Why are you single?

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Originally Posted by sucka4chix

OK, the longer I live, the more I question how much control we have over how destiny. Sure we can make our own decisions, but as I look at my life I can see how there were times I was supposed to get to a certain thing, but I chose something different, only to end up where I would have been anyway, only later in time. Sometimes things are gonna happen whether you fight them or not.
Now, why does being single mean it's a pitiful life? In reality what I want is an android that will come when I say so,make love to me when I want to,go to events when I need an escort, THEN DISAPPEAR TIL I NEED HER AGAIN! That doesn't exist!
I'm pretty much done with the having the best sex of my life stuff, so that doesn't even enter into the equation.There's nothing new under the sexual sun, so I'd be looking for something deeper than sex.
I had planned on moving to Florida 'til I realized how stupid it would be if my ONLY reason was to increase the traffic of t-girls in my life.Although I'm close to being obsessed, it's not the only thing I live for yet!

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you can have a successful and fulfiling life in florida. It doesnt have to be about the girls, but if you are so obsessed with them that you feel its something missing in your life, then why not? Also, if all you want is an andriod then I feel sorry for you. You obviously dont want a REAL and healthy relationship. Sounds more like you want a regular **** buddy. If thats what you want then I suggest you look into the escort business. But then you go on to contradict yourself by saying you want something "Deeper" than sex.

I think like a lot of people out here, you dont really know what you want. You have a general idea but you are still confused, searching.


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Originally Posted by Dkg

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Originally Posted by sucka4chix

OK, the longer I live, the more I question how much control we have over how destiny. Sure we can make our own decisions, but as I look at my life I can see how there were times I was supposed to get to a certain thing, but I chose something different, only to end up where I would have been anyway, only later in time. Sometimes things are gonna happen whether you fight them or not.
Now, why does being single mean it's a pitiful life? In reality what I want is an android that will come when I say so,make love to me when I want to,go to events when I need an escort, THEN DISAPPEAR TIL I NEED HER AGAIN! That doesn't exist!
I'm pretty much done with the having the best sex of my life stuff, so that doesn't even enter into the equation.There's nothing new under the sexual sun, so I'd be looking for something deeper than sex.
I had planned on moving to Florida 'til I realized how stupid it would be if my ONLY reason was to increase the traffic of t-girls in my life.Although I'm close to being obsessed, it's not the only thing I live for yet!

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you can have a successful and fulfiling life in florida. It doesnt have to be about the girls, but if you are so obsessed with them that you feel its something missing in your life, then why not? Also, if all you want is an andriod then I feel sorry for you. You obviously dont want a REAL and healthy relationship. Sounds more like you want a regular **** buddy. If thats what you want then I suggest you look into the escort business. But then you go on to contradict yourself by saying you want something "Deeper" than sex.

I think like a lot of people out here, you dont really know what you want. You have a general idea but you are still confused, searching.


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I don't think I'm confused about what I would want from someone, but not sure how easily I can integrate a fulltime relationship into a life that has become so much only about me. It's sorta like kids--- I love hanging around other peoples kids because I can leave when I don't feel like being bothered. I would love to wake up with someone in my bed, but not everyday...Yep...I'm confused

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Originally Posted by sucka4chix

I would love to wake up with someone in my bed, but not everyday...Yep...I'm confused

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Hmm..then you need a blow up T-doll! LOL :lol: :wink:

~Kisses.

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EXACTLY!
Funny I won one of those at one of Allanahs parties (actually a girl won it and gave it to me). We took it back to my room, but only used the "throbbing member" part :lol:

LOL You're quite funny sucka4chix. :lol:

~Kisses.

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Originally Posted by Hara_Juku Tgirl

LOL You're quite funny sucka4chix. :lol:

~Kisses.

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Well, we didn't have a pump and we were too busy blowing each other.
Wow that was a great night, li'l too tipsy tho'

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Originally Posted by sucka4chix

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Originally Posted by Hara_Juku Tgirl

LOL You're quite funny sucka4chix. :lol:

~Kisses.

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Well, we didn't have a pump and we were too busy blowing each other.
Wow that was a great night, li'l too tipsy tho'

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:lol:

~Kisses.

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Why are you single?

