As a middle aged post op transwoman, who doesn't escort or work in the adult entertainment industry, I realize I may be somewhat of an enigma on this board.
I will say that when I was pre op, that I met with the families and friends of the vast majority of my significant others (SO). This was due to a combination of reasons:
1. The type of men that I allow in my life tend to be very secure in who they are. I do not allow shallow, vapid, emotionally insecure or emotionally un-availible men into my world. I am an Alpha female, thus I would only allow Alpha males as SOs.
2. Further, then as now, I have never allowed myself to be anyone's dirty little secret. If, I am good enough to 'fuck', then I am good enough to be seen in public with you, and to be known by those that are important to you. If a man was not comfortable with that, then he wasn't worthy of me. :smh
3. Perhaps that I pass fairly well, made it easier for most of the men that I have been in LTRs, to bring me home to Mother. I tend to think that it is how I carry myself. I am a classy, sosphisticated broad :roll: , and Mothers tend to love me. I am very outgoing, intelligent, funny, hell what's not to like :shrug
By no means, am I the only woman that is worthy of being brought home to Mom. There are many charming, beautiful women, on this board and elsewhere. Some will be in the sex trade (one of the hardest jobs on the planet, hats off to you ladies), others can be found in virtually every profession and occupation under the Sun.
To sum it up, in my opinion I tend to believe that it isn't a shortage of suitable women to bring home to meet the family, but rather that many men lack the testicular and or intestinal fortitude to do so.
:2cent
