In 34 years no man ever wanted my penis.

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by Fox

Cool, thanks for the enlightenment. :D

---

Hope it was helpful, but bottom line treat her like a lady, and you
should be fine.

BTW, Good to have you back, have you swtched ISPs.

Yeah, I have DSL now. I was gone mostly due to my job which I have since quit. They had me working all kinds of crazy hours (retail, you how they do).

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by M77

Come on, it can't be that bad. :lol:

---

Depends on the guy. :oops:

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by peggygee

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by sdman

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by lust4ts

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by sdman

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by peggygee

I've been fulltime 34 years, 23 as a pre op, going into my 11th as a post op.

I've done the wild thing with a fairly decent number of men. I've been
in LTRs, and short and medium length relationships.

I had a fairly large penis, but none of the men were too interested in it.

They never wanted to suck it, never wanted me to fuck them. Which was
cool because I didn't want to.

Like I said I'm no stranger to 'the life', but it seems like men have
changed, or did I miss something.

HA please fill me in. :?:

---

You had a fairly large penis and no man ever wanted to suck it? That just doset sound right and if it was large why did you get it cut off?

---

Because she felt more comfortable without it of course. Having SRS is a Trans Woman's choice and does not pertain to the size of the penis!

Did you not read her original post, she never liked using it in the first place, despite the size. This might come as a shock but not all transsexuals worlds revolve around jacking off on camera for Cockbandits, or having a huge hard cock to shove up guys asses :roll:

Some girls are cool keeping their cocks, most eventually want SRS, some sooner than others. But to say "if it was large why did you get it cut off?" is a seriously ignorant question :evil:

---

How do you know how she feels? I'm glad you know how she feels as a post op! You sound a little bit sensitive maybe you want to become a post op as well? A lot of trannies dont know what they want and most of them wind up regretting going through SRS and go into depression!

---

Lust4ts and I have actually talked about this a number of times. I feel that
he has done a pretty good articulaltion of the facts.

Many times on this forum I have discussed why I opted for SRS,and why I
felt it was right for me. I will say that the size of my penis had no bearing
on that decision, nor does it for most women.

Finally I will also add that the vast majority of women that have had SRS
are very content with that decision.

I can attest to this personally, and through the many other post op
women that I know, and the research that affirms that conclusion.

---

Thanks Peggy I try to take what people like you have taught me and use it for the best. I do admit to getting caught up in the point scoring thing sometimes, and then my posts can include backhand insults instead of just using the insight in a purely positive way. I guess that's a trait of my character and is hard to step away from, but I will try in future :)

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by peggygee

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by mbf

but I would really be interested in how you came to the conclusion things might have changed?

---

I get a sense of it from the way you hear guys talk about the penises of
the women on the various boards.

It's like an obsession for so many of the guys, the woman is secondary,
and the cock is primary.

---

but this is only a valid observation REGARDING those specific guys who post on a ts-porn-themed messege board in a way you described. And you very well know that this gives a distorted view.

For instance, so many of those guys are dream-jockeys anyway, its an entirely different corwd than those who, in fact, will have, are having or have had a relationship with a (pre op)TS.

besides, if you look for the cock-hounds, you will find them, thus you *may* overlook others who are clearly on a different route. Namely those men you were referring to in your initial post, peggygee.

so you should have worded your initial post differently in my opinion.

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by mbf

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by peggygee

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by mbf

but I would really be interested in how you came to the conclusion things might have changed?

---

I get a sense of it from the way you hear guys talk about the penises of
the women on the various boards.

It's like an obsession for so many of the guys, the woman is secondary,
and the cock is primary.

---

but this is only a valid observation REGARDING those specific guys who post on a ts-porn-themed messege board in a way you described. And you very well know that this gives a distorted view.

For instance, so many of those guys are dream-jockeys anyway, its an entirely different corwd than those who, in fact, will have, are having or have had a relationship with a (pre op)TS.

besides, if you look for the cock-hounds, you will find them, thus you *may* overlook others who are clearly on a different route. Namely those men you were referring to in your initial post, peggygee.

so you should have worded your initial post differently in my opinion.

---

I think if we look at HA as a statistical sample of men who are interested
in transwomen, and if a large percentage of these men are interested in
the women because of their penises, then we may infer that it is the penis
that is the attractant not the woman.

My empirical experience has been that men have been attracted to me
as a person, my currently or previously having a penis did not
negatively impact their interest in me.

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by peggygee

I think if we look at HA as a statistical sample of men who are interested
in transwomen, and if a large percentage of these men are interested in
the women because of their penises, then we may infer that it is the penis
that is the attractant not the woman.

My empirical experience has been that men have been attracted to me
as a person, my currently or previously having a penis did not
negatively impact their interest in me.

---

why didnt you write that in the very beginning?

your statement was not precise, therefore you got vague answers.

HA.com is for a majority of guys a place for watching ts-related porn, as well as getting info on TS-escorts. thats yet again a segment of a segment of the men interested in TS.

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by peggygee

<snip>

I too often wonder why I am here.<snip>

---

Well I consider having met you to be one of the most memorable events to happen to me since I came here, so for purely selfish reasons I'm glad you came.

To answer another point you raised, a penis is definitely not required to make a woman attractive or interesting, at least to me.

I realise it's something that a lot of people here don't get, but I just like women. All types.

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by MacShreach

Quote:

---

Originally Posted by peggygee

<snip>

I too often wonder why I am here.<snip>

---

Well I consider having met you to be one of the most memorable events to happen to me since I came here, so for purely selfish reasons I'm glad you came.

To answer another point you raised, a penis is definitely not required to make a woman attractive or interesting, at least to me.

I realise it's something that a lot of people here don't get, but I just like women. All types.

---

http://i92.photobucket.com/albums/l2.../scotland4.gif

Thank you Mac the feeling is more than mutual. I truly love and value our
discourse on a wide variety of topics.

Your quick wit, intelligence, and empathy, make times that are difficult, a
little more bearable.

Thank you again,

Peg....

Luck-of-the-draw I suppose. Some people just don't go beyond str8 up fucking. I know 35+ yr old women that have never sucked dick and claim they never plan on. I've had sex with a few TS without Oral, but I wouldn't use the word aura....more like a vibe you give off to either engage you in a different manner sexually or that you wouldn't be comfortable if they did give you oral. Just my opinion.