Do you pay for sex?Prostitution and escorts in general...

i have never paid a ggirl escort. i have only paid tgirl escorts. i gladly pay to play because it is much easier to get what i am after and there are no strings attached. moreover, just due to sheer numbers/availability, it is easier to attract a ggirl as a mate than a tgirl so before I was married, i was able to always move from relationship to relationship with a ggirl so there has never been a need for a ggirl escort.

i do concur that if you are playing the field, you are paying for sex without actually exchanging money for services buy the whole wining and dining ritual.

As an escort, my only recommendation to anyone on the fence is DO IT. Lol. It's really not *that* big a deal, and it can be a lot of hassle-free fun. I might not recommend it if you are young and it would be your first sexual experience, or if you are putting a serious relationship at risk. Other than that, go for it. It doesn't make you a loser or mean you won't be able to have a regular girlfriend later on or whatever. All kinds of very successful/desirable guys do it.

As for myself I've never hired one, but I've thought about it... I'm bi and I can't see paying for a guy, it'd be a short/cute ts or tv or maybe Asian gg.

It is fine to pay for sex as long as it is not out of hand. A lot of guys just do not want a relationship, they want their time for to do what they want to do. Plus it is cheaper by the hour then you think.

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Originally Posted by ImmerGeil

These golddigger women are a huge turn off.Many of them looking down on prostitutes but in real life they do the same. If a woman is really attracted by you,she doesn't care if you spent a drink for her.

In Germany it is common practice that a lot of girls in a club make eyes on men,and these desperate men are so sex-starved that they spent a shitload of drinks to impress the girls.In the morning when the party is over the girls are gone and the guys didn't even get their telephone number.:D:D

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It doesn't quite work that way. I always find it soooo strange when guys go "well, buying dinner is about the same as just paying a girl for sex".... they are COMPLETELY missing why a girl wants a guy to buy her dinner.

When a guy spends money on me (buys me dinner or drinks or whatever else)... I don't see as them "buying" me (like they would a prostitute), I see it as them putting in the effort to show me they are actually interested in me.

I don't care about the money (I can afford to buy my own dinner :P), it is more about the gesture and that they are willing to spend a little bit to try and impress me and show me they are interested in more than just sex (if they wanted just sex, they can go hire a prostitute for way less trouble...and if I just wanted money, I could go become a prostitute for way less trouble).

When a guy just wants to "hang out"? Doesn't want to take you out, doesn't want to get dressed up, doesn't want to put up any effort and just wants sex? The issue isn't because he is poor and can't afford stuff, the issue is that he can't even be bothered to put in a little effort to try and show you why he is worth seeing (sorry, just wanting to fuck isn't a selling point).

Yea, sometimes girls just want to get laid (and they go out and "hang out" and hookup and whatever else). But when a girl is looking for more and starts demanding a bit more....it is because they are trying to find a guy who doesn't just want easy sex (because that isn't what they are looking for). It isn't about "gold-digging"...it is just about trying to filter out the guys and find ones a little more serious about wanting to see you.

So, to sum it up, spending 100 dollars on a night out with a girl is NOT the same as spending 100 dollars to hire a prostitute for an hour. If you are just after sex, yea, to YOU it might be the same .... but to the girl it isn't.

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Originally Posted by freak

It is fine to pay for sex as long as it is not out of hand. A lot of guys just do not want a relationship, they want their time for to do what they want to do. Plus it is cheaper by the hour then you think.

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Wow. Who's the girl in your avatar. Thanks

We all pay for sex one way or another.

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Originally Posted by ed_jaxon

Yeeeaaaahhhh!!!! Bow Chicka wow wow.

Sounds like a great porno I would want to see.

Small girl comes in gets a massage from a guy. Guy has no idea. He finds out and after some initial hesitation blows her.

She busts a nut in his face and pays him and kicks him out of her hotel room.

When are you coming to the US??????

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Go go go! Suck it baby!

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I actually respect and appreciate my customers. Without them my transition wouldnt have been possible :-)

Liberty who has posted on here about seeing female escorts - and works as an escort herself (I've seen her twice. She is fabulous).

I wanted to ask her, as I am genuinely interested, if the GG escorts she occasionally hires freak out or behave oddly when they arrive to find a TS has hired them?

Do you ever get surprising responses from the girls?

I know that quite a few TS escorts simply can't get it on with females.

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Originally Posted by Rabbiteyes

But when a girl is looking for more and starts demanding a bit more....it is because they are trying to find a guy who doesn't just want easy sex (because that isn't what they are looking for). It isn't about "gold-digging"...it is just about trying to filter out the guys and find ones a little more serious about wanting to see you.

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I understand girls trying to weed out the guys what you are reffering to is courting once the guy has the number and his trying to develop a relationship, one can say trying to develop the early begins of a relationship.


So let say a girls want to get laid the above theory you mention applies but when the girl wants to get serious what are the chances of she dating someone that has no money.

I am talking about a girl not looking at you or given you her number because she wants someone better, someone who can take on holiday maybe five times a year, someone who can fly her to paris in moment notice.

Example

I was once coming out of a resturant and opposite the resturant there was a club and this guys pulls out his car must have been at least 30k - 35k he was dressed really sharp, gold chains, expensive designer shoes. I remember everyone circling the car taking pictures. I admit I was one of those people circling the car taking pictures. Damn he had a good car. But the point I was making was that there was lot girls too and each one of and most of them were flirting to get his attention when he came out of the club. I remeber one group of girls saying damn that guy got money.

Now imagine if you were looking to start a relationship after seeing that an ordinary guy came up to you and start to chat you up. What would you say?
instinctively you would compare him to that guy and say nope this guy cannot give me what I want and you probably tell him "nope not interested"

How does a guy commit with that if the girl does not even give him a chance to prove himself and even if she does she just want his money until someone richer can along

I not saying that every single girl is like this you might be the except I don't know but however most her

why do you think younger girls are always dating older guys?
Some date older guys and have a toyboy on the side