Im wondering how many people on here can answer these question honestly:

1. Why are you single?

*I am very picky. To my discredit, I have likely ended several potential LTRs during the dating process for quite whimsical reasons of either mine or hers.

2. How long have you been single?

*About 10 years without a serious relationship, maybe a little over a year since I went on a date, several years since I went on multiple dates with 1 person. (see #1 for irrational reasoning :roll: )

3. What are you seeking out on here (online or in real time)?

*Love. A partnership. Someone I can realize my dreams with. Someone who realizes her dreams with me.

4. Do you think you'll ever find what you're seeking for within a few months to a year (timeframe) from now?

*Yes. Time is as Einstein said "relative". Ask me 2 years from now and I might say that I found her in days while she might say it took weeks or months to find it in me. If that sounded cryptic, let's just say that I have found someone I feel strongly about and believe in my heart I can realize my dreams with, but it is up to her to find it in me now.

5. If you've answered YES to No.4, How do you plan to go abouts finding what you are looking for?

*Give her whatever she needs from me: my heart, my ear, my time. (Virtual breakfast in bed :wink: )

6. If you've answered NO to No.4, Why not?

*Skip to the loo, my darling

7. Would you invest alot of your time on here (Online or in real time), money and what not to find it?

*Assuming that the feeling is mutual, I would travel to the ends of the earth for her.

8. If you answered NO to No.7, Then what are your other options?

*Skip to the loo, my darling (really who skips to there? I see "accidents" happening that way. :lol: )

***To the overall question of Why are you single? and clarification of some answers: The pickiness I had was almost Chandler Bing, Jerry Seinfeld, or Eddie Murphy in "Boomerang" like. I didn't know I was doing it, and until recently unaware of the walls and obstacles I had self-imposed to avoid sharing myself. But now that I have taken those walls down, it is just a matter of time and commitment.

1. Why are you single? (If you're attached, in a relationship or is married..then the question would be: Are you happily married or happy with your current relationship?)

Lets just say I've had a few bad experiences the past few years. Was with a gf for 3 1/2 years before all hell broke loose, and my last gf went psychotic on beer and anti-depressants. So I'm a bit jaded as far as jumping into another relationship.

2. How long have you been single? (If you're attached, in a relationship or is married..then the question would be: How long have you been in a relationship or have been married?)

Since last fall.

3. What are you seeking out on here (online or in real time)? If married or attached and in a relationship..What then seems to be lacking in your present relationship as the case may be?

Discussion, entertainment, making friends, maybe meet someone special

4. Do you think you'll ever find what you're seeking for within a few months to a year (timeframe) from now?

It's possible

5. If you've answered YES to No.4, How do you plan to go abouts finding what you are looking for?

putting on a blindfold and playing pin the tail on the donkey. I couldn't possibly pick the next gf any worse than the last two :P

6. If you've answered NO to No.4, Why not?

7. Would you invest alot of your time on here (Online or in real time), money and what not to find it?
if i click with the person, yes

8. If you answered NO to No.7, Then what are your other options?

1. Why are you single?

*just havent meet anyone who has caught my intrest as of late. went on a couple of dates last week just no chemistry there.

2. How long have you been single?

*was dating a ts back in jan for 2 months first month was great, thought hey this could be something, but ended up being someone who was different than what i had originally thought. not sure if it really that counts, before that was in a 5 yr relationship. so 3months but emotionally alot longer.

3. What are you seeking out on here (online or in real time)?

*just someone who i really connect with, im a nice guy looking for, the girl next door type dont seem 2 come across those to often these days.

4. Do you think you'll ever find what you're seeking for within a few months to a year (timeframe) from now?

* um not sure if it happened would be great if not keep on looking.

5. If you've answered YES to No.4, How do you plan to go abouts finding what you are looking for?

* just get out, go out on dates till i find someone that matchs great for myself.

6. If you've answered NO to No.4, Why not?

*my answer was kinda of a maybe to number #4 so ill answer both yes and no. sometimes i just really have bad luck with women.

7. Would you invest alot of your time on here (Online or in real time), money and what not to find it?

* everyone goes thru ups and down in relationships if u find someone who is special enough and suits u why not i would.