princesa:
You pwned that poster ... but I also think, as seanchai did, that you were too reactionary with Michelle. You're detailed breakdown to his idiocy was better that my simple emotional response. To that WELL DONE!!!!
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princesa:
You pwned that poster ... but I also think, as seanchai did, that you were too reactionary with Michelle. You're detailed breakdown to his idiocy was better that my simple emotional response. To that WELL DONE!!!!
You seem very angry and bitter. I am just expressing my personal opinion with regards to post-op transsexual women. I love post-op transsexuals and have immense respect for the decisions that they have taken in their life. Every transsexual, just as with every person, is different. Take a chill pill!Quote:
Originally Posted by princesa
Yes, I know that there some girls who regretted SRS. But I also know some girls who are desperate to get SRS, but can't because of financial issues. You look at transsexual celebrities like Candis Cayne, Dana International, and Isis King, they are extremely happy with their lives and the fact that they got SRS. There are many post-op transsexuals who are living wonderful lives!Quote:
Originally Posted by TSMichelleAustin
The whole point of this thread is to promote post-op transsexuals . There are many people, especially tranny chasers, who are opposed to transsexual women getting SRS for their own selfish reasons. At the end of the day, what matters is that the tgirl is happy with herself and her life. Most of the tgirls that I know that have gotten SRS are happy with their lives. They shouldn't be forced to keep their cocks just because some tranny chaser wants them to.
As for finding a woman that has had SRS, it is very hard to do so.
It is very difficult to the extreme!Quote:
Originally Posted by nina_lisa
I think as long as a person is happy with their body this is what mater, telling someone non-op to get srs is as wrong as telling a girl that want SRS to not get it.Quote:
Originally Posted by Mr. Sinister
I had client that will ask me if i wanted SRS, and then they will say: come on, don't do such a stupid thing,...Etc
Even had chasers that i never dated or wanted to date, that were desperate that i never get SRS, one was: you might get infection if you get SRS because....etc to which i needed to reply: so how many years do you have experience as a sex change surgeon?
People that tell us not to have srs, are like people that tell us, not to transition, that we need to accept ourselves as men, that we will be miserable if we change gender.
Well ts in general are a small minority, which make it hard, now i am not sure how it will be if you live in a big city like NYC or SF.Quote:
Originally Posted by fordly66
I may be alone with this point of view, but it has always seemed to me that if a transsexual claims to not want or never intended to have the SRS then they are not real transsexuals to begin with, they are full time transvestites or drag queens living full time as women. If she is uncertain about the surgery then naturally she shouldn't have it until she is mentally, physically, financially and socially ready for it. And no one should make that decision but her. It seems to me that the only reason post-op transsexuals have come under criticism is out of sheer jealousy and envy when they deserve praise for their life-long accomplishment in having the strength to pursue happiness as who and what they desired to be. These days we now have pre-op, post-op and non-op transsexuals and transgender that makes the issue of Gender Dysphoria a murky grey area. I prefer vaginal sex with women so a post-op transsexual still fits the bill for straight guys like me. But I find hard to believe that a straight guy is really straight if he's sexually intimate with a pre-op and apparently transsexuals, pre- and post-op, feel the same way. I strictly prefer women for sex pardners and her being a post-op transsexual means no more to me than her race, color, religion or nationality, and that's the way it ought to be for everyone.
Genitals aren't gender identity.
Some of you talk like SRS is no more challenging a surgical procedure than getting a cavity filled.
Plenty of girls have had a positive experience, others haven't.
I can understand why some TGs decide to leave well enough alone and stick with the known instead of going for the the chop.
I don't have anything against postops, but that's not really what this forum celebrates or is even about.
Who's jealous/envious of postops?? That's made up inside your head.
BTW most straight dudes ignorantly still call people originally born with male plumbing 'men', so I don't see how having vaginal sex with a postop somehow lets you keep your man-card over guys who sex preop TGs.
IMO it's postops and their admirers who are trying to jump line and assume this greater status in the TG community as if somehow they are more 'authentic' since having SRS.
If this was exclusively a postop board, it would be crickets.
While i really want srs and surgery i have to strongly disagree with you. Gender is not white and black, or 0 and 1, it is a continuum. And a trans woman that does not want surgery is not less of a woman, that a trans like me that want surgery.Quote:
Originally Posted by beatlephil
Drag queen or tranvestite, don't consider themselves as woman, they just enjoy cross dressing, it is a fetish for them, for trans woman op or non op it is an identity issue.
Once you take hormones you start to look smell and be perceived as a woman, i had situations where i was still dressed as a guy but i was taken hormone for a few months, but many people gendered me female, no tv or drag queen is gendered female while dressed in guy cloth.
If someone can be happy with no surgery, better not to have it, it is very painful and expensive. It is easy when one is born in the right body to tell trans what is right and wrong, but many struggle even to pay rent let alone pay $20K for surgeries.