I would date you Ruby in heartbeat go whever youwanted just sit n talk for hours enjoy the evening
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I would date you Ruby in heartbeat go whever youwanted just sit n talk for hours enjoy the evening
Nice that you're honest about it (also nice that you don't mind action --you're really gonna slay the gals with that line..lol).Quote:
Originally Posted by nobbieq
...just wish you didn't make it sound like you were trying out a puppy..to see if you can handle the walking chores.
No I just turned 18 in Feb. And actually I NEVER get hit on, literally never.I really can't see what else it would besides looks then.In the end it'll all work out,I plan on getting a lot of surgery on my face and I want my boobs first and foremost.Lets see what guys ignore me when I have a 36DDD =)
for all the ppl in this thread talkin bout if a girl is escorting well thats kinda irrelevant cuz that goes for any chick whether she is a ts or a gg......if the girl im datin is sleepin wit other ppl then so am i its simple lol
As a guy who is the type you have described as pump n dump, i will answer your question.Quote:
Originally Posted by RubyTS
To put it plain and simple look at it this way.
Guy: Tall, strong, good looking, hung, great job, ripped, great career ahead of him, wants a monogomous relationship with a girl he loves.
Tranny: decent looking, escorts, no job prospects, wants her man to stay faithful whilst she fucks repulsive clients and he must accept this.
Can you not see how there is a serious miss-match down the line?
Instead the competition that you are dealing with is.
Girl: sexy, university educated, daughter of a millionaire, owns her own property, also wants a monogomous relationship and doesnt want to cheat on her man.
If you put yourself in the position of the man that you are after, what looks more tempting to him, the tranny or the girl?
You have your answer.
Here's the same scenario from the escort's perspective, without using tranny as a synonym for escort:Quote:
Originally Posted by igotmacedbymimi:(
Guy: Short, bald, middle-aged, thinks he's hung, makes a decent living or better, fat, unhappy with his life, dreams of a monogamous relationship with a transsexual escort.
Escort: considers herself hot but perpetually unhappy with her own looks, escorts, not interested in conventional employment at this time, no real savings (all spent on surgeries and pleasures), willing to love a hung stud but he must accept that she fucks strangers for money.
So she tells the guy, can't you not see how there is a serious mismatch down the line? Here is your competition:
Stud: Tall, strong, good looking, hung, great job, ripped, great career ahead of him, wants a monogomous relationship with a girl he loves.
She doesn't see the whole picture, who her real competition is, and thinks she has more than a fleeting chance with the stud!
My last three girlfriends were all TS's. The first one I dated for a little over 6 months. She ended up dumping me because I was such a retard with her. Dating a tgirl for the first time is kinda like dating a gg for the first time as a teenager. Guys just fuck it all up because we are retards. LOL.
The second girl I dated only lasted a little over a month. She was cool, but she lived almost 100 miles away from me and it turned out to be more of a hassle than anything else. The breakup was pretty mutual and I think id we saw each other walking down the street, we would probably have a good talk and a few laughes.
The third Girl I am still with. I have been with her for a few years now and things are good.
If I break up with my current gf or if she dumps me, I would probably end up with another TS girl.
LOL, I didn't mean it that way. Honestly, I think she's materialistic and expected to be pampered or some bs. Like I would treat her mostly, but sometimes would expect her to go 50-50 on some costs. I remember she caused a fuss about some of that stuff. I never ever had a problem with that with a gg, but she dumped me later the next week and freely admitted that that's what she wanted. On top of all of that, we didnt't have much in common except our heritage.Quote:
Originally Posted by fred41
She's with some older dude now, who has more moolah than me. I can see what kind of a shallow person she is. She's pretending to be all happy now, but I remember how depressed she was with her transition and even mentioned suicide to me a few times!
Yeah I'll freely admit I can't lie to a t-girl and be in a LTR with her, but any kind of short term action is fine. Hell, I was the one that forced an LTR with the last t-girl because it started out as just fucking around. We talked online for like 30 mins and she invited me over, so it's not like I was the only person wanting some ooh la la.
I love dating guys makes me feel like im a real girl ;)
I would happily date a Transsexual or Male or Female....As long as they had attributes that i value and were kind and fair..and treated me with respect ...
Yes you can me a lesbian if you wish :)
Libb x
I guess I didn't phrase the question very well...it was just about the whole fairness issue, of the way people sometimes expect monogamous devotion from their partner that they are not prepared to give. I think others clarified it for me very well, however.Quote:
Originally Posted by slinky
Sure. If she was a true tranny, and not a cross dressing whore out to make money, I'd have no probs with the situation 8)
Shit, I cant belive that no guys ever hit on you.Quote:
Originally Posted by blonde_sweetheart
Yes I would and have...
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Originally Posted by alyssats
You dont need a guy for that, you already are :peanutbutter
I have dated a few and they were great relationships. I have never had a LTR though. They all ended for the same reasons that relationship with GG's have ended (IE distance, my travel schedule/job). I have come to the conclusion however that I am not a monogamous person so I am better off dating
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Originally Posted by dan_drade
Nope. The most I get is "Got any cute friends?"
I.Hate.My.Life.
