Admirers Post Your Pics Here

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Originally Posted by hillbilly

a simple aspect that is a concern of mine is that if i put my picture on here. basically every tom, dick and harry in the NYC scene would know who i am. i really don't need some drunk fool giving me grief or worse at on of say Allanah's parties cause i said some sort of silly shit on here.

i'm not comfortable with that. isn't that reasonable?

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LOL, that IS a bit understandable.

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Originally Posted by hillbilly

something that kind of bothers me about what the girls attitude is their seeming lack of understanding of how hard it would be to post ones picture and be completely "out". its frustrating that they would have you believe that they just woke up one day fully formed. confident and brash and unreluctant about the consequences of their decision. we know thats not true.

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No, not at all. Of anyone, girls KNOW how hard it is to be out. Some of us HAVE lost families, friends or jobs. Some of us have had all our lives to think about what we want/need to do with our lives. But I can't believe that all you guys haven't thought about your TS issues for awhile, either. But I guess it's human nature not to take the hard path unless your back is up against the wall. Most people will take the path of least resistance. By the same token, there is an enormous sense of relief and well being when you face your fears, conquer them, and live your life on YOUR terms. It's a very powerful feeling.

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Originally Posted by hillbilly

this not to suggest that one thing is healthier than the other but its funny that their seems to be a lack of tolerance for people who can't be what you want them to be or do what you want them to do. sound familiar or ironic?

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I don't know if it's lack of tolerance or maybe a lack of respect. I know that, for me, it's hard to respect someone that doesn't have the courage to be who they truly want to be. Who wants a man that is always afraid? Afraid his family will find out. Afraid what his neighbors might think. Afraid what his co-workers might think. Always lurking in the shadows. A man that will do anything with you in the bedroom, but won't take you out to dinner in a public place.

I think most girls have gone through a lot and have sacraficed a lot to be who they are. We want a man that at least has enough courage to be PROUD to be with us.

Hillbilly, this is not aimed at you specifically. I DO understand fear. And I hope that I shed some light on your topic.

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Originally Posted by TrueBeauty TS

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Originally Posted by Toro

You split hairs all the time. Some people would say that both boxing and streetfighting are uncivilized. Some people love watching both boxing and bareknuckle fights. It's a matter of degrees. As far as my posts coming across as combative, are you saying that because I don't lick ass like a lot of people in here? I'm an Aries, I'm a bad boy, and I'm not exactly meek... my name here is 'Toro' not 'Pollo'.

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You aren't going to like what I say, cause I tell it like it is. Straight up. I don't kiss your ass. Dig it. You mistake being civil and polite as "Licking ass". Using the fact that you are an Aries to be rude and vulgar? Come on.....

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Originally Posted by Toro

Look - you read my posts in a voice and rhythm that YOU create. But you don't know me. And yet you want to size me up on here based on the 'bluntness' of what I type? Pretty shallow don't you think?

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Isn't that what you are doing to her?

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No. You know, before you start feeling all high and mighty and victimized, I never addressed you nor Felicia prior to you guys coming at me. The only reason we're going back and forth is because I defended Miriam. Pretty rude and non-chivalrous of me, I guess. And in doing so, I called your friend Danielle out. She posted a bad pic of Miriam, who people were fawning over, to try to throw a wet blanket on her fire. That's just catty. And she knows it. And anyone who knows whats up knows it. And then after that, she acted like a really gay queen. But that's history.

I pointed out what Danielle said about Miriam when Absolute posted the very first pics of her - before ANYONE was going back and forth. She said she had stretch marks, that anyone can look that good if they have a sugar daddy, etc. Jealousy. But hey, I don't suppose if the shoe were on the other foot, and Miriam was on here posting negative shit about you or Danielle, that you'd want me or someone you know defending you, would you? No that would make too much sense.

It's YOUR karma you are messing with. I may curse, but I'm pretty sure everyone knows where my heart is. Even with LBCDO - I know he was throwing a barb at me for what I said once about that Jesus-freak looking like the dude on the Quaker Oats box, and yet I still came at him with a friendly piece of advice. Last time for that. You sound like you think you have it all figured out anyway, youngblood, so you don't want my input.

