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Well if you had read what I was saying There is a pressure to have sex right away with men, and yes I have been pressured... He also had promised things before having sex that never fell trough... So I was lied to and tricked, he stated he had emotional feelings etc etc.. all lies...
I'm young you live and learn.
But this is the pressure we get from chasers, and eventually we become so numb to it, that we are so guarded after a few.
Me being in the sex industry has got nothing to do with courtship, I really hate people generalizing that because we are escorts that we know everything in personal relationships.... I know everything about money, and traveling, and hustling.
I'm 21 mind you, I don't think many people here have been with someone at 21 and it lasted....
Well there is also pressure in society to do heroin, get married, have children, join a church, and be rail thin, why don't you succumb to all those other pressures in the world, why is sex so irresistible for you? If you knew anything about hustling you wouldn't of been hustled out of some easy sex because the dude promised you objects and shared some feelings. I think more than anything you are just embarrassed for making a bad choice. I mean, who can blame you though? You're lonely, you want a real connection, someone to look at you and see you, not just a hole to pay for...
I am sorry that you don't believe working in the sex industry affects your relationships but you couldn't be more wrong. I mean hell, people can't even handle dating cops and doctors, do you think it is going to be easy dating a provider?
Re: Men on dating ts women
Ah, ok I see what you mean.
Voice coaching, FFS, Geographical relocation & thus breaking ties, SRS, HRT, Hair replanting, Lower rib removal, dental feminisation, body fat sculpting, can help. Though it costs and people die in surgery's.
Risk vs reward. Difficult call.
Re: Men on dating ts women
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Originally Posted by
mathematics1900
Well thank you for speaking with me, I don't think you understand how much of a treat this has been! I didn't think you were being hard on me, I just think you aren't quite sure how to take me yet, but I will simply win you over with my actions. I am also positive you are attractive, just like a woman to worry about how they look when you've already got a man who obviously doesn't mind. I definitely understand why you feel the way you do then about your penis, if I could ask you just one more question, lol, since you said you really don't want to top with your own equipment, if the guy compromised with you wearing a strap-on would that still be a total no for you?
You are enjoyable ! :D
Thanks for the compliments... I like them....its great to see you can read between the lines :)
Eeeehm... welll..... If I loved that guy? Like a serious relationship? Yes I guess I would do it for him. Mayble not with a strap on... But I would not mind plugging him or milking him. If I loved the guy, why not.
But I tend to be attracted to guys that aren't into that lol.
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mathematics1900
Interesting, this is very helpful, especially the kissing and cuddling part because I must say yes, most men would assume that to get a tgirl worked up all they have to do is send a picture of their penis, lol.
Hope its of some use to you.
Mind you... there are a lot of difference between Tgirls...
For example...
Evon and I have a different opinion about it being a handicap.
I experience it as a handicap... but still I wont get the surgery done.
Evon will get surgery but experiences it differently then I.
Its really confusing for you boys...
Its just as confusing for me too.
These differences.
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Tyler___Durden
Ah, ok I see what you mean.
Voice coaching, FFS, Geographical relocation & thus breaking ties, SRS, HRT, Hair replanting, Lower rib removal, dental feminisation, body fat sculpting, can help. Though it costs and people die in surgery's.
Risk vs reward. Difficult call.
But you assume you will never want to talk about your past again and what you went through? A stealth life would not be healthy for me. I like to be able to share my feelings... also... being able to be a woman is something special for me. Something I am gratefull for everyday. In this way I am different from most woman also.
I could not live a stealth life.
I want to share my feelings and emotions with the people close to me.
Besides... being a TS is nothing to be ashamed of.
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You are enjoyable !
Thanks for the compliments... I like them....its great to see you can read between the lines
Eeeehm... welll..... If I loved that guy? Like a serious relationship? Yes I guess I would do it for him. Mayble not with a strap on... But I would not mind plugging him or milking him. If I loved the guy, why not.
Thank you, that is sweet of you to say! Super interesting, that is all I needed to know, and I must say you are a unique person and I am glad we got to talk a bit. :-)
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EvonRose
insinuating a guy who is into me like amy penis as well...
