GGs have the biggest issue with transsexuals

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

Oh and also I'm sorry but I don't like admitting to a guy that I'm a transsexual at a straight bar, because usually they get obnoxious. I don't want them saying omg omg omg are you really a man so the bar can hear.

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I don't think you are under any obligation to do that at all. I don't see the need to divulge personal things about myself to someone I have just met. I think most people are that way as well. Obviously, if you are romantically interested in him then you would tell him at some point while you are getting to know each other, but before that I don't see any reason why you would need to.

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@kellyshore your quite true danger is everywhere but you have to agree being transgender makes you a easy target.

@NYTSJulie i'm just saying you know how some of those guys are you don't even have to be intimate they will snap regardless because they think they were talking to a man(which isn't the case).

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I just don't see why I need to tell my T to someone I am just talking to. What if I tell him out of "respect" so you say, and that in itself puts me in more danger if he freaks out and starts pummeling me. When I could of avoided that situation in the first place.

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That's a good point never really thought of that i guess its kinda like a double edge sword for you girls,you tell him he snaps,he finds out himself he snaps.Kel why no just go for guys who already know?

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Because 9 out of 10 times those guys that know don't see you as the woman you are. Straight guys can see that side before a man that knows sees it thats attracted to the pre-op transsexual.

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

Oh and also I'm sorry but I don't like admitting to a guy that I'm a transsexual at a straight bar, because usually they get obnoxious. I don't want them saying omg omg omg are you really a man so the bar can hear.

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I don't think you are under any obligation to do that at all. I don't see the need to divulge personal things about myself to someone I have just met. I think most people are that way as well. Obviously, if you are romantically interested in him then you would tell him at some point while you are getting to know each other, but before that I don't see any reason why you would need to.

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Thank you, exactly people don't divuldge everything about themselves when talking. It's not like he walked up to and said Hi my name is Mike and I have a 9 inch dick. lol

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Originally Posted by NYTSJulie

Who thinks that T girls should tell guys right away?

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There can't be a catch all "works every time" answer for this question. There are things to be discussed in almost every relationship scenario there is.

One I encounter in my life is when to share the fact I smoke pot. There is obviously danger in admitting to being a law breaker (Federal, I am in California) to the wrong person.

So to answer you Julie, no, or yes, depending on the person/situation.

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I was born a boy and can beat the shit out of her like no woman can lol.

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I dunno, there are some SCARY gg's out there that would give most typical GB guys a run for their money in a fight. This one girl I used to work with took steroids and T (not enough to say, transition like a FtM- just to help gain bulk when working out), and holy crap she was strong.

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I have to at least have to say something and put her in her place, or she will think she can do it again.

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Yea, I think you're right. People like this will do it again unless they know better, I don't know enough to be able to say rather she will not do it again in response to being politely told its wrong (and why). Some people will actually not repeat this kinda thing after being told why its a bad idea politely and calmly, but not everyone is that civil by any means.

My mom used to out me like the examples in this thread, when I talked to her about it, it boiled down to two things... her thinking it was funny to see how people would react :roll: and feeling threatened by me and having this fear that I'd be interested in her bfs and could be competition. Sat down, explained it all and said she would have to trust me- and that was the end of it. I've had "friends" where this tactic did not work.

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Who thinks that T girls should tell guys right away?

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Oh fuck, you didn't just say that did you? LOL. With some of the guys on here- you better believe some think this.

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@kellyshore your quite true danger is everywhere but you have to agree being transgender makes you a easy target.

@NYTSJulie i'm just saying you know how some of those guys are you don't even have to be intimate they will snap regardless because they think they were talking to a man(which isn't the case).

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I just don't see why I need to tell my T to someone I am just talking to. What if I tell him out of "respect" so you say, and that in itself puts me in more danger if he freaks out and starts pummeling me. When I could of avoided that situation in the first place.

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That's a good point never really thought of that i guess its kinda like a double edge sword for you girls,you tell him he snaps,he finds out himself he snaps.Kel why no just go for guys who already know?

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Because 9 out of 10 times those guys that know don't see you as the woman you are. Straight guys can see that side before a man that knows sees it thats attracted to the pre-op transsexual.

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right, straight guys see a pussy to fuck, with a body attached to it.

and guys in the "scene" are all cocksuckers and take it up the ass.

don´t you just LOVE cliches and wishful thinking?

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@kellyshore your quite true danger is everywhere but you have to agree being transgender makes you a easy target.

@NYTSJulie i'm just saying you know how some of those guys are you don't even have to be intimate they will snap regardless because they think they were talking to a man(which isn't the case).

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I just don't see why I need to tell my T to someone I am just talking to. What if I tell him out of "respect" so you say, and that in itself puts me in more danger if he freaks out and starts pummeling me. When I could of avoided that situation in the first place.

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That's a good point never really thought of that i guess its kinda like a double edge sword for you girls,you tell him he snaps,he finds out himself he snaps.Kel why no just go for guys who already know?

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Because 9 out of 10 times those guys that know don't see you as the woman you are. Straight guys can see that side before a man that knows sees it thats attracted to the pre-op transsexual.

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right, straight guys see a pussy to fuck, with a body attached to it.

and guys in the "scene" are all cocksuckers and take it up the ass.

don´t you just LOVE cliches and wishful thinking?

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It's just been my own personal experience with men Steven. I am not downing anyone. I find that guys that aren't in the scene respect me as a woman, and treat me how I'd like to be treated. Guys that know want to know how big my cock is and if it gets hard. THATS BEEN MY EXPERIENCE, so if that upsets you, I apologize.

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@kellyshore your quite true danger is everywhere but you have to agree being transgender makes you a easy target.

@NYTSJulie i'm just saying you know how some of those guys are you don't even have to be intimate they will snap regardless because they think they were talking to a man(which isn't the case).

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I just don't see why I need to tell my T to someone I am just talking to. What if I tell him out of "respect" so you say, and that in itself puts me in more danger if he freaks out and starts pummeling me. When I could of avoided that situation in the first place.

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That's a good point never really thought of that i guess its kinda like a double edge sword for you girls,you tell him he snaps,he finds out himself he snaps.Kel why no just go for guys who already know?

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Because 9 out of 10 times those guys that know don't see you as the woman you are. Straight guys can see that side before a man that knows sees it thats attracted to the pre-op transsexual.

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right, straight guys see a pussy to fuck, with a body attached to it.

and guys in the "scene" are all cocksuckers and take it up the ass.

don´t you just LOVE cliches and wishful thinking?

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It's just been my own personal experience with men Steven. I am not downing anyone. I find that guys that aren't in the scene respect me as a woman, and treat me how I'd like to be treated. Guys that know want to know how big my cock is and if it gets hard. THATS BEEN MY EXPERIENCE, so if that upsets you, I apologize.

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Does it?

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I would have to agree that women are like this with other women as well....I dated a smokin hot black girl one time and she always used to say that she had the most problems with girlfriends...especially when going out to the clubs and MOST especially when she got on the dance floor.


But honestly, if your interested in a guy this is one of the FIRST things you should tell him....Leading a guy on is foolhardy in the extreme.

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Originally Posted by KellyShore

[ It's just been my own personal experience with men Steven. I am not downing anyone. I find that guys that aren't in the scene respect me as a woman, and treat me how I'd like to be treated. Guys that know want to know how big my cock is and if it gets hard. THATS BEEN MY EXPERIENCE, so if that upsets you, I apologize.

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It doesn´t upset me at all. It´s just funny, that you think "straight" guys are respecting you as a person, and by no way think about your toilet parts when hitting on you. THAT´s wishful thinking.