As far as you and Felicia go, TrueBeauty, all you've done is misjudged someone you'd probably really want to know.

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Originally Posted by Toro

No. You know, before you start feeling all high and mighty and victimized, I never addressed you nor Felicia prior to you guys coming at me. The only reason we're going back and forth is because I defended Miriam.

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Dude, don't even TRY to bring Miriam into this. This is about YOU. I told you I don't kiss your ass and that's why you don't like me. But I don't care. I tell it like it is. Straight up.

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Originally Posted by Toro

As far as you and Felicia go, TrueBeauty, all you've done is misjudged someone you'd probably really want to know.

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Right back at ya, Dude. If only you knew... LOL (Besides, I'm not into "bad boys". Give me a brainy nerd anyday!)

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Originally Posted by TrueBeauty TS

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Originally Posted by Toro

No. You know, before you start feeling all high and mighty and victimized, I never addressed you nor Felicia prior to you guys coming at me. The only reason we're going back and forth is because I defended Miriam.

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This is about YOU. I told you I don't kiss your ass and that's why you don't like me. But I don't care. I tell it like it is. Straight up.

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I do think it's kinda cute that you want me to like you.

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Originally Posted by TrueBeauty TS

Besides, I'm not into "bad boys". Give me a brainy nerd anyday!

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That's what they all say. And then they ask me to kiss them. You never met a brainy bad boy, did you? But I'll bet you loved Good Will Hunting.

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Originally Posted by Toro

I do think it's kinda cute that you want me to like you.

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(Looks out to all the people reading this) Is it me, or is it him? It's him, isn't it. LOL

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Originally Posted by Toro

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Originally Posted by TrueBeauty TS

Besides, I'm not into "bad boys". Give me a brainy nerd anyday!

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That's what they all say. And then they ask me to kiss them. You never met a brainy bad boy, did you? But I'll bet you loved Good Will Hunting.

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Matt??? Matt is that you???? This is Ben!!!!

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Originally Posted by TrueBeauty TS

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Originally Posted by Toro

I do think it's kinda cute that you want me to like you.

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(Looks out to all the people reading this) Is it me, or is it him? It's him, isn't it. LOL

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Originally Posted by Toro

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Originally Posted by TrueBeauty TS

Besides, I'm not into "bad boys". Give me a brainy nerd anyday!

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That's what they all say. And then they ask me to kiss them. You never met a brainy bad boy, did you? But I'll bet you loved Good Will Hunting.

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Matt??? Matt is that you???? This is Ben!!!!

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"Paging Dr. Freud..."

How you like them apples?

LOL

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Originally Posted by Toro

"Paging Dr. Freud..."

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and where is your psychology degree from? LOLOL (sarcastic irony, or ironic sarcasm?)

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Originally Posted by Felicia Katt

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Originally Posted by Toro

"Paging Dr. Freud..."

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and where is your psychology degree from? LOLOL (sarcastic irony, or ironic sarcasm?)

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Well it ain't from the University of Shangri-La

i don't at all think that any of this is aimed at me directly. by no means.

i simply hope to explore with everyone here the many pitfalls for anyone in the community.

i empathize with the struggle the girls go through and sometimes wish they would understand that the guys struggle as well.

to your point TBTS. how do you(or anyone) know who i TRULY want to be? you know? this is all based on assumptions. you're projecting who you want to be onto us in that respect.

its neither black or white.

and oh yes there is say 30% of me that doesn't want Mega or one of his goons (i actually say this with some odd affection) to beat the shit out of me one night when all i want to do is hang out get a little fucked up and flirt.

for me i like GG's as much if not more than TS's. so why would i possibly choose the much much more difficult path? you're right why would i?

sometimes to me it seems like the girls simply resent us for not committing. how can you if you likee GG's?

anyways thanks for listening and engaging. keep in mind these are meant to be hypothetical questions.