Re: Shocking new video from Sarina Valentina!!
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postopadmirer
So who do you trust?
If not everybody has good health-care and sometimes your friends are stupid or you get bad advice on the Internet or a silicon injection pusher. who should you trust for advice?
Let's face it there are alot of conflicting voices in these forums and the trans community. I never had doubts that you should not pump aquarium glue into my hips, but what if all my friends are doing it? I might think it is ok and safe.
Like EvonRose said 'think about the future'. How do you know when you have the right group of advisors for your transition? How do you know when you have advisors with the right prospective.
I would recommend at lest the following folks be in your network.
1. A mentor - somebody who has been were you are and is now where you want to be and will give you "how to" and "how not to" advice.
2. Technical expert - somebody who will give you competent medical advice (doctor or clinic councilor) as long as they have above average medical knowledge.
3. A friend - somebody who is willing to tell you when you are making a mistake, but will stand by you even if you make it.
I think with this group at least two of the three would have said silicone in your butt is a very bad idea.
POA
You should be your own advisor... I know we are smart enough to know and do our research and we are pretty educated enough to know when something is medically approved or not, if its not approved there is a good reason for it! Second listen to your doctors, not black market doctors but real doctors. They will tell you, give it time, transition goes on for years even for genetic women, there is no such thing as easy fix, work for what you want! And I'm sure many of these ts know it was bad for them but they did it anyway... Its your body and your the one paying for the price, Bottom line.
Health first, beauty second gals.... c'mon!
Re: Shocking new video from Sarina Valentina!!
I blame men in general, they want curvy girls
Re: Shocking new video from Sarina Valentina!!
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Originally Posted by FRANKLIN;1072020I
think we need to question the TS industry for underpaying girls.
shut up
a fashion female model who work on tv in my country make the same as a TS model in USA so shut the fuck up
do to mess with the indians mapuches
Re: Shocking new video from Sarina Valentina!!
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Nikka
I blame men in general, they want curvy girls
Well actually it should not be what men want, girls should modified their bodies because they want to do it and not because men want it. Girls have to accept how they look and for people to accept them how they are. If a guy doesnt like me because I have a small ass or because something else I dont care, there will always be guys who will like them. Everyone has diferent taste and sometimes girls want to please everyone.
Re: Shocking new video from Sarina Valentina!!
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NatashaLover
Well actually it should not be what men want, girls should modified their bodies because they want to do it and not because men want it. Girls have to accept how they look and for people to accept them how they are. If a guy doesnt like me because I have a small ass or because something else I dont care, there will always be guys who will like them. Everyone has diferent taste and sometimes girls want to please everyone.
I agree with this. The girl should be doing it for herself first and only. I can understand wanting to be pleasing to everyone else and to be accepted and be pretty, sexy, desireable, etc. But don't do anything to yourself for anybody else. There will always be someone who will love you for you, and not because you bought yourself some hips, or a big butt, or bigger tits, etc. Cockhounds aside, there are many of us who love you because of the women inside you, and not because you have a big ass, some boobs and a cock. its up to you, NOT US, to decide how to be that woman. If you are true to yourself, then nobody can say a damn thing to you to take anything away from you. Nothing is worth the risk if the risk could kill you, or make your life miserable in the long run.
Re: Shocking new video from Sarina Valentina!!
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AmyDaly
Its not about underpaying people. We make hundreds of dollars an hour for the work that we do. Its just that there isn't enough work out there to afford things like health insurance unless you escort or venture into working behind the camera to generate more work for yourself. Especially for the girls who think they are worth more than other girls and end up getting even less work because they ask for too much. Not only that, but as you can see most of these girls rather spend money on vanity.
quite right amy :-) that's why I have a 2nd job and still go to school. can't rely solely on the porn industry for income.
Re: Shocking new video from Sarina Valentina!!
pvt health insurances have a lot of small print....... best advice is to save up and keep some money stashed away for the bad times, when your ill, have an accident or things go wrong- that's the best insurance you can get.
Re: Shocking new video from Sarina Valentina!!
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FRANKLIN
I think we need to question the TS industry for underpaying girls.
STFU Franklin. You porn obsessed asshole. You see the whole TS world through your porn goggles. It makes me wonder if you have ever even interacted with a transexual beyond the internet, much less met one. I watched my ex go through elective surgeries and pain I couldnt imagine until she could get the person in the mirror to match the person in her mind. That included going to Mexico and getting her ribs cracked and reset. I've known girls to get pumped at parties in hotels, take hormones bought at some shady flea market in LA, start doing meth to get skinny, get fat taken from their belly and pumped into their face, the list goes on... Alot of girls really want to get to this ideal image they have set in their minds and make some risky decisions to get there.
You show an ignorance of transexuals and the insurance industry. But I'm sure your encyclopedic knowledge of porn comes in handy.
Re: Shocking new video from Sarina Valentina!!
This makes me sad of course, but relieved I didn't get pumped when I was going to...something in my head told me to back out and I did..
I feel so sorry for Sarina...
Insurance with blue cross and blue shield is only $280 a month girls...
Re: Shocking new video from Sarina Valentina!!
After watching the video, is it just me or does anyone else just want to give Sarina a hug (in a non-sexual way).