Do you feel it's wrong?

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Ah, thanks - I was wondering while I was lurking through some threads - btw awesome pics in personals.

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Thanks sweety

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Oh and I'm not a "tranny chaser" by that definintion :) though, I do appreciate what a gurl has between her legs.

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But didn't you just say you dated a transexual?

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From another perspective, look at it this way:

Your looking at profiles online, and you see the hottest guy, right age, lots of stuff in common. You get to talking online, it seems too good to be true. Soul mate stuff. After several days on the phone, when all is going great, the 2 of you get together for dinner. Dinner couldn't be better, so you invite him over for a drink. Things go great and you suggest a sleep over...he says "I'd love to but I'm married. with 3 kids.....How does that make you feel?......Do you wish you knew that he was married up front?

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Special K I don't take it that far I said I tell them after we talk and feel one another. I don't tell every guy though if I'm not interested in them.

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Kelly, perhaps you missed the point of my post. You asked the members if we thought not being up front in a profile was ok or not. My post was asking you to figure it out from being on the recieving end of things. How would you feel if someone was less than upfront with you?

The fact that you don't take it that far, is from your perspective only. Maybe someone who spent a short while on the phone with you sees it differently. Wishes he didn't even waist his time on a call, or buying you 1 drink in a club. If a person thinks they've been fooled or tricked from the onset, they might just be a little distrustfull about anything else the other person has to say or offer.

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Originally Posted by specialk

From another perspective, look at it this way:

Your looking at profiles online, and you see the hottest guy, right age, lots of stuff in common. You get to talking online, it seems too good to be true. Soul mate stuff. After several days on the phone, when all is going great, the 2 of you get together for dinner. Dinner couldn't be better, so you invite him over for a drink. Things go great and you suggest a sleep over...he says "I'd love to but I'm married. with 3 kids.....How does that make you feel?......Do you wish you knew that he was married up front?

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Special K I don't take it that far I said I tell them after we talk and feel one another. I don't tell every guy though if I'm not interested in them.

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Kelly, perhaps you missed the point of my post. You asked the members if we thought not being up front in a profile was ok or not. My post was asking you to figure it out from being on the recieving end of things. How would you feel if someone was less than upfront with you?

The fact that you don't take it that far, is from your perspective only. Maybe someone who spent a short while on the phone with you sees it differently. Wishes he didn't even waist his time on a call, or buying you 1 drink in a club. If a person thinks they've been fooled or tricked from the onset, they might just be a little distrustfull about anything else the other person has to say or offer.

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Special K I don't want to be viewed as a transexual, because of the judgements and assumptions of what we are about. I don't see the harm in not saying so at first online in a conversation? It doesn't make me who I am as a person certainly.

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Oh and I'm not a "tranny chaser" by that definintion :) though, I do appreciate what a gurl has between her legs.

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But didn't you just say you dated a transexual?

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yes, but by your definition you made it sound as if the tranny chaser does not necessarily care about her as a person, just an object to .... or did I misunderstand?

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Oh and I'm not a "tranny chaser" by that definintion :) though, I do appreciate what a gurl has between her legs.

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But didn't you just say you dated a transexual?

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yes, but by your definition you made it sound as if the tranny chaser does not necessarily care about her as a person, just an object to .... or did I misunderstand?

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yeah and which case you did care about her no? If you decided to date her?

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Oh and I'm not a "tranny chaser" by that definintion :) though, I do appreciate what a gurl has between her legs.

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But didn't you just say you dated a transexual?

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yes, but by your definition you made it sound as if the tranny chaser does not necessarily care about her as a person, just an object to .... or did I misunderstand?

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yeah and which case you did care about her no? If you decided to date her?

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Yeah, we dated for a long time and I still care for & about her.

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From another perspective, look at it this way:

Your looking at profiles online, and you see the hottest guy, right age, lots of stuff in common. You get to talking online, it seems too good to be true. Soul mate stuff. After several days on the phone, when all is going great, the 2 of you get together for dinner. Dinner couldn't be better, so you invite him over for a drink. Things go great and you suggest a sleep over...he says "I'd love to but I'm married. with 3 kids.....How does that make you feel?......Do you wish you knew that he was married up front?

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Special K I don't take it that far I said I tell them after we talk and feel one another. I don't tell every guy though if I'm not interested in them.

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Kelly, perhaps you missed the point of my post. You asked the members if we thought not being up front in a profile was ok or not. My post was asking you to figure it out from being on the recieving end of things. How would you feel if someone was less than upfront with you?

The fact that you don't take it that far, is from your perspective only. Maybe someone who spent a short while on the phone with you sees it differently. Wishes he didn't even waist his time on a call, or buying you 1 drink in a club. If a person thinks they've been fooled or tricked from the onset, they might just be a little distrustfull about anything else the other person has to say or offer.

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Special K I don't want to be viewed as a transexual, because of the judgements and assumptions of what we are about. I don't see the harm in not saying so at first online in a conversation? It doesn't make me who I am as a person certainly.

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And furthemore let me be more frank...when they think you are a genetic girl they want to work for you take you on a date etc..but as soon as you say you're a transexual it becomes "I'd still let you suck my dick" etc so yeah in that case it's not good lol And easy to point out that he wouldn't be a guy I'm interested in.

But 9 out of 10 times after they talk to me for 20 minutes and then I tell them they are cool with it and still willing to take me on a date. And at least try it out and see what it's like to take a girl like myself out on a date...not sex a date.


AND I WAS TALKING PURELY ONLINE -- IN CLUBS I AM ALWAYS APT TO TELL THE GUY IF HE IS TRYING TO HARD..I DON'T ALLOW THEM TO BUY ME DRINKS AND I CERTAINLY DO NOT DANCE WITH THEM.

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Oh and I'm not a "tranny chaser" by that definintion :) though, I do appreciate what a gurl has between her legs.

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But didn't you just say you dated a transexual?

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yes, but by your definition you made it sound as if the tranny chaser does not necessarily care about her as a person, just an object to .... or did I misunderstand?

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yeah and which case you did care about her no? If you decided to date her?

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Yeah, we dated for a long time and I still care for & about her.

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so why would you call yourself a tranny chaser?

As a heterosexual male it would be perfectly ok for you to post an ad as a woman. For a few different reasons, but most importantly because you feel, act and present yourself as a woman. If you are a woman at your very core. That is not what you are, but WHO you are.