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Oh cum on now. Don't be so negative. You're just making it harder. We can be pals. We could develop a deep relationship. If you don't want to be my valentine, be my BFF. It's all good because... uh... Well... You know...
Friends don't charge friends for benefits, do they?
You had nothing to contribute to the thread. Wtf do you want from me? You started yammering about your bromances.Quote:
Originally Posted by Jamie French
Anyway, it's a bit offensive that a hetero CD who started taking hormones a few months ago, whose biggest claim to womanhood is having done porn with makeup on, is chiming in on the nature of relationships between hetero transwomen and men. You've done things like this before, and it's exactly why I don't like you, in addition to you being a racist. You talked about how you thought transsexuals were wasting their money on getting their facial hair removed, and how you thought your escorting money was better spent on recording equipment. You told us that dressing like a woman while escorting was what saved you from having to work at Dominos for the rest of your life.Quote:
Originally Posted by Jamie French
Look. You're a cocky, obnoxious dude and you're a racist. I don't give a fuck if you make porn or not. Don't expect real transsexuals to kiss your man-ass.
back on topic before this becomes a jamie vs nicole thread again.
the issue here is that too many tgirls just like a good percentage of ggirls think men see them as little more than cum dumpsters OR too many tgirls as well as girls think their shit doesn't stink and have their own head so far up their ass thinking everyone wants to pay to kiss it.
the issue is and always will be the girl's self-definition and judgment of a man's intentions. we are generally clear in what we want either by what we say or how we act. If you as a former man and not a tgirl can't pick up on it because you are too busy in your own little world thinking how you will extract my $$$, that's not my fault. If I as a man put something out there...either my cock in your hand or an offer of friendly conversation, its up to you to decide what to do with it.
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Originally Posted by LibertyHarkness
same
LOL at girls thinking they can charge for my friendship.
that sucks that some of you lost friends because of the transition. can i ask...did they stop calling or hanging out with you...or did you slowly drift away?
i only know one girl both pre and post transition. as she began to transition, we grew closer by her choice. she specifically chose to hang out with a few people that she said were more accepting of her changes. none of common friends were hostile or non-accepting...it was that some didn't really understand it and she shunned them. so...when you say people jumped ship...i have to wonder...again, was the problem solely theirs or are you culpable in anyway for the friendship ending.
There are few good guys out there.
I find it hard to meet girls who want anything other than what is in my wallet.
I didn't have many non-gay male friends before I transitioned, I suppose because straight men find it hard to be friends with genderfuct fags. lol I still do have one straight male friend from before transitioning, but I've known him since I was 7. So imo that's a rare situation regardless of gender, sexuality, profession, etc.
Btw when I transitioned, I lost gay male friends as well, along with the few straight male friends. But they were happy being drag queens. I was ok doing drag, but the issues ran deeper. For me, doing drag was a pit stop on my gender journey. I never hid how I felt from them, but when it became real they couldn't deal with my male identity no longer existing. People grow apart.
But my parents, who were always supportive, for about 8 months there had a hard time with the concept of permanently losing a son, and with me getting implants and changing my name. They had watched me dress... differently (lol) my entire life. But it's reacting to the finality of the whole thing that people can't predict. My parents had to mourn the loss of their son for over half a year, and then they were ok with it.
Jamie's racist? But she and Daryl did it ... next your gonna tell me Ashley is racist.