosexual can determine what you are based on a few hours of seeing you at an event/bar/or club. Any of you men can walk away at anytime from the scene, grab a GG have some kids and move on. It's something rarely ever uttered on here, but it's a fact.

If a woman in this scene has a hard time dealing with you being in or around it you will have a tough time. It's like knowing your girl works at a strip club as a bartender or a stripper, and you're out with the fellas or at home watching ESPN while dudes and chicks are at her job trying to get in those panties. If you can deal with that thought in your head and trust your girl then you're good, if you can't it will never work. That's the pickup bar scene for guys like us. Broads that frequent them will ALWAYS have a hard time with you being around it because they don't like you seeing them possibly leave with a client, give a client a lapdance, etc.

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And all jokes aside, though you may come across as a wisenheimer at
times, and that's cool because a sense of humor is a great thing.

I don't get a the sense of you being cock bandit, trannychasing, if that
was the case you wouldn't be volunteering as a moderator in your time
off from work.

Then too, you make mention of the numerous events that you attend,
and I can tell by the things you say and the expressions you use, that
you know what's up, and that you have been around the life, for quite
a while and that you are no 'accidental tourist' creeping on the wife.

Trust, game recognizes game, and Idon't get that vibe from you. :wink:

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Originally Posted by Colorado Bulldog

I guess in the strictest sense of the word, I would probably be considered a 'trannychaser' (TC). However, I think that would apply to any guy here. If some of the guys are in LTR with a TG, granted they have more of an emotional involvement but 'technically' they are the most devout TC's. The rest us are just wannabe's :)
Perhaps there is more to the TC stereotype than I'm aware of so I don't mean offense to anyone.

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I think it was the old wise sage 'Hollywoodbuckstrap' who said,
"when you are in the relationship, you are 'the husband', when
you breakup, then you are a trannychaser".

Wise words, wise, true words. :wink:

Of coure that's just one example of a TC.

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Originally Posted by Tanuki

I just sparked a bowl and reread the thread.. I have to say. It makes less sense now..

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JUST ASK YOURSELF "WHAT WOULD BOB DO?"

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Originally Posted by Tanuki

Unisex seems to be taking it in the right direction.

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I DIDN'T KNOW HE HAD STATED A PREFERENCE IN THAT RESPECT

SO IF A GUY IS STRICTLY A "TOP" THEN HE IS STRAIGHT? PERFECTLY NORMAL, AVERAGE JOE, ABSOLUTELY ZERO ISSUES ABOUT SEX, HETEROSEXUAL? BECAUSE HE IS A "TOP"? BECAUSE HE LIKES TO FUCK PEOPLE (GIRLS, PRESUMABLY) IN THE ARSE? THAT MAKES HIM STRAIGHT?

its kinda like when u are with a girl all your corny jokes make her laugh....