If your not happy with the dangling, maybe your a good candidate for the cutting... lol...
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Oh I never judge....
But your young like me and we tend to be very emotional trust me, I'm like the queen of emotional here on the forum. I argue a lot and talk shit.
But never use racist remark, because your so pretty for that kind of things, you don't want that. Be smart and classy and cheeky.. lol..
I know a very nice looking feminine TS that has been living like a woman for 15 years and she still doubt about getting srs or not lol...
I thought okay...im probably going to be like her...
I have doubt about a lot of things...
Srs i told myself ill do if i have nothing left to loose...still it might be the best thing to ever happen to me...
But how can you be sure?
What if something goes wrong pff
What if everything goes perfect? Your so worried about it being imperfect you might miss out on a good life... What if one day your srs gets you a job, or an opportunity in life to make lots of money, the perfect husband?
Look at the miss universe, you think she would be able to compete if she had her penis? No but now she does and she can compete as a gg... Opportunities and happiness can come with it, you live once so jump off the clift.
I dont think srs will get me a job or husband...i can get that without srs too.
There are actually really some nice guys out there that treat you like woman despite your genitals...usually...they are 40plus though....but i love older men...i am 33...so im not the youngest anymore either...
That miss universe might be pretty to some...but i personally would feel fake after so much plastic surgery...ffs srs etc...
I dont think she is beautifull coz she is not natural looking
Proportionately, yes. You have squatty legs, Ashley. What can I tell you? You lost some weight, it's true. But there are plenty of photos revealing your gut. So wear your bikini with your gay friends and have fun. But your thighs have a funny shape as well. Your proportions are just odd, if you must know. And if height has anything to do with anything, tell that to Sunny or Jennifer Paris. lol You think being 5 and half feet tall is necessarily fishy? lol That's laughable. I'm just under 6' tall. Elle McPherson is taller.
And if you don't appreciate tattoos, great. You're not very worldly or open to anything new. That's pretty obvious. And god knows you have no appreciation for Asians or Asian culture.
Snd SRS is a foreign concept to you it seems. Not to me. I've always wanted it. I will leave you behind in gay boy land and not think twice. lol
But let me tell you, you obviously do like reading what I say. That's for sure. ;-) But if you want to compare my life to yours, and it weighs heavily on your mind, you're not going to like the truth. In fact, some things are better left alone. ;-) lol But I can see what your story is, since we're going there. And it's an angry and sad one. Something obviously fell through with your family. Because last you told me Mimi was beating you up, no one in Chicago was your friend, and you were moving back to NY state to be with them. What happened? Something bad? I would never be your friend after all of your insanity and lies, but that sounded pretty real. But I guess it fell through. And all the back and forth and crying about Mimi, and now you're not friends. And I know you have your fallings out with Jasmine, but you have your business arrangement.
But you're just odd. Definitely not a satisfied person. I don't hate you, but you do ask give off a LOT of negativity. And you will attract it. I can see the cycle with you is a work in progress. lol
Oh, and you're right. I don't remember insisting that I was a girl when I was 2; my mother and grandmother do. lol And it's true. But Jasmine? How any TS who could do such a 180 of gender extremes, I don't know. The thing is, I know people who know the old Jasmine from Chicago. ;-) Wow. Creepy stories. lol But I wish nothing bad on her either. But that's one person I don't want in my life, just like you; creepy. lol But I had enough respect not to bring her up until now. But do you want me to? lol
But best of luck to you Ashley. I'll keep in mind you're on the edge of my every word. ;-) lol
I'm not sure I'm getting SRS either. It's something I used to want badly. We'll see. But I have a feeling it will happen in about 2 years. I'm gonna start doing the psych testing by next fall, just to see.
Not really? I mean, are you equating contempt with mistrust? I'd imagine by the time dude's get familiar enough to date, any real sense of contempt for men would be gone. Contempt would make transwomen not want to date men in the first place. I'd say there's a genuine mistrust when anybody gets mistreated in relationship after relationship, and it simply becomes assumed that anybody new will resort to the same behaviors exhibited in past relationships. That's a problem dating anyone. It's a little more prolific in trans communities, but I'd figure that's mostly due to the kind of men who end up mistreating transwomen anyway. Vicious cycle shit, ya dig? Bitches like bad dudes, and all that other cliche crap.
Artificial superiority complex? How else are you going to mentally separate from public misunderstanding? If you can't change someone's confused opinions and you can't walk away, it's way easier just to think you're better than them. Even though it sounds backward, it's more mature than endlessly bickering with dudes.
It's a porn term. It's like calling an escort a prostitute. It's practically the same thing, but it sounds more insulting. Sadly, half the dudes that refer to transwomen as shemales don't know it's insulting. The other half are purposefully goating. Tripping out on them is easier than determining which one is which and attempting to educate. Then again, this is a porn forum. Do we really need transwomen jumping from thread to thread and explaining why posts are insulting? Fuck that. Shit takes too much time.
Reality check. You've never felt like that? I figure you have and you matured past it by experience. Everybody has fantasies, even if they aren't necessarily sexual. Eventually most of the girls get it, so the issue works itself out.
We're totally sluts. I'm such a slut, I've been sleeping with the same woman for the last five years. She calls it a serious relationship, but I'm just in it for the boring and predictable sex. lol. Dudes that aren't sluts still get called chasers. That's not the reason dudes get called chasers in the first place. Dudes that just want the dick are chasers. Dudes that can't be seen in public kissing other dudes but have a perma-woody for anything in a dress with a bulge... that's a chaser. Guys who run game like they're interested, but hit&quit, then move on... that's a chaser. Unfortunately, the same term ends up getting applied to just about any dude in any kind of non-favorable situation.
Maybe, but what's the alternative? "We've been dating for four months, but it's totally okay that you haven't introduced me to anybody you know, honey". That's a bad sign. To any dude in a month-long relationship, hearing "You haven't introduced me to your mother yet!" is also a bad sign. Is that a valid generalization to make about the majority of transwomen? Fuck if I know, I just haven't heard of anything like that happening.
It's tit for tat, and a little more tit than tat when tempers flare. People eventually realize they're being over-scrutinizing or biased and they mature. If they don't, they end up friendless and alone. Fuck'em.