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And to address your original point.
The reason why a girl doesn't want to be in a relationship
with a guy who is cock obsessessed is because for the guy,
any cock usually will suffice.
To him it's all about the sex, the next notch in the bed post, the thrill of
the hunt. How many trannies has he bagged.
He usually doesn't care about the woman, and he damned sure doesn't
care about the community she is in.
It's about dick - period.
I have dated a ts girl for three and a half years, she used to live with me but we are now apart and probably splitting up. I met her by calling her up just to talk, because I thought she had a pretty smile, but at the time I was pretty much surfing trans porn/personals. I actually called her on the advice of my ex gg girlfriend who told me since that was what I was interested in to at least call. I asked her (ts gf)later why she gave me the time of day when I called, and she said it was because i knew the terminology, ie transsexual, and all that. She does not want srs, although she is on hormones and has implants. Our sex life was pretty normal really, just some of the parts were different, but I have never been attracted to someone as much either, not just because of her cock, but that is part of it. The reason we are breaking up has more to do with personalities than trans or whatever. My family knew about her status, at her request, but my friends just thought she was a crazy large chested blond.
I guess my view on this topic is that all people are different, for a girl wanting srs, I can see not wanting a guy who wants anything to do with her pre op gear. I have a friend who is working very hard towards srs, and has a boyfriend who apparently works around things. For myself, I know what I am attracted to, so I will continue to try to find it again, but I also want something long term, so it winds up ultimately being about somebody you love and want to live with. I can see the girls getting tired of being treated like an object, but when you get down to it, guys treat most women as a whole as objects, it not till you get down on one on one terms that you really get to know somebody. I wonder how many of the people on this forum have actually met a ts woman, and how many have lived with one, I think those of us who have feel like we are painted with the same brush that is meant for the guys who really only want sex with a transsexual and nothing else.
that is how i feel
if i feel something else i will post it
ps what happened to my avatar? and how can i load one
Props to you my man. :claps I concur.Quote:
Originally Posted by tonkatoy
I too have dated a ts girl before, and it wasn't something I sought out but it brought me into a new world. So I think there are many types of guys here and many types that like trans and genetic women, and it is difficult and unfair to paint everyone with the same brush.
And as a sidenote, all guys are sexually driven no matter what the object of their affection. Not all the time, but definitely some of the time... sex is on their mind and there is nothing wrong with that. It is human nature.
warning my reply will be longer than anything Peggy has ever put up so you might want to skip it
uh huh, they always know, anyone that thinks otherwise is fooling themselvesQuote:
Originally Posted by Kabuki
exactly............................Quote:
Originally Posted by trannybanger
Where are you located?!? Are there other women that THINK like you????? I'd like to at least visit this town because it sounds like a place I might like. I've been waiting for a woman to say something like this for a long time. THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Quote:
Originally Posted by justatransgirl
p.s. it doesn't matter
this is post 'Gears of War' aggression, but it was a wonderful replyQuote:
Originally Posted by hollywoodbuckstrap
HEHE.............................my response to thatQuote:
Originally Posted by peggygee
I might portray an asshole at times on HA but years before this website existed I was friends with someone who is a legend in the ballroom scene. We met on the street and I never EVER chased her or wanted her for her dick, I knew she was a transsexual and I just thought she was cute as fuck and we both got along (both Virgo's go figure). We hung out alot at her place, did the movie thing, restaurants, typical shit, we didn't date we just enjoyed each other's company. I respected her escorting thing and never questioned her on it, we had sex one time and I blew her back out, that was it. We are still friends to this day and I'd do anything for her. She lives elsewhere and whenever she calls me and tells me she's coming home to NYC we go out and have a good time, again NO SEX just a man & a woman having fun. Is she passable, yes? Would it matter? No. Why? Because I LIKE HER FOR WHO SHE IS, I LOVE HER SOUL. I love HA because I get to see people's perspectives about transgendered women which is something I never had when my close friend packed up and moved out of NYC. I was left with the pickup bar scene which I have no shame in sharing with any of you. It began with the original Edelweiss, followed by a brief horrible stint at the NowBar (which I don't totally hate because that's where I met Allanah) followed up with Opaline, Shelter, & Vapor all Allanah's party spots over the recent years. The pickup bar scene will make a man like myself, E, & Hollywood very bitter and very cold towards many of the girls and many dudes because overall we aren't like they are. There's a genuine attempt at trying to get to know someone on my behalf if I'm interested, I'm not out trying to fuck every chick that throws me a glance, believe me I have the stories and witnesses to verfiy how much sex I've turned down from Allanah's parties alone, which I'm proud of.
E you're a straight man. At the end of the day most of us are STRAIGHT men unless we say we aren't. Your sexual preference is just that: YOURS!!!!!!!!!!! No woman: GG or TS', no man: hetero or homosexual can determine what you are based on a few hours of seeing you at an event/bar/or club. Any of you men can walk away at anytime from the scene, grab a GG have some kids and move on. It's something rarely ever uttered on here, but it's a fact.
If a woman in this scene has a hard time dealing with you being in or around it you will have a tough time. It's like knowing your girl works at a strip club as a bartender or a stripper, and you're out with the fellas or at home watching ESPN while dudes and chicks are at her job trying to get in those panties. If you can deal with that thought in your head and trust your girl then you're good, if you can't it will never work. That's the pickup bar scene for guys like us. Broads that frequent them will ALWAYS have a hard time with you being around it because they don't like you seeing them possibly leave with a client, give a client a lapdance, etc.
We all just need a little more tender love and care
Therefore it really is an issue they have with how they are perceived BY you and not truly how they perceive you.Quote:
Originally Posted by JohnnyWalkerBlackLabel
hmmmmmmmmm, something to think about my evil twinQuote:
Originally Posted by trannybanger
I was always under the impression that ohm's law was the relationship between current, voltage and resistance... ohms = amps/voltsQuote:
I'm not sure if you ever taken up Electronics or followed Ohm's Law before. But there is a factual statement of, "Like Charges Repel, Unlike Charges attract".
Thank You JohnnieWalkerBlacklabel
peace
I will no longer date any guys that are really into the scene, knows everyone's name, who every girl is and how big every girls dick is.
Never happening again.
In my personal life, I also only date tops. True tops. Not the ones that will pretend to be a top and then be bending over in an instant.