wtf is up with these TS's calling everyone gay?

never waste a second on bullshit, Regis

get in get out :P

you're young so you think there's room for talking

for understanding

there is, just not here

the root meaning of the word pornography is

*the writing of harlots*

and the writing of harlots is what you have here, so

enjoy :)

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I'm not worried about being called gay, i'm worried about how the forrum allows other people to call other people gay.

And even if so...of course you would be worried.

If your not gay you wanna keep your pride, you wanna stand your ground, your gonna fucking worry about it, and your gonna get nervous because if you say the wrong thing then your gonna be accused of being a faggot.

Unless you already are one and it dosnt matter, or you are one and your still in the closet your gonna freak out and try and act like a man on steroids.

but yea, i just wanted to clarify some shit before more people start shitting on a thread they didnt read....

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if youre going to act gay or even be gay..... ppl have the right to call you out on it

if you dont wanna be called gay... dont be gay :idea:

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How can this guy not be gay, that's like you not being an annoying little fridged asshole. But I doubt anyone has to call you out on that since your mirror never lies...... :arrow:

This on going shit is soooooo gay

What a bunch of horseshit. Will these stupid threads ever end? The only worthwhile thing in this whole thread is Jens new avatar pic.

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The issue is, at least in part, the nature of bullying.

There is a lot of fear of being called gay (face it, in the real world there are consequences in many circles) and some folks have been hurt by the world and need to strike out of folks. They see it bothers some and they start swinging.

The macho man example... if a man hits his hand with a hammer and swears for five minutes, he's the tough guy, admired. If another man hits his hand with a hammer and cries for five minutes, he's a fag and derided. Neither man got shit done for five minutes, but we tend to admire the angry guy for some reason. Note that in no case was anyone's sexuality actually part of the equation.

Sean

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This so true. A lot of TS and GG like these thugs and then turn around and complain about how bad they are being treated...what did they expect?...a nice thug?

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Thank you YodaJazz for calrifying things for me and being thourough and understanding.

Btw timxxx my hair cut and outfit was for an 80's night party. I was George Michael and it was a funny joke and got me in the party for free. So your comment was useless btw and I just thought i'd let you know.

Now lilwyte your opinion is your opinion, so just keep it to yourself unless it is constructive towards the post. Hence the W/E after me saying this is my first post and it might suck.

Otherwise i'm glad no one seems to have taken offense to this (unless you are a name caller yourself). Because it was not my intention to do so unless u are calling people names immaturely.

in good regards,

Regis

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cmon man, you put up a pic from a party you went to and the guy you went as is gay in real life.................
as far as the thread goes I agree with you, but a tranny calling a man gay is a joke in itself.............don't let it bug ya

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Once again....I agree with JWBL....a tranny is a gay man on steroids!
It really shouldnt bug you .....especially coming from them.

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So didn't any of you people get the memo? It was decided by the powers that be - that people here wouldn't call others "gay" anymore in a derogatory fashion. (As opposed to discussing the topic.)

And I'm really saddened by some of the comments here by some guys who should know better.

But it's nice to know how you feel about us. - That we are "gay men" in drag or something.

Obviously after all this time you haven't learned a single thing.

Sigh,
TS Jamie :-(

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Originally Posted by Regisbou

I'm not worried about being called gay, i'm worried about how the forrum allows other people to call other people gay.

And even if so...of course you would be worried.

If your not gay you wanna keep your pride, you wanna stand your ground, your gonna fucking worry about it, and your gonna get nervous because if you say the wrong thing then your gonna be accused of being a faggot.

Unless you already are one and it dosnt matter, or you are one and your still in the closet your gonna freak out and try and act like a man on steroids.

but yea, i just wanted to clarify some shit before more people start shitting on a thread they didnt read....

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if youre going to act gay or even be gay..... ppl have the right to call you out on it

if you dont wanna be called gay... dont be gay :idea:

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And your definition of "acting gay" is?

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I read and I agree with your post. This has been discussed at length here recently. This led to the threat by mods to ban anyone using the word "fag", recently.

