In 34 years no man ever wanted my penis.

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12-09-2007
Fox

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Originally Posted by peggygee

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Originally Posted by Fox

Is sex in general different than it was 34 years ago?

Without revealing my age :oops: I will say that sex was markedly different back then.

I've been full time for 34 years, before that I was 'that other gender'.

But as a younger transsexual before HIV, and when you could safely
exchange fluids, and when I was a PYT who didn't know any better, yeah
I was out there.

But those were different times, a little safer, not all the crazy people. Life
wasn't just about the hustle.

Well, I don't have any experience with tgirls up to this point, and although I'd be a top guy, I don't see how she'd be satisfied if I completely ignored her penis. I mean, I'd feel bad if I didn't bring her to orgasm (suck, handjob, something). I understand some can orgasm from anal only even without any interaction with her penis, but I don't know how common that occurance really is. So, I guess my next question would be, if those men ignored your penis, were you sexually fulfilled? Was it less of a sexual thing for you and more emotional and that was "enough?"

Just curious. 8)
12-09-2007
peggygee

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Originally Posted by tg4me

Peggy, I often think your the one that's on the wrong site. You try to expand our thinking and you use this as a sounding board for TG real-life problems,concerns,politics and feelings. Arianna does the same but often with a chip on her shoulder. There are others too, but I will only mention the two of you. I find both of you interesting as people. I've thought about both of you in my 'non-porn' life. I read your comments because you have something to say and your not scared to say it. Viki is like that too. But I'm HERE for shallow reasons. :roll: I don't think that makes me a shallow person. This is a porn site. If this was a site dedicated to helping those in the TG community, then 85% of all that is posted here would be offensive to me. If I was a TG "just looking for a single drop of fucking compassion from somebody...anybody" :cry: :lol: ......I would often find this place depressing.

I'm not the life of the party kinda guy. IF I saw either of you at a party, both would leave the longest impression on me.... if I was able to connect on a personal level. Meanwhile, the others that find it easy to let down their hair, have a blast dancing the night away, laughing and just having a "shallow" good time are a group that I've never quite been apart of. :roll: I've heard the "I like him as a friend/brother more than once in my life. :lol: Maybe that's the "vibe " mentioned earlier. Some of us are at our best on a intimate conversational level, some of us shine as the wild and wacky types. Some of us relate to the Blues and some love disco.

HA, I'm going to share a secret with you.....

If you should ever meet me, you will find me to be the same pasionate,
caring, intense, woman of integrity that I present on the forum.

What doesn't come across in my writngs very often is my wicked sense
of humor. In real life I am very gregarious, very high energy, a real live wire.

Or you may find me having a quiet tete-a-tete with someone on a very
intense topic

Some people are uni-dimesional, I am not one of those people.

Yes, I could start threads like "Do you like my hair color", "Is my ass too
fat", or get caught up in 100 page long flame wars.

But I'm a middle - aged woman, who should know better, thus I
don't roll like that.

I too often wonder why I am here. I don't escort, I'm not promoting a
video, I'm not announcing when I'm availible in your town.

For me being here is more about gving to others, rather than seeking
anything from someone.

Rare will it be the I will ask of others on this forum, I have people in the
real world that I rely on to comfort and guide me.

In terms of any potential dating opportunities, that's not likely to happen,
because this is Hungangels, not 'Postop Angels'.

My OP question is my natural inquisitive nature to understand a
phenomenon that I hadn't encountered in my decades in 'the lfe' until
I came upon sites like HA and the like.

And that is why the intense propensity to have a proclivity for the penis.
12-09-2007
peggygee

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Originally Posted by Fox

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Originally Posted by Fox

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Originally Posted by peggygee

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Originally Posted by Fox

Is sex in general different than it was 34 years ago?

Without revealing my age :oops: I will say that sex was markedly different back then.

I've been full time for 34 years, before that I was 'that other gender'.

But as a younger transsexual before HIV, and when you could safely
exchange fluids, and when I was a PYT who didn't know any better, yeah
I was out there.

But those were different times, a little safer, not all the crazy people. Life
wasn't just about the hustle.

Well, I don't have any experience with tgirls up to this point, and although I'd be a top guy, I don't see how she'd be satisfied if I completely ignored her penis. I mean, I'd feel bad if I didn't bring her to orgasm (suck, handjob, something). I understand some can orgasm from anal only even without any interaction with her penis, but I don't know how common that occurance really is. So, I guess my next question would be, if those men ignored your penis, were you sexually fulfilled? Was it less of a sexual thing for you and more emotional and that was "enough?"

Just curious. 8)

I hadn't forgotten the question.

