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yes, I ABSOLUTELY.. NOT just would BUT I want to have a relationship with a TS... I want to experiment everything.. from the spending time to getting to know each other, to eventually the sexual etc....
Unfortunately, a lot of TS are scare at first because they think thats all what the guy wants. Majority of the time it is... BUT is other cases where that isnt the case.. Like mine, I want it.... and I know someday I will find it!
Im gonna be completely honest, I would not have a relatlionship with a TS. I havent noticed anyone answer 'no' besides me, so i suspect some people of deceit. Hear me out. Whether you respect my honesty or think im an ass. it doesnt matter. Firstly, i wouldnt have a relationship with any1 at the moment. I was in a 5 yr relationship with a gg that was hell. Im recently single. I ve been thru enough bullshit relationships 2 know that i dont want another girlfriend until i find some1 that i could possibly marry. I want children someday. Not adopted kids, MY kids. A TS can never give me that. If i would have answered this question 6-7 years ago my answer wouldve been "definitly yes." But the realities of my current life point towards me stayin single for a good while, having lots of crazy wild sex, and then eventually finding a GG that can 1 day proudly call my babys momma lol. Obviously, if i met a TS who was absolutely gorgeous, took care of me in every way, and turned out 2 be my soulmate, i might have a change of heart. Im open to dating and see what happens but i probably will always prefer a long term relationship with a gg. So my answer stands at no.
Yes, I would definitely have a relationship with a TS. Unfortunately, it's always been hard for me to find that special someone. I've always dated women -- and I had a few sexual experiences with T-girls ... a few escorts and a couple of one-night-stands with non-escorts t-girls.
The problem is that whether it's a TS or a GG, I'm real particular. I'm not a perfectionist, but just someone who is attractive and who could be my best friend -- a spiritual connection, if you will. I can find TSs and GGs that I can be friends with. And I can find some that I'm sexually attracted to, but I have trouble finding both in the same person. And when I do find someone who I think has real possibilities, she's usually not interested in me.
Also, with a t-girl, she would have to be passable and living in stealth. I'm known as a straight person, and I don't date men, so I want to continue to be known as a straight person -- and, unfortunately, at least in the minds of many people (including unfortunately some T-girls), if you are a male -- and you date t-girls, then that makes you gay -- or at least bi.
Let me say that another problem in having a relationship with a t-girl is that, sexually, I wouldn't want to be the top all the time. I don't want to bottom all the time, either. I'd like to switch off.
So, givev all my criteria, that, unfortunately, limits my options a lot with t-girls.
Unfortunately, I can understand that. However, since you're on the Internet and you do entertaining and escorting, it might be very difficult to keep your status a secret. Would you be willing to give up all of that other stuff for him? Would that make him feel better about it? Or does he know about your escorting, etc.?Quote:
Originally Posted by KellyShore
I once corresponded with a t-girl I met on Craigslist. She said she was living in stealth, and I really wanted to meet her -- I thought she had real relationship potential. She wrote me several times and told me she wanted to meet, but when it came right down to it, I could never get her to meet me. It was very frustrating.
I think it's unfortunate that t-girls are so much identified with the gay scene. It's really a transexualism is very different from homosexuality. I really view transexualism as a medical condition -- a form of being Intersexed -- and homosexuality as a lifestyle and sexual choice. Unfortunately, though, the general public is alway going to confuse being t or t-friendly with being gay. Is your boyfriend well-known in the community, such that he it would be in the media if he were outed?Quote:
Originally Posted by KellyShore
With all due respect, I do think that's an unrealistic dream. There's nothing wrong with dreaming -- we all need that. But relationships take work. EVERYONE brings some baggage to a relationship. We are all flawed human beings. You can try talking and see what some of his fears really are. Maybe there are things he can learn to deal with. Maybe there are things you can learn to deal with. A relationship between a t-girl and a "straight" guy can be difficult. I know, because I've been looking for such a relationship for a long time now, and I haven't had much success. But I keep trying nonetheless. I hope you'll keep trying to work things out.Quote:
Originally Posted by KellyShore
Romantic men exist, but she said that she was looking for a "prince charming." Unfortunately, Prince Charming does not exist. Most people are a bundle of neruosis and contradictions. Her current boyfriend may or may not be able to change in the way she wants him to.Quote:
Originally Posted by suckseed
I think I am open to it, I'd be open to marriage too. I am going to end up married in the next 5 years or less anyway even if to a GG . If it was the right girl who knows it could be substantially less. And hopefully it will last. Whoever she is , she has to be passable and feminine, opposed to cruelty and there has to be trust.
