Re: Why are most Tgirls money hungry and superficial?
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Originally Posted by
jh82
Then why is he still your boyfriend? You deserve a boyfriend who's not a piece of shit.
Probably money. Do what you gotta do.
Re: Why are most Tgirls money hungry and superficial?
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Originally Posted by
melody mayheim
In the beginning of my transition...I was naive and believed every guy. I had tons of guys wanting to date me but actuality they just wanted to call when it was convenient for them. I caught on quick that most men only wanted me behind closed doors, being kept a secret. One my my close friends who also happens to be ts but transitioned yrs prior then warned me and told me she charges men. I thought it was disgusting at first but then I used it more as a idk fee to get to know me n prove that I wasnt just a piece of ass. And if I was well then at least I got some gifts out of it lol. I dont escort for a living. I have a career and a bf but now just do it on the side for extra cash, plus my bfs a piece of shit so y not fuck someone on the side, get paid n have a bf too lol
WTF? Why be with a POS? I can see why self-esteem is a huge issue for transwomen, but still, everyone deserves decent treatment as a human being. There's no reason to be with someone who is unworthy.
Re: Why are most Tgirls money hungry and superficial?
Re: Why are most Tgirls money hungry and superficial?
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Originally Posted by
SanDiegoPervySage
Probably money. Do what you gotta do.
Wrong. He's broke. I stay cuz I love him. We been together for over a year...guess it's not my time to leave him. Plus maybe ur right..self esteem..I can have tons of guys but very few guys are open to dating a ts girl. I cant live like that so I just settled for a guy who was open about it. Im getting older so guess I want more stability than just sex.
Re: Why are most Tgirls money hungry and superficial?
Well now you have your dog, so kick his ass out!!!
Re: Why are most Tgirls money hungry and superficial?
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Originally Posted by
melody mayheim
Wrong. He's broke. I stay cuz I love him. We been together for over a year...guess it's not my time to leave him. Plus maybe ur right..self esteem..I can have tons of guys but very few guys are open to dating a ts girl. I cant live like that so I just settled for a guy who was open about it. Im getting older so guess I want more stability than just sex.
Interesting viewpoint. Do your thing.
Also interesting to know being a piece of shit keeps women around.
Re: Why are most Tgirls money hungry and superficial?
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Originally Posted by
melody mayheim
Wrong. He's broke. I stay cuz I love him. We been together for over a year...guess it's not my time to leave him. Plus maybe ur right..self esteem..I can have tons of guys but very few guys are open to dating a ts girl. I cant live like that so I just settled for a guy who was open about it. Im getting older so guess I want more stability than just sex.
The problem isn't him - it's you. He's being himself, that is, a piece of shit. You're enabling him and at the same time abusing yourself. That you're also willing to admit you have low self-esteem and willing to tolerate emotional abuse means you are unhappy. You're saying that you are ok with being unhappy? If you can't see yourself being anything other than unhappy, that's truly sad. There's a big, exciting world outside your house and away from the piece of shit..........try it. You might like it.
Re: Why are most Tgirls money hungry and superficial?
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Originally Posted by
runningdownthatdream
The problem isn't him - it's you. He's being himself, that is, a piece of shit. You're enabling him and at the same time abusing yourself. That you're also willing to admit you have low self-esteem and willing to tolerate emotional abuse means you are unhappy. You're saying that you are ok with being unhappy? If you can't see yourself being anything other than unhappy, that's truly sad. There's a big, exciting world outside your house and away from the piece of shit..........try it. You might like it.
:clapsWell said. She's got some work to do but getting a complete understanding of the problem is half the battle. Life is work.
Re: Why are most Tgirls money hungry and superficial?
Im not unhappy or completely happy...I guess I'm just comfortable, content. He's really not a piece of shit...I just think we're better off like roommates/friends. We have nothing in common and not sexually compatible.
Re: Why are most Tgirls money hungry and superficial?
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Originally Posted by
melody mayheim
Im not unhappy or completely happy...I guess I'm just comfortable, content. He's really not a piece of shit...I just think we're better off like roommates/friends. We have nothing in common and not sexually compatible.
Hopefully one day you'll find the right man and you won't want or need to escort.
