Men who are attracted to transgendered women- Straight, bi, gay?

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Originally Posted by transsexualover

Would you consider a bottom guy who prefers transgirls over girls straight bi or gay? I mean in your imho. Or u not sure?

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Honestly I wouldn't think much about it. Firstly, I doubt that's something I would know, exactly WHAT kind of sex the guy and tgirl are having in private.

Someone being a 'man' or 'woman' to me is about more than what kind of sex they prefer.
For instance there are thousands of hetero men I'm sure who enjoy receiving ass play from their CIS girlfriends and think it's awesome when they get topped by their GFs.

Is a lesbian any less gay because she loves to get 'fucked' with strapons and didoes by other women??

Who the genitals are attached to is more important IMO than any sex act.
IMO if you're a self identified man who's attracted to other men, you're gay.
Transwomen are a different kind of woman, but they definitely aren't MEN.

Back to the original question, I guess the important question to ask is how do YOU identify yourself??

If getting assfucked by a TS suddenly makes you physically and emotionally attracted to men and a desire to fucked by them, exclusively, I'd probably consider that person gay.

For unfamiliar straight folks who don't understand my sexuality, I let them call me bi and call it a day.

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Originally Posted by giovanni_hotel

Honestly I wouldn't think much about it. Firstly, I doubt that's something I would know, exactly WHAT kind of sex the guy and tgirl are having in private.

Someone being a 'man' or 'woman' to me is about more than what kind of sex they prefer.
For instance there are thousands of hetero men I'm sure who enjoy receiving ass play from their CIS girlfriends and think it's awesome when they get topped by their GFs.

Is a lesbian any less gay because she loves to get 'fucked' with strapons and didoes by other women??

Who the genitals are attached to is more important IMO than any sex act.
IMO if you're a self identified man who's attracted to other men, you're gay.
Transwomen are a different kind of woman, but they definitely aren't MEN.

Back to the original question, I guess the important question to ask is how do YOU identify yourself??

If getting assfucked by a TS suddenly makes you physically and emotionally attracted to men and a desire to fucked by them, exclusively, I'd probably consider that person gay.

For unfamiliar straight folks who don't understand my sexuality, I let them call me bi and call it a day.

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I dont think it works that way. You can be assfucked by ts and dont like guys at all. Or you can be topped by either ts or guys. But i dont think that if u like being reciever with ts that automatically ensures that u like being fucked by a guy. Anyway even if you like both then i dont see a problem here.

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Originally Posted by transsexualover

If the guy is bottom and prefers transgirls over girls then would you consider such guy straight, bisexual or gay? Ps. Im new here so if i said something wrong - dont be mad at me, ty

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I would say if you're not attracted to men then you are more or less straight with a slight variation. At the end of the day these are all just labels and if you don't care for them you will probably be happier.

Well and as for the post above, if you like both (ts women and men), then you would be certainly bi in my opinion (to answer your question)

Society. Media !!! Labels everything!!
Enjoy what you like♡

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Originally Posted by transsexualover

I dont think it works that way. You can be assfucked by ts and dont like guys at all. Or you can be topped by either ts or guys. But i dont think that if u like being reciever with ts that automatically ensures that u like being fucked by a guy. Anyway even if you like both then i dont see a problem here.

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That's the point. It's really no else's business except your own and whoever else in sharing your bed.

I'm attracted to both TGs and GGs. I have no desire to be topped by a TG, and thus am not compatible with any strict top Girls. I considers myself to be mostly straight, slightly bi. Others may differ, but that's how I see it.

Labels, labels. I am definitely bi. Why? Because I like cock. Even if I only like it on a feminine, girly person whether they consider themselves transgender, femboy or whatever. It doesn't matter. I like to top, be topped, give and receive oral sex, so I certainly consider myself bi.

Don't care one bit about the Label,as long as they want to Fuck Me Im good!!

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Originally Posted by jockboy

I've been with both TS and women in my life. They all have different opinions on the topic. Some women have told me I'm bi and transgendered women have called me everything from straight, bi, and gay. Would love to hear everyone's thoughts.

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This is a riddle, wrapped up in a mystery, encased in an enigma.

in the straight community, its considered gay. in the gay community, its considered straight.

my personal opinion... i dont give a fuck

no offence to anybody, but then this thread is years old, and people provide the same answers. it's common sense, if a person looks, acts and IS woman, then it's straight.

it's definiely shades of grey though, but even if a guy bottoms, then he cannot be gay if he'd never bottom for a cis man. i think for some it's about a woman fucking them, and that turns them on.

Very much straight in my view. Transgender women are, just that, women. Personally, I love the post-op girls. I even have had the very good fortune to have been in a long-term relationship with a very pretty one. In the end, unfortunately, it didn't work out, but we are still good friends. I can say from personal experience, she understood me in ways, no other woman ever had. She didn't have tantrums if I had to work late (in my then profession, it happened quite often). She was (and still is) extremely girly. In fact, I can only recall a very few occasions she wore anything but a dress or a skirt. Always had her hair, make-up, and nails done. She absolutely loves being a girl. As I love very feminine, "girly" women, she made me extremely happy. Yet, she was just as big a mystery to me as a genetic girl.

PAN I love it all.

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Originally Posted by LilyRox

Guys that only like girls and ts girls are straight, not even bi.

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Even if they enjoy sucking their cock? Surely they would have to be at least bi?

Why must everyone have a label attached?