But consider this, that when a TS comes in like an unstoppable opinionated steam train in her profile for example with 100000 demands that I be this big public loud outgoing tranny chaser or something it scares me and puts me off. I have a life with GG's and male friends who wouldnt understand and who would consider me gay which I dont think I could cope with . In that case it would totally fuck up years of relationship building. It could seriously damage the warm brotherly trusting relationships I have with some men and give my enemies ammunition to use against me.
To consider that I might have to give up such good relationships with people who I love and would die for is the worst thing of all. I also wonder how it would affect my career advancement and business relationships.
Also how would I spend my time as this 'outed thing' ? ,I wouldnt feel comfortable or happy in a gay pub and the gay graphic sense of humor e.g 'hows your sausage' jokes etc isnt for me . In such a setting the absence of a brotherly male environment would seem soulless and empty to me. Truly I am fucked up. If I was gay I'd give everyone two fingers and consider the problem a lot easier and know where I stood.
Its' the fact the people I know best will never understand which bothers me the most. I also want kids. Its possible I could have kids with someone else and still be with a TS. So thats not an insolvable problem in itself.
But as I said before, when a TS comes in like an unstoppable opinionated steam train in her profile (here or elsewhere) with 100000 demands that I be this big public loud outgoing tranny chaser proud of the fact it scares me away. The only valid reason to put myself out there and my heart on the line and leave my old life is if I truly found true love. Only true love would be worth the sacrifice.
But if I made her my whole life and then we broke up and it turned out she wasnt serious about committment then I would be alone, with a nuked life and nothing left to live for except my broken dreams of the past.
I'm not a coward, have a spartan attitude towards life and generally meet problems head on. I think perhaps a streak of self destructive rebellious anarchy in my soul brought me here. I've always been a rebel against petty authority. I've stood up for weak people in the past since childhood, and always done what I think is right but the universe didnt reward me for it. Hence my youthful optimism has been replaced by healthy experienced realism. I have both my eyes wide open but feel like I am walking in the dark.
Hold on guys this thread was made around the time I was still with my exboyfriend Matt. Which was a year ago :lol:
istill think its a relationship for me Kelly, no stealth/undercover for my signiicant other (unless she wants it that way for her own reasons)
i think i prefer it that way even after one good try live in ltr and one unsuccessful attempt.....not dating currently but when the right girl comes along you just know....
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I don't want a relationship with you Kelly. I just have to go to the chatroom any random day and you show everyone your goodies anytime. :) MahaloQuote:
Originally Posted by KellyShore
Matt
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Originally Posted by KellyShore
I dont' think breaking up makes the question any less important.
yes I would, in a heartbeat. And I'd bring her home to Mom too.
Yes the question may be still pertinant.
However when people are quoting old quotes about my ex and replying to those, it's not pertinant. :)
why I said that was a Year ago.
I just answered no a page before your post.Quote:
Originally Posted by EyeCumInPiece
Honestly having dated both GG & TG I have to admit that dating a ts is hard..a lot harder than a GG in that there are sooo many other issues that come with dating a TS & that can make for a fragile..even volatile relationship. I think thats one reason why so many tend to fail. And having had both professional & personal encounters with Tg women..yes sex is good but emotion behind that sex is even better...but it comes at a high cost & effort
yeah i agree dating a TS is not the easist. even today in such a "tolerent" society you would still run into so much negative flack from people it would could seriously strain a relationship. and a girl going "stealth" 24/7, im sure that can add unnecessary pressure and stress. who wants that complicated a relationship? "normal" relationships are hard enough today. i would love to say,"i don't care what anybody says, i'm gonna do what makes me happy, and everyone will have to accept it!" but in truth, i would probably shy away from a LTR with a TG just for the sake of a drama free life(as if that really existed anyways). i would love to say yes i would date a TS, but i probably wouldn't. im just not that tough a guy.
