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what this thread doesn't state or what people assume is that this dude was topping the girl bareback. which i can almost guarantee is false. He didn't put the condom on, SHE didn't put the condom on. Let's also state that the escort probably ejaculated inside of him as well.
If he was topping then the risk is SIGNIFICANTLY lower.
I think your assumptions are spot on Christian.... in that he spent the night with he and they had sex multiple times (so he advised me in a PM)Quote:
Originally Posted by christianxxx
I wish you well. Hope you can rebuild your life. Sounds like you have wife/family issues to sort out and that does suck. But at the same time, I hope you know how truly lucky you are. Many people are given second chances in life and I'd lay good odds that if you take advantage of it, you will be part of this group.Quote:
Originally Posted by 9inches99
Other people don't have a prayer of getting a second chance, mostly those that serve any time in prison for an infraction big or small. Try rebuilding a career or even getting a simple job once you have a record. It used to be that the biggest fear of doing time was getting it up the butt. These days that fear doesn't compare to the internet background check (a modern sword of damocles) that follows you around as you search for work, once out of prison. Oh and then try to search out for a new relationship while you're on probation/unemployed/underemployed for life. She better be a helluva sweetheart to put up with all of that.
While there are boxes to check on an application that ask whether you have a felony record, there is no such box for HIV positivity, nor is it likely to come up on anything but the most severely extensive and probably illegal background check.
The disease is manageable, far better than many other diseases like MS, ALS and Parkinsons. And it's way better than paralysis from say an auto accident or an amputation from serving in a war.
In the end, it could be a big wake up call to set your life right. Or it could be very difficult psychologically and emotionally and prove a huge challenge to getting back the life you once had. When I say you're lucky, I'm not saying you'll have it easy. Tough days/years ahead for sure, and like I said, I wish you the best.