Blonde the problem with having big boobs, I have 32DD now is that people talk to your tits not your face :( i have to click my fingers at the moonbabies to tell them my face is actually up here :)
Libb x
i would hand down:)
your such a sweety mwahhhQuote:
Originally Posted by T-girl hound
right, like thats a problem you cant handleQuote:
Originally Posted by LibertyHarkness
;)
JW you dog, you talk to my tits all the time on chat cam :) lol xxxx come on cam later i am woneleyyyyy :)
yer id go on a date
Lucky! I want 36DDD'sQuote:
Originally Posted by LibertyHarkness
Well with DDDs your gonna be needing some strong anti Turk Male weaponary :)
:) xx
The one TS i dated in the sense of we went out to movies and shows regualrly, as well as had sex: I did meet her mom and stepfather, sat down and had dinner and everything. The one awkward moment was when her stepfather sat me down and gave me the discreet little "you're dating my little transgendered daughter and I hope you act like a decent human being" speech. It was twice as awkward because he was at least ten years younger than his stepdaughter and I.Quote:
Originally Posted by RubyTS
Damn,Quote:
Originally Posted by blonde_sweetheart
Now I wish I was 20 years younger. LOL
RubyTS,
I meant to post a comment a while back, anyway, better late than never.
I was in a 2 year (1998 to 2000)relationship with a TG. She was completely passable, as far as I know. She met my friends, and family. Hell, even the "Ex" met her. Most of my buds considered me the LUCKIEST S.O.B. on the planet earth... She was (is...)super pretty, super smart, super sweet and super cool. She's a classy and discrete lady. No lie.
Ohh, and a hard cock that I would "sword-fight" with at every available opportunity...
WHY would I let someone like this slip out of my life? After two years she rightfully asked me for a "long-term" commitment.
I freaked a bit and blinked... AND broke her heart. With damage to mine also...
I have a good relationship with my GG right now. ALTHOUGH, she knows nothing of my secret (now) fantasy life.
With age one of two things happen to most folks, either you become increasingly narrow-minded, OR, you become more open-minded.
In my case I've become more open-minded. If I were to have met "Maria" now, I might do things differently.
2 percent lol
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Originally Posted by horndog
Now why can't I have that? I just don't understand.
Ms. KellyShore,
Quote" 2 percent lol" Unquote
Is this in response to my post? In which case, what does it mean? My HA jargon is underdeveloped... :oops:
blonde_sweetheart,
I just want to say that you look really cute in your pics. Realy nice.
Your still very young. Don't be in BIG rush to get those new boobs, or whatever...
I'm not professionally qualified to give any TG person advice. Hell, there's plenty of make-believe doctors and psychologists here at HA as is...:lol:
However, I am especially sympathetic because I was in a such a wonderful relationship with a terrific TG gal.
I prefer the small ones from hormones better than the implants, unless they're really, really nice.Quote:
Originally Posted by horndog
I would and have. I know I'm about 24 pages late to the original discussion; but to answer the original question, I would/will/do.
I would have, had i not met my current gal first.
Maybe
Ashley/blonde_sweetheart is absolutely breathtaking! I wish she grew up where I did! She is a knockout.
Being in a relationship often involves more than just the two people, but a merging of friends, family and other social networks from both sides.
Given how few men whom are "into" trannies are comfortable with their sexuality, even to themselves, the numbers willing to be "out and proud" about it has always been rather small. Even today with increased exposure of transpersons, and it seems an expansion of men willing to engage in sexual relations with same, the number willing to admit to God and the world, their choice for a partner still is rather small.
Aside from the outed Eddie Murphy, we have very few public admissions of men who go with trannies, but as MANY girls know, there are lots of famous, rich and or powerful men who like them. That liking however rarely extends to being seen in any sort of major public venue though.
Now there are many trans admireres who say "oh I'd be with a TS in a minute, but they are all escorts", and or "I don't wish to be involved with anyone who is or was a hoe". Well that is all well and good, but there are trannies out there who never have taken money for sex, much less anything else, and am here to tell you the dating options are not that much better either.
The only exception to the above I have found, seems to be with Asian trannies. Asian, Phillipine trans seem to have something that men are willing to go for. Am not knocking anyone else, but that is how things appear to petite moi.
The other argument men use is they would only date a trannie who is "totally passable". In short they want Megan Fox with a d**k. Well am here to tell you there is no such thing as a "totally passable" TS, all of the time. Have known and seem some of the most gorgeous girls going about their business along the streets of Manhattan, and someone, it could be a child, construction worker, teenager, Mexican delivery boy, or whatever, will clock her.
Just as expecting a hot and beautiful twenty-something year old girl to stay that way long past her 50's, transgirls and transwomen change as well. It is rather easy for some if not many to be totally passable and such when one is in one's late teens through say twenties or early thirties, but nature, time and gravity effect us all. People change as they age, and for some trannies, despite all efforts to fight nature, Mother Nature often wins, or at least puts up a good fight.
What am saying one has to accept the person for what and who they are, and not project upon them wishes and desires of what you wish them to be.
No, there are more attractive girls than Megan Fox, with respect to both looks and brains, and not everyone is into transsexuals with dicks.Quote:
Originally Posted by Shining Star
Have read some of your posts regarding Miss. Fox, and one's only question is, what has she done to you?Quote:
Originally Posted by phobun
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