I don't know if maybe someone has already mentioned something like what I'm about to say but I look at it like this; If simply liking a tranny means you like dick and therefore are gay, you're saying that it is 100 percent about the dick. By that logic, you as a heterosexual male should be attracted to a female to male trans that has huge muscles, deep voice, hard face, hairy back and caveman beard but still has her vagina because that's what it's all about and nothing else. Same for an ugly 600 pound woman. She has a vagina, yes but do any men want her? No. It's easy to see now that it is not nearly as simple as genitalia. At puberty, we develop secondary sexual characteristics, male features in boys and female features in girls. The female form and presence as it appears is nearly 100 percent of what triggers attraction from men. If a trans woman exudes all of these feminine characteristics, then the presence of a dick is not what the men found attractive. To some guys, it is simply a unique and unusual feature on an otherwise complete woman. If a man is gay, he wants the full presence of a masculine man, not just dick. When I came across trans women as a teen, I was attracted to them because they look like women, not because they have dicks. Being attracted to the female form, shape and energy is what makes a straight man, not simply a vagina and nothing else. And as an added bonus, a trans woman understands men like no natural born woman can or cares to.

That is such a beautiful and correct answer. But I love ts women and they've crossed me over to the gay/curious life...which I believe is the answer. That it's not gay. But can easily gateway you into it.

From femboys to xdressers to twinks and hooray!! You're in the gay section. Lol. Look at how at the adult stores next to gay is the "shemale".

Okaythankyoubye

Men that are attracted to Transsexuals are quite simply HUMANS !!! All the other stupid labels you talk about are meaningless----grow up and become a HUMAN !!!

I consider myself straight and have been with both ts girls and genetic girls equally. I have a strong attraction to femininity. The ts girls I’ve been with preferred me over others because I look, behave, date GGs, and am very masculine. I do not have fixation on their girl cock when having sex and most perfer it that way. In fact, one trans girl didn’t want to touch her cock at all. Soo I don’t know maybe if the cock is your goal you’re “gay/bi” 🤷♂️

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Originally Posted by Upsetwife

Even if they enjoy sucking their cock? Surely they would have to be at least bi?

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So would going down on you make me bi as well? :D

whocares? y'all are too "hung" up on labels...you like what you like in a spectrum of individuals..i like a wide range of women from bbw,fitness type women,skinnny girls with bubble butts and lots of different types of t-girls.set yourself free from the labels and be strong with yourself and what you love.

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Originally Posted by qeuqheeg222

whocares? y'all are too "hung" up on labels...you like what you like in a spectrum of individuals..i like a wide range of women from bbw,fitness type women,skinnny girls with bubble butts and lots of different types of t-girls.set yourself free from the labels and be strong with yourself and what you love.

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Nice collection of labels there! :D

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Originally Posted by tacocorpv2

So would going down on you make me bi as well? :D

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Depends if you are a male or a female! If you are a male or a woman who has sex with both males and females then that would make you bi correct?

stop worrying about the labels and just remember you are doing whoever for the pleasure of it.

For someone upset at finding out their husband is straying with TS girls you seem quite calm in this thread? Are you trying to understand him or come to terms with it? Not criticising just curious?

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Originally Posted by harry24844722

For someone upset at finding out their husband is straying with TS girls you seem quite calm in this thread? Are you trying to understand him or come to terms with it? Not criticising just curious?

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Both I guess. I haven't been calm at all while I'm at home alone and he's at work. My neighbours must of wandered what all the screaming and crying was about when I 1st found this. I've tried so hard yo confront him about it but just find myself claming up. I have suggested a strap on which I thought may have given him some clue that I knee but he just rejected the idea saying it was taking it too far for him. I've dropped so many hints for him to admit things to me and then we can talk and work through it and sort out some kind of compromise as I want to keep my marriage as love him so much but he's just not getting it or maybe he is and he's just as scared to open up to me as I am to him

i could say gay, under circumstances...

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Originally Posted by Upsetwife

Both I guess. I haven't been calm at all while I'm at home alone and he's at work. My neighbours must of wandered what all the screaming and crying was about when I 1st found this. I've tried so hard yo confront him about it but just find myself claming up. I have suggested a strap on which I thought may have given him some clue that I knee but he just rejected the idea saying it was taking it too far for him. I've dropped so many hints for him to admit things to me and then we can talk and work through it and sort out some kind of compromise as I want to keep my marriage as love him so much but he's just not getting it or maybe he is and he's just as scared to open up to me as I am to him

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i think u both need time to adjust to the new situation..he may feel embarrashed to open himself to u for the moment, but if u insist with genuine interest and not critishism , he will sourender to u..anyone who wants to save his/her marriage has to do patience and be determinded.

I agree with this.

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Originally Posted by mikelangelo1

i think u both need time to adjust to the new situation..he may feel embarrashed to open himself to u for the moment, but if u insist with genuine interest and not critishism , he will sourender to u..anyone who wants to save his/her marriage has to do patience and be determinded.

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Originally Posted by mikelangelo1

i think u both need time to adjust to the new situation..he may feel embarrashed to open himself to u for the moment, but if u insist with genuine interest and not critishism , he will sourender to u..anyone who wants to save his/her marriage has to do patience and be determinded.

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You are totally right. I'm just going to carry on dropping hints and suggesting we try different things making it sound like it's my idea then hopefully someday he will open up to me
I've told him things about my past that were difficult to admit to and I'm embarrassed about some if it but I told him cause I song think you should keep them kind of things from your partner
Hopefully soon he sill feel the same and open up to me

PAN Sexual

straight