Re: Men on dating ts women
When I consider someone my BF, I spend lots of time with him. It can be a bit smothering but that's how I like it, as long as neither of us is doing it out of sexual convenience. The emotional stuff has to be there. In fact I don't even consider it to be a real relationship unless I've cried in front of him or we've had an argument or 2. But that's me. When guys want long distance romances, I have to laugh. If they don't want to spend most of their free time with me, why are we even bothering to date more than once? My BF's have been my companions. Having sex was only part of it. There's no way a guy can be a chaser, if you live with him, and you don't know he's a chaser. I agree with the OP to a degree, but there really are lots of tranny chasers out there. GGs have their version of a tranny chaser, except they call them DOGS. I don't go to clubs to weed through the dogs. I go to clubs to have fun, if I go at all. The guys I've connected with have had little or no experience with transsexuals. They dated me in spite of my being a TS instead of because I was a TS. But guys like that are rare and hard to find. Being a sex worker makes it even harder. But I genuinely love men. I don't need my ass kissed,. And I like guys who are somewhat bad boys, but with good hearts
But I'm not kidding myself. Most guys who are obsessive about porn are not dating or husband material. I don't hold it against a guy for checking it out now and then, just not every day. Cock thirsty gay guys and gay male couples watch a lot of porn together. Hetero couples don't do it as much.
Re: Men on dating ts women
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bluesoul
it is also the underlying reason for your problem. you cannot expect to be treated like girlfriend material if you're an escort. also you said you get a number of calls from people that want to date you. have you ever wondered who looks for a girlfriend from escort ads?
That's the whole topic on tranny chasing!!!
You basically made my point.
Those type of guys are the tranny chasers we ts don't like. And the reason I believe it's only right for women like us to have our guards up. But we get a lot of heat with this mentality, But it protects me because at the end of the day I only have me to protect form losers and selfish people like this.
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EvonRose
I would never give most guys the time of day.
technically, you don't have any time to give since you're expecting money for it in the first place. this was kelly's point, unfortunately you've been too busy with negative hyperbole to seriously consider anything she said.
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bluesoul
it is also the underlying reason for your problem. you cannot expect to be treated like girlfriend material if you're an escort. also you said you get a number of calls from people that want to date you. have you ever wondered who looks for a girlfriend from escort ads?
i understand what you mean
they are the one who said they wouldnt view me as an escort but a friend or simply a date. so why not give it a try. because i believe they are not lying because for myself i dont lie if i want to date or just want sex with you. but once you date them you feel they are not real about dating or being friends. i feel they just want free sex. so the question now is whats the need for you guys to lie about it?
I also post an ad on a dating site. I didnt tell im an escort and tried dating guys but still the same. I feel they just want free sex and making excuse to date just to have freebies lol
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bluesoul
technically, you don't have any time to give since you're expecting money for it in the first place. this was kelly's point, unfortunately you've been too busy with negative hyperbole to seriously consider anything she said.
That's very ignorant to say. Just because I work it doesn't mean I don't go out and try to live a normal life.
It's not that I'm disregarding Kelly, However there is another side that you guys refuse to want to see.
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bluesoul
technically, you don't have any time to give since you're expecting money for it in the first place. this was kelly's point, unfortunately you've been too busy with negative hyperbole to seriously consider anything she said.
We are not expecting money
I dont need their money
What i need is their truthfullness that they would date me or make friends with me
I taught they want to date me but why not take me to dinner? not take me to movies? not take me to park and hang out and talk. have a drinks together. they dont do that. they just want to go to my room instantly and i could feel just want sex
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EvonRose
That's the whole topic on tranny chasing!!!
You basically made my point.
Those type of guys are the tranny chasers we ts don't like. And the reason I believe it's only right for women like us to have our guards up. But we get a lot of heat with this mentality, But it protects me because at the end of the day I only have me to protect form losers and selfish people like this.
AGREE!!!
If we are escort it doesnt mean in our normal life we are also escort
In my normal life im not an escort just that simple
Escorting is just a job
Re: Men on dating ts women
Allysa, it doesn't matter wether your an escort or not do not think for once it's just the guys that call you, Its a dumb thing to say that it was partly your mistake. These kind of men lurk not just on our ad, but on all form of online sites, dating, clubs, bars etc... He has not lived our lifestyle so he goes of on what he perceives and it's wrong in many levels..
When your young and people are everywhere trying to take advantage of you sometimes you fall for it.
These men don't know what it's like starting at 16 in this industry with a shy and meek personality, not to mention gullible and naive. These type of men prey on that weakness, No one is to blame but the men, when they contact you trough your ad knowing your an escort they have a braincell to realize you charge, and shouldn't expect anything. So it's their fault for taking advantage of that.
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EvonRose
I know right who wants to have sex with me if we can just watch a marathon of walking dead? With hot cocoa? duh!
you've got my number . i love hot chocolate and thought mentioning it in the post but did not . my friend has the walking dead series recorded and zombie chicks love me ,,,,, not for sex, but for my brains :geek: :geek:
Re: Men on dating ts women
Lets just say that outhere are quality men but the most percentage is the quantity ones ,thats why is hard to beleve most of them.
