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Hara Hara Hara! Well I would call them a FATTIST, but you're question gets to the heart of the matter. You can easily define fat. You can pretty much say without a doubt every 500 lb guy us going to cause undue stress on your bed. No such blanket statements can be made based on someones ethnicity. Apples and orangesQuote:
Originally Posted by Hara_Juku Tgirl
LOL@undue stress on your bed statement! :lol:
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Dammit girl! Don't you see that is racism and prejudice defined "black men are cheap"! Thank you for making my point! Saying black are cheap is not expressing a PREFERENCE. It is a preconceived notion based on someones own past experience and not factual. Black men are not cheap! Most black men may be, but no one will know unless they meet ALL black men. Unless you've met all black men, then to say black men are cheap is prejudice!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by TsVanessa69
I'm noticing that some people think that if their feelings are justified, then there not racist, and that's simply not true. If every black you ever met spit in your face, no one would blame you for hating black men. You'd still be a racist. Just no one could blame you for being the racist you are.
Oh, and every coke is the same so hopefully you can see how woefully ridiculous that metaphor was! Sadly, so many think like you do and don't see the difference.
actually I can imagine anyone in bed with you would try to "tear it up"Quote:
Originally Posted by Hara_Juku Tgirl
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So much to take in on this thread. Prejudice or preference? Or are black men just cheap?
First I would like to point this one thing out. These preferences and prejudices are a two way street. Their have been many situations where a guy will ask me what race I am then act disappointed or hang up because I say I am black or mixed between black, Native, and White. (I guess that depending on how I present myself with a straight haired wig or without one I confuse some people. This happens to others in my family at times.) So I would say that it clearly is a two way street. But that's ok everyone has a right to choose with 100% freedom who they will have sex with.
There may be a little something to the point that the black men girls have trouble with are not just black, but they are thugs aside from that. I had this one guy, very black, who lived down town, in a nice condo by the river, always paid as agreed, no haggle no hassle. (He stopped seeing me said "It's like your trying to make me cum too fast." Like I have any real control over that.) I have to admit over the phone talking to him the first time I did not think he was black. He spoke in an educated manner and moreover he did not have the attitude that many black men have towards transsexuals. Every black man that has actually completed the transaction has been like him. They are not common.
OTOH out in a suburb not far from where I used to live a black guy stole the money from me and threw me out. I let my guard down because the person lived just a stones throw away. Didn't listen to my instincts
I will say this the way you approach a girl any girl on the phone is the real problem. If you have the usual black attitude you know. It's like they are thinking "I'm so hot I'm so cool and smooth I can get sex anywhere from anyone. I'm goona say 200 then when she get's here say 100 then when she has her clothes off and I'm 6" in say 50...." That attitude is why girls won't see you w or w/o money. Drop the tude and maybe just maybe some girls will see you.
I have to disagree with my sister Vanessa about guys who see escorts: I have a large majority of men who coud get any girl he wanted however would rather pay to see a ts for alot of reasons: Some just dont want the hassle of finding a girl and just want the sex, few just want too experiement, some dont want to take the chance of being seen in a ts club looking for a girl. The myth that men seeing escorts are old, bald ugly men is hardly the case for me. Though I have a few of those on the other hand I have a large very good looking clientale.
Now to the statement about racism: Let me say this I enjoy black men in my personal life therefore I dont care to see them when working, in fact I make more money in cities like DC because very few white ts come there who do see black men or atleast enjoy it, HOWEVER sorry to the guys but the majority of my problems and run arounds have been with black males. Though some of my biggest spenders are black males on the average every city my problem guys who want to negotiate, are aggressive, try to give me the run around, show up without the full amount, etcc have been my black clients. I have had other men of diff. races do the same but not as much as my black guys. So in all fairness Im sure some of it stems from racism but ALOT of it from a business standpoint is about who you just prefer to see!
I am a white who prefers non-white women/ts
this way I am a racist against my own race - white.
if I preferred white only women , I would be also a racist against non white .
so if I am a racist both ways , maybe I'm not a racist at all? :wink:
I would never open such thread because racism never come across my mind , simple as that.
so the one who opened this thread.............. 8)
lol They won't be tearing anything if they weigh over 200lbs. and are below 6ft. I can tell you that much! :lol:Quote:
Originally Posted by sucka4chix
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Oh how I envy you Wendy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by WendyWilliams
I do agree with your statement, but u got all those hot dreamy, clients and I got stuck with the other ones!
What am I doing wrong???????
But the points you make about guys using escorts is true, no matter how they look.
But if your telling me that there is a large amount of good looking clentele out there , shit hook ya sista up! lol
LOL I never said they were all dreamy LOL
I would say about 40 percent of mine are good looking guys. And of course every once in awhile one that makes my knees weak comes through.
I was just commenting on the myth that men who see escorts are ugly men who cant get sex, certainly not true.