You can have both nuts, Hara (I wish).
Until a partner feels safe with the piercings, I either take them out, or use a condom. A condom makes the 'ride' smoother, and shows (when I pull out and the whole thing is intact) that the piercings won't tear, or get caught on anything.
So... how about a date, baby ;-)
slippery smoooooth, aren't I guys ;-) Not!
BTW. Your avatar is quite distracting. Every time I see it I think of a new salad dressing or dessert that I could spread over that butt, then lick off... Very difficult to focus on the topic at hand (no pun intended)