Only one answer....a relationship.
I say both, don't see why one can not.
Same here.Quote:
Originally Posted by Vinciini
i would love to have a full relationship with a ts.
I'm waiting for a "go ahead" from my wife.
I had a relationship with a TS for over 2 years. I introduced her to my daughter, I told her she was a TS. She also met my parents.Quote:
Originally Posted by KellyShore
Well i had some relationships with ts in israel and 1 when i was working in brazil , the main problem in israel is that everyone knows everyone and people dont really accept it or they do but they wont say thay they do since its still kind of a tabu.
i think that a relationship with a ts is much like any other relationship its all has to do with the person you interact with.
all of my relationship ended since they were to much occupied with their "work" and most ts i have met couldn't really have a real relationship since as i said its still tained here in israel dating with a ts.
but when i was in brazil it was the best relationship ever and it ended bcz i left my job and moved back to israel.
nowdays my g/f is a biological girl and its really hard for her to accept the fact that i love ts and i preffer being passive with them she thinks i am gay or something like that
but i guess we shall work it out :D
i'd have a relationship with one. i think if you have a passionate loving relationship, it would make the sex even better. but i've never been with one so maybe not
And WHY can't be more guys like you here in the USA?!? :(Quote:
Originally Posted by darknight0
~Kisses.
HTG
I think some of you are confused
Between Relationship and Relations.
Almost 90 percent answered relationship and yet never been with a transsexual.
I would love to be in a Relationship with a man who would care enough about me to have me meet his family and friends (regardless if I'm passable or not) and dealing with all the good and bad that may come with our exceptance as a couple by the public, family and friends.Quote:
Originally Posted by KellyShore
I did everything with my TS girlfriend as I did with any other girl I had a relationship with. We went to the pub, out shopping together. Although I told my daughter, who got on very well with her, I don't see the reason why a guy would need to tell anyone. It's not like you would tell someone that your girlfriend is a genetic girl.
She was/is great and I know it will be very hard to find another girl like her. To me she was a woman, nothing else!
Funny story. :lol: ;)Quote:
Originally Posted by djlunitik
~Kisses.
HTG
You know im always seeking a relationship... Im not here for the sex, but i wont lie its kind of a fantasy. Sometime i like to think thats part of a relationship, but i know that its not. I would much rather have the intimacy that comes with the emotional connection of two people. The thing that eventually makes sex about 50 times better. Knowing that the person your giving yourself to isn't going to be gone when you wake up, means more to me than anything.
I would love to be in a loving monogamous relationship with a TS. It's more fun than seeing escorts. Plus, I would give my significant other bareback BJs, something I wouldn't do with someone I'm not in a relationship with.
damn, wise and confident. let the little one say what she wants you are doing a wonderful job and we all know it. thank you for this forum.
damn, wise and confident. let the little one say what she wants you are doing a wonderful job and we all know it. thank you for this forum.
damn, wise and confident. let the little one say what she wants you are doing a wonderful job and we all know it. thank you for this forum.
both, please
I'd love a relationship. Sex isn't the most important thing to me, it's how we click. If I click with a ts, then that's that. My best relationships are with ppl I don't have sex with. Eventually if it gets there then it's GREAT, but I never have been one who goes after/gets a lot of sex. Monogomy is nice if you care.
That being said, sometimes you just gotta get your rocks off, and I think a TS would get mine off many times...
me too.
me too.
Well its difficult to get into a relationship with a TS especially hear in London. Most of the passable types you would want to date, tend to work in the sex industry. If that is not their main source of income they do it p/t or when the need arrises. I have yet to meet one who was not an escort