I'm just trying to figure out how I can answer it without
writng a dissertation. :oops:
12-09-2007
peggygee

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Originally Posted by alphanumeric

Peggy, it's not just men but the whole culture thats changed. It's now the "me, me, me" generation. they want it all and they want it NOW.

Seriously. I see it on this board all the time. rudeness, disrespect and self absorbtion. and it gets to me. (please understand that I'm not singling out this board, I see this stuff everywhere)

This current generation currently has the highest debt load per capita since world war II, and even then the debt load was from trying to help their country in a time of war.

We have become materialistic and egotistical to the extreme.

The good news is that this generation has also become more tolerant than ever before. The western world IS a haven for gays and TS's if you don't believe me try to live in a communist or muslim country.

for me the bottom line is can't we try to be just a little more civil to each other?

There is a meaness, a callousness that is epidemic on the Internet.

It is as of if people can sit at their monitors, they are free to act in a
manner that they would not in the real world.

I've stayed out of a lot of flame wars, trying to be neutral, hoping it would
blow over, that the parties involved could work it out amongst themselves.

I have studied and been a part of enough history to see that is not
always the best course of action.
12-09-2007
TrueBeauty TS

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Originally Posted by M77

I didn't read the whole thread. I've never had sex with a Trans-women, if I ever do, then I would be the top. I don't suck cock either...so I guess the penis doesn't really come into play for me, it's insignificant.

Hope that's easy to understand.

M77,

I hear that a lot from guys and I always wonder.... then why are you interested in T girls? If the penis has no interest to you at all, then why not be interested in regular GG's? Surely GG's will let you do anal too, so it can't be just about that, is it?

I know you can't hear my tone of voice, but I'm not being a smart ass. I would like to understand your point of view. At the end of the day, whatever turns you on makes no difference to me, but I am curious about your response.

With respect....

.
12-09-2007
peggygee

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Originally Posted by Fox

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Originally Posted by Fox

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Originally Posted by peggygee

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Originally Posted by Fox

Is sex in general different than it was 34 years ago?

Without revealing my age :oops: I will say that sex was markedly different back then.

I've been full time for 34 years, before that I was 'that other gender'.

But as a younger transsexual before HIV, and when you could safely
exchange fluids, and when I was a PYT who didn't know any better, yeah
I was out there.

But those were different times, a little safer, not all the crazy people. Life
wasn't just about the hustle.

Well, I don't have any experience with tgirls up to this point, and although I'd be a top guy, I don't see how she'd be satisfied if I completely ignored her penis. I mean, I'd feel bad if I didn't bring her to orgasm (suck, handjob, something). I understand some can orgasm from anal only even without any interaction with her penis, but I don't know how common that occurance really is. So, I guess my next question would be, if those men ignored your penis, were you sexually fulfilled? Was it less of a sexual thing for you and more emotional and that was "enough?"

Just curious. 8)

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I have an answer, and it's relatively short. :wink:

Having an emtotional connection with someone, caring about them and
they you, does make sex better.

If I have sex with a stranger, I'm going to be nervous. Are they a nut, a
serial killer, what's their STD status.

Back when I used to get high, I had sex with this guy, who I knew, after I
fell asleep, he stole money and drugs from me, I caught a case off of
that.

Now I have been clean for many years, and my body is a temple, and
very precious, thus I don't let people go traipsing around my body, mind,
heart and soul.

But on the sex tip, making love to a transwoman is very similiar to making
love to a natal woman, at least it is for me.

Lots of fore-play, kissng, groping, under the sweater action. Licking and
kissing my breasts and nipples, and rest of my body, grabbing squeezing
my butt. My feeling the firm body of my man, his muscles, his bald
head, or dreads between my breasts, feeling his groin become aroused.

When I was pre op I enjoyed anal sex quite a bit, now not so much.

In men and pre ops when you hit the prostate gland it can be very
pleasurable.

Another important tip, I never liked to lay on my stomach and have the
man make love to me, that struck me as a gay position. I would be on my
back, with my legs over his shoulder, or sitting on him, riding him cowgirl
style.

And here's the important part - how I got my nut then, and often do now.

As they are fucking me I might be rubbing my penis, much like I will
massage my clit now when I have sex.

So basically we're fucking but I may be doing some self stimulation The
beauty part now is I don't mind if a man massages my clit or does oral
on me, then it was unpleasant.

Bottom line for sex to be enjoyable I had to be the woman, the receptive
partner.
12-09-2007
TrueBeauty TS

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Originally Posted by M77

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Originally Posted by TrueBeauty TS

I know you can't hear my tone of voice, but I'm not being a smart ass. I would like to understand your point of view. At the end of the day, whatever turns you on makes no difference to me, but I am curious about your response.

