WORKING GIRLS AND WHY

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Originally Posted by Dina Delicious

well ill tell you a little story about myself
i dont often let soo much info out about myself but i will
i graduated one of if not the top performing arts school in nyc did about 8 feature films and numerous commercials in my youth and i knew at a young age that i was transgendered and so i went in another direction had to sacrfice my lifes dream to perform be on the stage pratice a craft i was so well at i had to wave goodbye to it,it hurts me till this day cause there are NOT any working transsexual actors in this country period so i went on to something creative i became a haircolorist wich if you are good at it in nyc you can make 2,000 a week easy well i was good at it and i was making that amount of moneywhen i told my boss i wanted to transition they were all gay and lesbian mind you the following day i was met with all my tools in a black garbage bag and told they had no room for me so here i was crushed twice for just being me and trying to do the right thing
so alot of you dont know what goes on unless you are a WOMAN of transsexual experience
god bless all my sisters
cause ive seen it all

Dina Marie Delicious

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You can start an organization to rally all transsexuals and fight for your rights - that's the beauty of living in a democratic society like the united states. Why don't you take one step further to fight?

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insist upon all your very special rights to be miserable, and you are - MISERABLE.

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And so I work for the fucking government.

We are all, in our own little way, prostitutes, pal. :x

some of the comments are just so unthoughtful...u state yourself only seeing the surface of our life...u make it sound so easy...why don't u just get together and rally...last time i was at one of this rally...sadly enough...where are u guys in this rally...why areN'T u fighting for the right to be with us...that's right...we do what we gotta do...be amazing, beautiful, flawless, intelligent survive all that hit us...and when we are done...we now are worthy to be CONSIDERED for u to maybe wanna see with us in public? SEEMS LIKE THAT'S WHAT SOME OF U GUYS HOPE FOR....have fun sitting on your ass...i will continue to fight for me and my girls...some of you guys are just sad with some of this comments can't even put your face on this post..little alone face the world with this....

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Originally Posted by YasminLee

for those who don't know....when u pay for the girls..u don't pay for sex...u pay for not having to be in their life after u cum.....consider a fair contribution for what we have to go through...

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I always thought that you pay for the sex or her "time".

By your rationale Yasmin, sex would be free if we stayed in the girl's life afterward.

Sounds like a great idea!

Yasmine, you're very courageous to bring this topic up. I've met lots of T-girls that have love in their hearts (you're one of them), and would gladly settle down with the right guy if he ever showed up. But I think the prostitution picture, at least here in Boston, is even more bleak than you describe. I suppose it's possible that some girls could get a straight job and social acceptance once they've completed the transition, if people around them don't know about it. But there are a lot of girls that, for whatever reason, don't ever have the intention to fully transition (i.e., become post-ops). I fear for their future; they will never blend in anywhere. If they are halfway attractive they can get into prostitution for a while. But what are they going to do in 10, 20, 30 years when they can't even do that? Or sooner, if they get sick. Many of the girls I know deal with that the only way they can: denial (and I can't blame them). Sadly, a lot of times one of the ways they don't think about the future is to get high. Prosititution makes getting drugs easier because of the slimy people you meet, and sometimes they figure, what the hell, I have nothing to lose, and I may as well enjoy myself while I can. I've lost some good friends that way, and I don't know what the answer is, or even if there is one.

Damn Dina...im sorry to hear you had those experiences...theres still alot of screwed up shit from the gay and lesbian community towards transsexuals.....I never thought they of all people would be throwing stones, but ive since learned differently lol....


Arriana girl, youve become really bitter in the last year.....Were not all the same you know:)> Not all of us are chasers.

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Were not all the same you know:)> Not all of us are chasers.

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Really. You know I can't run all that fast. :wink:

Yeah, I think its really hard to be pre - op or non -op. THe society doesn't recognize these people at all.

YES SOME OF US CAN PROBABLY GET A NORMAL JOB...NORMAL MEANING MAKE UP COUNTER OR A SECRETARIAL JOB SOMEWHERE...WHAT ABOUT PRO JOB...CORPERATE STUFF? WE CAN MAYBE BUT NOT ONE DAY I'M SURE WITHOUT PUTTING A STRONG FACE ON AND FIGHT FOR YOUR RIGHT TO HAVE THAT JOB...SOME OF YOUR GUYS REALLY IGNORE WHAT IS GONNA ON HERE AND THINK IT'S EASY TO BE STRONG...I'M SURE MOST GIRLS SOMEDAYS JUST WANNA HIDE AT HOME...I KNOW I HAD MY SHARE OF NOT WANNA BE CLOCKED, LOOK AT...A GUY SMILE OR PEOPLE GLANCE AND I'LL ALWAYS HAVE A DOUBT WHETHER THEY THINK I'M PRETTY OR GONNA LAUGH AND CALL ME A MAN...IT BREAKS OUR HEART...YES I'M ESCORTING RIGHT NOW...BUT FOR THE RIGHT GUY..I'LL GIVE IT UP IN A SEC. TO LOOK HIM IN THE EYES AND SEE THAT HE LOVES ME...UNDERSTAND ME..AND WILL CATCH ME WHEN I FALL...SOMEONE TO WAKE UP WITH ..WHATEVER HAPPEND WHEN I WALK OUT MY DOOR AND FACE THE WORLD, IF I'M WOUNDED..HE'LL BE WAITING FOR ME AT HOME TO PATCH ME UP BEFORE MY BATTLE THE NEXT DAY......

Yasmin,

Don't let these dudes get to you, mostly all of them have never been in LOVE with a girl like you to understand what you go through! They have never faced their families with a girl like you, never had to protect a girl like you from society... so why would someone like you so amazing as a person let them bring you down? All they have done is spent thousands to sleep with someone like you, anyone who would pay you money instead of love to spend time with you, ask yourself, are they worth your tears? I would love to talk to sometime about life, you seem to have a lot of soul and I dig that!