lol i wrote a whole paragraph about how those ppl's fetish is based in false appropriation but then i deleted it... those guys r just weirdos..Quote:
Originally Posted by amberskyi
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lol i wrote a whole paragraph about how those ppl's fetish is based in false appropriation but then i deleted it... those guys r just weirdos..Quote:
Originally Posted by amberskyi
lol ive started to do that more often,deleting would be comments.sometimes its just better to not burst peoples bubblesQuote:
Originally Posted by rydermorrison
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Originally Posted by TheGuard
Ryder is right, TheGuard: gay men are attracted to men, not to women, even with a little extra. Guys who are into t-ladies are straight.Quote:
Originally Posted by rydermorrison
Oups! had not read this from Grim: " I think what he's trying to say is he'd like a new term to differentiate straight admirers from bisexual or gay admirers because public opinion seems to be that we're all a bunch of thirsty cockbandits. I don't see the sense, though. So long as the scene remains publicly taboo and there are homophobes and right-wing religious types in the world, we're always going to be seen as gay. No number of newly introduced terms are going to change that. The only remaining recourse is learning how to deal with our insecurities when people do lump us together or parting ways with people too quick to judge and too unwilling to listen." If it was the intention, I could indeed find some merit to it.
not for me
am extremely attracted to GGs and have had sex and relationships with a good number
am also turned on sexually by facially feminine and petite build Tgirls with big everhard cocks; I masturbate now and again to tgirl porn and have been with a small number of Tgirl escorts, but find that I generally have a far better time sexually with GGs.
never been sexually attracted to guys, never had a gay experience, never been even tempted, and this hasnt changed despite my indulgences with tgirl escorts and Tgirl porn and my stress free acceptance and realisation of this aspect of my sexuality
additionally, gay porn doesnt turn me on and holds no interest for me
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How many times do we have post like this? If I like tgirls does this make gay. I like tgirls and ggirls. I am more interested in the girl personality and attitude than rather than what is between her legs. I am not interested in guys at all. If liking tgirls makes me bisexual so be it.
Once every week or two. There seems to be a lot of really confused dudes around here. :shrugQuote:
Originally Posted by MHarrigan82
You are right Grim every week Grim we have a post like this.Quote:
Originally Posted by GrimFusion
perhaps if we have one 3 times a week instead of once every week, we'll be more straight
Yeah I am sure that will help.Quote:
Originally Posted by bluesoul
:D:banana::):dancing::wiggle::dead-1::smile::violin:shrug
Exactly, thanks for that - I know this is something we've been over a million times, but then I see guys on here who only care about giant cocks and are into anything with a cock. Maybe I am insecure in how I'm viewed, don't know why, but I don't like being lumped into that category. I like to think I'm fairly respectful and open minded. I view trans-women as women, I'm very comfortable with myself in my everyday life (may not sound like it) - my girlfriend knows that I'm attracted to women, with or without penises. I suppose I was just trying to answer the OP, I genuinely don't view it as a gateway.Quote:
Originally Posted by GrimFusion
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Originally Posted by Dino Velvet
I relate to those feelings, TheGard. I sometimes do feel uncomfortable myself about it. Yet in my case, I’m not sure the preoccupation would be to dissociate myself from this other way of appreciating t-ladies, although I don’t share it. As far as I feel from how it represents t-women, I think we’re even much further away from what people in general feel about all of us combined outside of sites like HA, as GrimFusion alluded to. Besides, our feelings are probably the results of all the negativity surrounding homosexual and bisexual practices in society, such negativity we should do our best never to encourage.Quote:
Originally Posted by TheGuard
And every time someone posts that they feel confused, or are even the least bit curious about what is an interesting aspect, and almost never discussed aspect, of male sexuality, someone on a great big high horse berates them for 'being pathetic'.Quote:
Originally Posted by MHarrigan82
How very 'enlightened' :loser:
If these types of posts piss off the 'tranny lover and fiercely proud of it' brigade then why bother to click on these threads and comment ?
Why waste your 'valuable' time ?
Having personally never been attracted to men and never having had a gay experience or even been vaguely tempted to; on accidentally coming across some Tgirl porn on the web in my 30s, I got turned on, surprisingly to me, and then so on and so on and eventually leading to a greater discovery and acceptance of this side of my sexuality.
I came onto this forum and posted a similar 'offending' question, mainly to see if there were many others out there like me who arent gay but get very turned on by certain types of feminine looking tgirls.
i got the standard, 'youre a pathetic, confused, gay, idiot..etc' response from quite a few, but a few others were patient and understanding.
I was never really confused, conflicted, scared or worried, but truly intrigued, especially since this is an aspect of sexuality that is almost never, ever discussed. Are there any well known scientific/psychological studies on this phenomenon ?
So why be so surprised, let alone frustrated or angry and bitchy, that guys (who usually, and for good reason, consider themselves pretty much 'straight') who find themselves suddenly attracted to 'chicks with dicks' find their way onto this forum (there dont seem to be too many forums like this around) and ask questions like this ?
It's got to be, at least here in the U.S.
Take a look at the comments of the guys on these message boards and the content of North-American sites, as well as the stuff out of Italy.
It's not only dominated by gay guys but dominated by gay bottoms.
If you want to see North American or Euro scenes with the guy as a total top, you are going to have to look a lot harder. Your other option is Brazil (which is mostly vers or guy on the bottom anyway) or the stuff coming out of Thailand, which is mostly guy on top.
There is also a lot of bondage scenes where the guy gets screwed. It seems to be for guys who are in denial about being gay, but they are the most cock-hungry dudes around. I wonder what regular gay guys think of bottom chasers?
I feel like the English speaking market does little to nothing for fans who want to see the guy as a total top fucking the tgirl. I know that we are a much smaller market niche, but come on...