With respect....

.

Hmmm, your signature says that 99.98% of us ain't worth your time. You've never shown signs of liking me in the past so I'm not sure about this "not trying to be a smartass" and "respect" business. More like you're trying to set me up for something. If you don't like me much that's fine. I've never liked much you either. 8)

Damn.... that's cold. And it's Christmas time too. :cry:

Sorry. I'll try not to talk with you again.

.
12-09-2007
peggygee

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Originally Posted by M77

Does a pre-op have much choice if she wants to be penetrated in other places besides her mouth or ears? :lol: Post-ops are fine too, but if she didn't want anal sex, then I'd be disappointed.

I was just saying that to Fox upthread.

When I only could have anal, and my prostate was larger,
I loved it.

Now I can do vaginal, and the prostate is smaller, so anal
is an every once in a while thing, and then it's.....

"You ain't gonna shit right for a week"

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:lol:
12-09-2007
hondarobot

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Originally Posted by TrueBeauty TS

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Originally Posted by M77

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Originally Posted by TrueBeauty TS

I know you can't hear my tone of voice, but I'm not being a smart ass. I would like to understand your point of view. At the end of the day, whatever turns you on makes no difference to me, but I am curious about your response.

With respect....

.

Hmmm, your signature says that 99.98% of us ain't worth your time. You've never shown signs of liking me in the past so I'm not sure about this "not trying to be a smartass" and "respect" business. More like you're trying to set me up for something. If you don't like me much that's fine. I've never liked much you either. 8)

Damn.... that's cold. And it's Christmas time too. :cry:

Sorry. I'll try not to talk with you again.

.

Honestly, a girl with a penis is a bit odd. You can't really dance around that. You deal with it and do what a guy can to make her happy.

That's pretty much all there is to it.
12-09-2007
Fox

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Originally Posted by peggygee

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Originally Posted by Fox

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Originally Posted by Fox

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Originally Posted by peggygee

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Originally Posted by Fox

Is sex in general different than it was 34 years ago?

Without revealing my age :oops: I will say that sex was markedly different back then.

I've been full time for 34 years, before that I was 'that other gender'.

But as a younger transsexual before HIV, and when you could safely
exchange fluids, and when I was a PYT who didn't know any better, yeah
I was out there.

But those were different times, a little safer, not all the crazy people. Life
wasn't just about the hustle.

Well, I don't have any experience with tgirls up to this point, and although I'd be a top guy, I don't see how she'd be satisfied if I completely ignored her penis. I mean, I'd feel bad if I didn't bring her to orgasm (suck, handjob, something). I understand some can orgasm from anal only even without any interaction with her penis, but I don't know how common that occurance really is. So, I guess my next question would be, if those men ignored your penis, were you sexually fulfilled? Was it less of a sexual thing for you and more emotional and that was "enough?"

Just curious. 8)

http://i92.photobucket.com/albums/l2/magi43/car2x3.jpg

I have an answer, and it's relatively short. :wink:

Having an emtotional connection with someone, caring about them and
they you, does make sex better.

If I have sex with a stranger, I'm going to be nervous. Are they a nut, a
serial killer, what's their STD status.

Back when I used to get high, I had sex with this guy, who I knew, after I
fell asleep, he stole money and drugs from me, I caught a case off of
that.

Now I have been clean for many years, and my body is a temple, and
very precious, thus I don't let people go traipsing around my body, mind,
heart and soul.

But on the sex tip, making love to a transwoman is very similiar to making
love to a natal woman, at least it is for me.

Lots of fore-play, kissng, groping, under the sweater action. Licking and
kissing my breasts and nipples, and rest of my body, grabbing squeezing
my butt. My feeling the firm body of my man, his muscles, his bald
head, or dreads between my breasts, feeling his groin become aroused.

When I was pre op I enjoyed anal sex quite a bit, now not so much.

In men and pre ops when you hit the prostate gland it can be very
pleasurable.

Another important tip, I never liked to lay on my stomach and have the
man make love to me, that struck me as a gay position. I would be on my
back, with my legs over his shoulder, or sitting on him, riding him cowgirl
style.

And here's the important part - how I got my nut then, and often do now.

As they are fucking me I might be rubbing my penis, much like I will
massage my clit now when I have sex.

So basically we're fucking but I may be doing some self stimulation The
beauty part now is I don't mind if a man massages my clit or does oral
on me, then it was unpleasant.

Bottom line for sex to be enjoyable I had to be the woman, the receptive
partner.

Cool, thanks for the enlightenment. :D

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