Some people make excuses for rude behaviors here, but that does not mean we should accept that as ok. It boils down to the wisdom of the ages: treat others as you wish to be treated. Some women here are called negative names, but it is usually ones who regularly call others negative names. It is not right to call anyone names, but it is more understandable that people who put out negativity will receive it back.

One more thing that is seldom recognized here, is that some people are attracted to others for their potential, as well as thier present reality. The thread about the potential of so called "Club Kids", becoming trans, has been the most controversial thread here. This is also true about a certain 'new' girl here.

There was someone out there, that fell in love with me, not only for who I was at the time, but also for my potential. Boy, did I fool her. But it helps to keep it in mind that some people can find beauty in those that others don't see. So we should let them pursue their own happiness, and cut back on the judgments.

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Another fine post by yodajazz.

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...Another fine post by yodajazz.

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Thanks fitz207!

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Originally Posted by Regisbou

I'm not worried about being called gay, i'm worried about how the forrum allows other people to call other people gay.

And even if so...of course you would be worried.

If your not gay you wanna keep your pride, you wanna stand your ground, your gonna fucking worry about it, and your gonna get nervous because if you say the wrong thing then your gonna be accused of being a faggot.

Unless you already are one and it dosnt matter, or you are one and your still in the closet your gonna freak out and try and act like a man on steroids.

but yea, i just wanted to clarify some shit before more people start shitting on a thread they didnt read....

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if youre going to act gay or even be gay..... ppl have the right to call you out on it

if you dont wanna be called gay... dont be gay :idea:

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How can this guy not be gay, that's like you not being an annoying little fridged asshole. But I doubt anyone has to call you out on that since your mirror never lies...... :arrow:

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Wrong! The general principle is that human beings should be able to self identify. If everyone can call people what ever they think the person is, there would be little human dignity on the planet. Yes, people have been calling one another bad names and killing one another from the beginning, but humanity is constantly trying to evolve into a better world.

Transexuals are on the current cutting edge of the human struggle to self identify. There are many who refuse to accept transsexuals in their identified gender. They believe they have the right to call the person by their birth gender no matter what, the person does to themselves. But transgender people and their allies are fighting through the legal system and every other avenue to gain the right to be who they believe they are. It’s a tough fight, but progress is being made. Lots of people don't realize that the people attracted to transgender persons are part of the same struggle.

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...---lets face it--its pretty fucking ironic for Tss to call their admirers "gay" it borders on the absurd

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sheyum is right on, about the irony of the situation. People who ask for respect, but feel they have the right to disrespect other people for trivial shit, like a funny haircut. And this is done by some people who are afraid to show their own face. Women call themselves women, but call men who love them gay. Men who like special women, judge other men, for their sexual desires, when they know all along most of the greater world is judging them for liking special women, and they hate it.

This is the internet. Some people feel they hide behind screen identities and throw stones. But other people such as the OP and myself ask why can’t we promote dignity. We want it for ourselves and the people we love. Look at HA as road that we are all on together because we want to be here. Maybe we are going in different directions and destination, but we are seeking the same thing, happiness.

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Originally Posted by Regisbou

I'm not worried about being called gay, i'm worried about how the forrum allows other people to call other people gay.

And even if so...of course you would be worried.

If your not gay you wanna keep your pride, you wanna stand your ground, your gonna fucking worry about it, and your gonna get nervous because if you say the wrong thing then your gonna be accused of being a faggot.

Unless you already are one and it dosnt matter, or you are one and your still in the closet your gonna freak out and try and act like a man on steroids.

but yea, i just wanted to clarify some shit before more people start shitting on a thread they didnt read....

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if youre going to act gay or even be gay..... ppl have the right to call you out on it

if you dont wanna be called gay... dont be gay :idea:

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And your definition of "acting gay" is?

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I believe from observation of previous Jen threads it should be obvious ... If you are breathing you are acting gay! So as she said earlier in this thread if you stop acting "gay" she will stop calling you "gay"!