Re: Could you have a relationship with a TS?
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my my my!
They're not generalities, they're just comparisons. Of course there are 18 year olds that have the mindset of a mature 40 year old , and there are 40 year olds, that act like a teenage brat (any gender).
GG women, DONT go through a gender change. That is why IT IS different dating a TS woman and a GG. Yes, like you said, a teenage transsexual is going to have the mindset and issues of a teen gg, starting to like boys (or girls or both)
, getting into makeup, clothes, mood swings, but the GG is not going through androgen blockers, family issues for coming out as transgendered, other issues, and doubts about being treated as a woman in society. Hence the difference, and the EXTRA attention and compassion that has to be provided by whoever is dating that transsexual individual.
Once the self confidence comes in, yes, in later years and through experience and depending on how the trans woman handled her transition she will be "easier" to date for a man.
When a man or woman dates a transsexual female, he or she deals with all the issues he or she would dating a GG , PLUS all the non GG issues that a Transsexual female has. So yes, it is different dating a GG and a trans woman.
Not saying that early transition is NOT date worthy or relationship worthy, It's just different i.e. MORE issues, than would be with a gg.
Everyone one has issues hun...not one group more than another but just different.sure i have to deal with hormones, changing gender on documents, etc but i get to miss out on periods, yeast infection, accidental pregnancy and blah blah blah..lol
You catch my drift hun ;)
People thinks your life is going to change dramatically when dating a ts (shoot,i thought my life would change if i transitioned lol) but life has taught me shit is same for everyone
Re: Could you have a relationship with a TS?
At my age, I wouldn't rule it out. I'm not doing the relationship thing now, but GG or TG is not a deal breaker.
Re: Could you have a relationship with a TS?
I would prefer it....TGs have always been women in my mind, never that idea that they're 'men with boobs'....and yes, let's be honest, the only real difference between a TG and GG, at least physically, is what's between their legs...I personally prefer that.
I know that TGs can have trouble during their transition period but I also just got out of a relationship with a GG who had more jealousy and insecurity issues than can be done justice in one post...so that doesn't bother me in the slightest. When I'm with someone, I love them for who they are and I accept their faults. That's the same with any human being though...
So yes, as long as she looks feminine enough for my taste, I'd love to date a TG...and the femininity thing is only because I'm not really bi beyond my sexual tastes, and couldn't be attracted to someone who looks too masculine...
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I wish I knew where to meet TG girls that aren't prostitutes. I'd absolutely entertain a relationship with a TG girl, if The chemistry was right.
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My hat's off to all those guys and t-girls who have worked hard to make their relationships a success, whether in the past or currently. Thanks for sharing your stories. I'm struggling to make a relationship work with a g-girl, and I'm hopeful that we're going to succeed. A few yrs back, I had a glimpse of what it might be like with a t-girl when I got to spend an entire week with a friend. It was pretty cool. I could definitely picture a relationship with her, although for a number of reasons it wasn't able to evolve past that one crazy week together. Again, best wishes for all those who try.
Re: Could you have a relationship with a TS?
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Amy Gray
Wait a sec! Does liking trans girls make me a lesbian?! :sadcry
Or does liking guys make you gay. What is straight for a tgirl anyway.
For the record I think I am Tri, but not a square.
Re: Could you have a relationship with a TS?
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Rusty Eldora
Or does liking guys make you gay. What is straight for a tgirl anyway.
For the record I think I am Tri, but not a square.
Personally, I think you're just being obtuse and I don't find it very acute.
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I'd take Amber,and Amy out to dinner in a heartbeat!:)
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Yes I could and would love too. I am attracted to feminine beauty.
Re: Could you have a relationship with a TS?
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youngblood61
I'd take Amber,and Amy out to dinner in a heartbeat!:)
That's a no brainer. :)