False, when I get my sex change a guy say, falls in love with me... Does that make ads admirer, mind you my below is no longer dangling from my legs...
Hs fantasy now is to pound my pussy till he cums... Generalizing a population of ts admirers just won't work.
yeah, but it will be a different type of objectification. Pr op or post op or even if you were a gg there will always be a large number who objectify you for your beauty. You are stunning. I guess that is a blessing as well as a curse in our society. I think it's a false assumption to think your penis attracts them now. It may attract some or many but beauty is beauty. You and a lot of other women in this forum are stunning and are going to get objectified for that alone. I'd be full of crap if I didn't admit to looking you up after reading your posts and frankly your attractiveness is quite independent of whether you dangle or not and you exude sensuality in your pictures. i am sure some only care about that part but it's probably less than you think. I can't believe that most guys dont see beautiful women. the thing is it's not really abetter place as far as finding a real partner it's still objectification. it's the issue GG face everyday. Guys tend to put charactor traits on beautiful women they wish them to have rather than see who they really are. i've done it. It is shitty for everyone involved when a fantasy is the basis of a relationship. I hope I didn't offend you with those remarks it wasn't my intent at all. I also am sure your statement is 100 percent true but, hope you find someone who wants more than that at that point :)
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mathematics1900
Well there is also pressure in society to do heroin, get married, have children, join a church, and be rail thin, why don't you succumb to all those other pressures in the world, why is sex so irresistible for you? If you knew anything about hustling you wouldn't of been hustled out of some easy sex because the dude promised you objects and shared some feelings. I think more than anything you are just embarrassed for making a bad choice. I mean, who can blame you though? You're lonely, you want a real connection, someone to look at you and see you, not just a hole to pay for...
I am sorry that you don't believe working in the sex industry affects your relationships but you couldn't be more wrong. I mean hell, people can't even handle dating cops and doctors, do you think it is going to be easy dating a provider?
Uh no i have a boyfriend, I'm not lonley...
I am embarrassed for believing him yes, but I was also younger.. there are a lot of things I'm embarrassed about such as wetting my bed at 12...
Im a dominatrix, and the guys I have dated and dated have been perfectly fine with it....
I have graduated school, kept my family together, kept a close niche of friends, moved from one coast to another, in a healthy relationship, travel, and still find time to go out, shop, do my hair and nails... honey
Being a provider has not affected that aspect of my life... Think again.
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mathematics1900
Thank you, that is sweet of you to say! Super interesting, that is all I needed to know, and I must say you are a unique person and I am glad we got to talk a bit. :-)
Same for me xx
love
Re: Men on dating ts women
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allurstouse
yeah, but it will be a different type of objectification. Pr op or post op or even if you were a gg there will always be a large number who objectify you for your beauty. You are stunning. I guess that is a blessing as well as a curse in our society. I think it's a false assumption to think your penis attracts them now. It may attract some or many but beauty is beauty. You and a lot of other women in this forum are stunning and are going to get objectified for that alone. I'd be full of crap if I didn't admit to looking you up after reading your posts and frankly your attractiveness is quite independent of whether you dangle or not and you exude sensuality in your pictures. i am sure some only care about that part but it's probably less than you think. I can't believe that most guys dont see beautiful women. the thing is it's not really abetter place as far as finding a real partner it's still objectification. it's the issue GG face everyday. Guys tend to put charactor traits on beautiful women they wish them to have rather than see who they really are. i've done it. It is shitty for everyone involved when a fantasy is the basis of a relationship. I hope I didn't offend you with those remarks it wasn't my intent at all. I also am sure your statement is 100 percent true but, hope you find someone who wants more than that at that point :)
Wellt hat's what I believe if a guy thinks I'm hot then nothing is stopping him from wanting to fuck me regardless..
So this is why i think just because men like ts I don't think it makes them gay.. After all men hetero men are genetically gonna go gaga for
Long healthy, thick hair
a small waist
an hourglass figure
full lips
small nose
smooth, soft and healthy glowing skin.
If a guy likes only vaginas that means a guy then would like Rosie Odonell who has a vagina....
And I'm sure men would rather fuck half the girls on this forum over her...
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Damn,no sleep for the wicked I guess
