Question for "straight" guys

if ur not interested just say no. why is this all so hard?

i say "hi" back and smile. what's the problem?

y do you have to say anything at all

i get hit on by men and women all the time im not interested in at ALL

all i do is shake my head "no" or show them blinged out ring finger.... *im single* but the ring says "fuck off im taken"

Ok - who's reviving all the ancient threads today?

But since it's here.

Jen, I thought you had a BF? You aren't "gay" are you? GIGGLE :-) :-)

As for straight guys looking to hook up with t-girls and getting hit on by boys in gay bars.

Yes, just be polite. After all YOU are in their space.

Usually as someone else said gay guys will catch the signs and understand, but not always. There's some mighty straight looking gay men. So just politely say you are hoping to meet a t-girl.

Who knows, they may hook you up.

In generaly though unless a T-girl is non-passable, or a pro looking for a hook up, or emplyeed by the bar, you won't find too many t-girls in gay or trans bars.

I know Jessica and I virtually never go to a gay or t-bar unless it's on business.

Giggle,
TS Jamie :-)

gay people don't really hit on me :(

I used to live with a gay woman, we were very close friends. Every now and then, I would go to a gay bar or some 'gay event' with her...I wish I could say I was okay with guys coming up to me and assuming that I was gay-but I was young and dumb, so I used to wear work boots or old, ratty jeans or something-to not have that 'look'. She still laughs at how obvious it all was, and how guys would even ask to buy me a beer, just to see the expression on my face as I stammered out a reply...

it's some kind of gay radar they have. gay guys only hit on each other

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Originally Posted by sucka4chix

Since many times the place to find a cute TS is a gay bar or at least
gay friendly, how are you supposed to handle an advance from gay men,
if you don't swing that way? I was recently in Florida and a girl told me
these guys said "hi". Minutes later, one walks by and says " hi baby".
My reaction is to ignore them and hope they catch the hint. A TS
friend of mine says I should kindly say "I'm flattered, but I'm here for
the girls", or something like that. Anyone else ever encounter this? How'd
you handle it?

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Easy: tell the gay guy that if he dressed up like a chick (check the amateur Ts/CD/sissy thread for more info) then you'll fuck him.

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Originally Posted by 62des

Well although I would LOVE to meet a really sexy tgirl, its not NEARLY enough to make me go to a gay bar. Although I have absolutely nothing against gays, going to a place like that would make me a little homophobic, plus its a place where guys like guys so there's a 100% more chance of getting hit on and that's not my style. My attitude is, if I meet one hooray for me but I'm not gonna go lookin at a gay bar, there's WAY TOO MANY beautiful GG's women in straight clubs to even think of doing something like that. Women is my goal, wether Tgirl or GG, but I'm not going that far to find a TS.

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I was gonna chime in on this subject but this guy pretty much took the words out of my mouth.