LOL That was too cute!!! Thanks.
But yeah, your situation is different. Most (other) "str8 acting/masculine" males attracted to other males feel that way about Fem dudes. They consider them to be unattractive and stereotypical, blah blah.
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WOW! I rather think sexual orientation is redundant nonsense, especially in trans culture. No matter what a person is about self hatred and shame are incredibly destructive emotions. I think of Roy Cohn and how things turned out for him... he was the closeted homosexual attorney to Senator McCarthy... withered and died in the early days of the AIDS emergence. Look at his compensatory behaviors and the terrors he wrought. Social and political contradicting hypocrites confuse and scare me. But I digress.
I remember in a more flamboyant period of life I'd be out clubbing and occasionally some imbecile would threaten me with physical harm... maybe gay, maybe straight- often in over thier head in whatever intoxication they were pursuing... I'd caution them that I was fairly capable of protecting myself and might not win a fight, but would certainly hurt them in a possibly unforgettable way... and I might really jack them up and humiliate them for life. I never got bashed. Thankfully.
Point being people are such hostile idiots, whether turning that energy inward or outward. I am super glad I live smack in the middle of a very liberal city... generally feel safe. All bigotry is destructive. There are categories of people I consider, shall we say, unsavory... I just steer clear. Self destructing, self hating jerks don't end up on my dance card.
Oh and I love the delicious dirty sounding use of the word homosexual (emphasized in speech) for gay... cross dresser is a transvestite in my vocabulary, and so on. Most people get it... that I am goofing on closeted paranoia.
He is not gay, Mr hat is
That is NOT being a homophobic gay. The straight acting gay man is not afraid of the feminine acting gay. There is no fear involved. It is just a preference towards the straight acting gay man. He is just not attracted to the feminine type of gay man. Even straight people have certain preferences about other straight people. A personal preference doesn't mean they are afraid of anyone else.
The term "Homophobic" means a fear of homosexuality, or homosexuals. A straight acting gay man is already gay and can not be afraid of his own kind or himself.
The term "Homophobic Gay" is a contradiction in terms. An oxymoron. You can be homophobic, and you can be gay, but you can't be both. One cancels out the other. That is like the chicken who is afraid of fowl, or a baseball player who is afraid of baseballs. It doesn't make sense.
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