GGs have the biggest issue with transsexuals

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

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Oh and also I'm sorry but I don't like admitting to a guy that I'm a transsexual at a straight bar, because usually they get obnoxious. I don't want them saying omg omg omg are you really a man so the bar can hear.

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I don't think you are under any obligation to do that at all. I don't see the need to divulge personal things about myself to someone I have just met. I think most people are that way as well. Obviously, if you are romantically interested in him then you would tell him at some point while you are getting to know each other, but before that I don't see any reason why you would need to.

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Thank you, exactly people don't divuldge everything about themselves when talking. It's not like he walked up to and said Hi my name is Mike and I have a 9 inch dick. lol

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Hmm. I've never thought about using the 9 inch dick line before. But my name isn't Mike. Oh well.

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@kellyshore your quite true danger is everywhere but you have to agree being transgender makes you a easy target.

@NYTSJulie i'm just saying you know how some of those guys are you don't even have to be intimate they will snap regardless because they think they were talking to a man(which isn't the case).

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I just don't see why I need to tell my T to someone I am just talking to. What if I tell him out of "respect" so you say, and that in itself puts me in more danger if he freaks out and starts pummeling me. When I could of avoided that situation in the first place.

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That's a good point never really thought of that i guess its kinda like a double edge sword for you girls,you tell him he snaps,he finds out himself he snaps.Kel why no just go for guys who already know?

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Because 9 out of 10 times those guys that know don't see you as the woman you are. Straight guys can see that side before a man that knows sees it thats attracted to the pre-op transsexual.

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Sorry but i'm a little confused so your saying most of the guy on this forum doesn't really see you as a true women but the "straight guys" can?

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[ It's just been my own personal experience with men Steven. I am not downing anyone. I find that guys that aren't in the scene respect me as a woman, and treat me how I'd like to be treated. Guys that know want to know how big my cock is and if it gets hard. THATS BEEN MY EXPERIENCE, so if that upsets you, I apologize.

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It doesn´t upset me at all. Itz´s just funny, that you think "straight" guys are respecting you as a person, and by no way thik about your toilet parts when hitting on you. THAT´s wishfu thinking.

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Well I am sure they are thinking of my vagina since men think about sex all the time. I'm just saying HOW THE TREAT ME, they treat me as a woman. I am not talking about SEX again thats where we differ. You go right for the sex part.

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@kellyshore your quite true danger is everywhere but you have to agree being transgender makes you a easy target.

@NYTSJulie i'm just saying you know how some of those guys are you don't even have to be intimate they will snap regardless because they think they were talking to a man(which isn't the case).

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I just don't see why I need to tell my T to someone I am just talking to. What if I tell him out of "respect" so you say, and that in itself puts me in more danger if he freaks out and starts pummeling me. When I could of avoided that situation in the first place.

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That's a good point never really thought of that i guess its kinda like a double edge sword for you girls,you tell him he snaps,he finds out himself he snaps.Kel why no just go for guys who already know?

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Because 9 out of 10 times those guys that know don't see you as the woman you are. Straight guys can see that side before a man that knows sees it thats attracted to the pre-op transsexual.

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Sorry but i'm a little confused so your saying most of the guy on this forum doesn't really see you as a true women but the "straight guys" can?

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No before I had surgeries they were rude, condescending, and mean about my looks at times. Now that I have had surgeries their protocol has changed. So no I do not feel they do. They see me as a chick with a dick or shemale. Which is fine, I accept that. I am on a porn forum.

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Originally Posted by BlackAdder

But honestly, if your interested in a guy this is one of the FIRST things you should tell him....Leading a guy on is foolhardy in the extreme.

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Annnnd here it starts.

There are so many ways a relationship can end before it starts, why out yourself to a guy at the very beginning when it might not even get to a 2nd date for some random reason? Like not having anything in common, not liking his personality- whatever.

I'm not saying I'm all for the after sex "you know, I should mention..." lines, but there is just no reason to say it the moment someone hits on you in public, or hell- possibly not even by the end of the 1st date depending on the situation.

This is how it works. If I guy knows right away he will treat you differently, 100 percent of the time. Not always with a poor reaction but still will treat you differently.

If he finds out down the road he will already know you as a person, not an object not as just a transsexual, but a person.

The way it works best is....date them for a little while and if you like them continue to date them. Once the emotions get involved they they are cake in your hand. LOL well maybe its not that easy but when your emotionally connected to someone its a lot harder to turn back.

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Originally Posted by NYTSJulie

This is how it works. If I guy knows right away he will treat you differently, 100 percent of the time. Not always with a poor reaction but still will treat you differently.

If he finds out down the road he will already know you as a person, not an object not as just a transsexual, but a person.

The way it works best is....date them for a little while and if you like them continue to date them. Once the emotions get involved they they are cake in your hand. LOL well maybe its not that easy but when your emotionally connected to someone its a lot harder to turn back.

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When it comes to just sex and not trying to land a husband that's a different story. I would say 98 percent of the time they are ok with it for the night. Like when the guy called me last night to ask if its true. First he was all freaked out then we talked and by the end of the conversation he asked me to come over. I said no and told him, your tipsy and tomorrow I am not going to hear from you again if I come or not.

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Originally Posted by NYTSJulie

This is how it works. If I guy knows right away he will treat you differently, 100 percent of the time. Not always with a poor reaction but still will treat you differently.

If he finds out down the road he will already know you as a person, not an object not as just a transsexual, but a person.

The way it works best is....date them for a little while and if you like them continue to date them. Once the emotions get involved they they are cake in your hand. LOL well maybe its not that easy but when your emotionally connected to someone its a lot harder to turn back.

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Basically........trick them as long as possible then.........







































Bust out you strong 7 incher and live happily ever after.


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good luck with that.

I again don't see how it's tricking? If you are just acting as who you are? Not having sex, kissing, sucking whatever the sexual contact may be.