Q&A - Ask Danielle Anything !!!

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Originally Posted by Tomfurbs

What is the average air-speed velocity of an unladen swallow?

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I'll answer that one - "....the coconut's tropical" and "It could grip it by the husk"

Top Ten of the BEST movies EVER.

Damn I love you Danielle!

Do you like having your hair pulled?

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Originally Posted by TS DANIELLE FOXXX

I usually receive a ton of emails, not just fan mail. I am talking about people seeking advice and just info on anything from "How do i tell my girlfriend " to " Who do you go for hormones " etc...

Here is your chance to do it and also help someone who has the same question you may have and yet remain anonymous. Ask me anything except financial advice LOL and remember that the final decision is the one that is made based on your own experiences.

XOXO

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Q: I'm a transvestite and no longer happy with my body and the way I am so in fact i'm trapped in man's body.
I made an appoitment with my doctor to have some hormones and to have breasts and a more real feminine body etc.

I'm not living as a female yet so here's go my question; did you lived as a transvestite (guy dressed in females clothes) before you became a sexy shemale and afterwards a full-time female?

A: Yes, I lived a gay lifestyle prior to my transition. In fact, 1 year after my first hormone shot I contemplated going back to being a boy. But after I went through the correct transition methods the well trained professionals diagnosed me as having Gender issues. I also noticed I was alot happier as a woman then a man. It was ultimately a personal decision that was right for me. I waited 2 years to have implants and 6 to have SRS. I also lived for like a year as a boy wearing heavy sweaters to hide my breast tissue. Very difficult in the summer. I was extremely confused, lets just say. When the time is right you will know. Don't rush or push anything. Let time be your guide and trust your soul.

What also helped me alot were self help books. You can find those at Borders or Amazon. Books that deal with your 6th sense, listening to yourself, intuition, the voice within...what ever...

Hope it all helped...

Here is some research Material that May help:

What does it mean to "feel like a woman" or to "feel like a man????" I personally feel that my transsexuality is more about feeling uncomfortable being viewed as a man (gender dysphoria) than being happy about being viewed as a woman (gender euphoria). I am not the only transsexual with this view of gender identity conflict. Yet we were excluded from Blanchard's transsexual sample and even his full sample. Excluding those transsexuals who's gender incongruence focuses on not being our biological sex is only likely to over-estimate the proportion of transsexuals who have especially strong longings (including sexual fantasies) of being our target sex.

A second way Ray Blanchard selected participants creates another more subtle bias. When Blanchard assigned transsexuals to sexual orientation groups and compared their rates of autogynephilic fantasies, he naturally used the 212 participants who were transsexual. But when he defined the construct of autogynephilia (using a factor analysis), he used all 302 participants who had ever felt like woman (such as only when cross-dressed). Just because the "core autogynephilia scale" is a single unified construct among this larger sample does not mean it is also a single unified construct among transsexuals. One consequence of Blanchard's model is that cross-dressers and "non-homosexual" transsexuals are different by degree instead of kind. Yet by assuming the same constructs would apply to both transsexuals and cross-dressers before the factor analysis, he begs the question about this issue.

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Thanks for the answer hun, very interesting stuff and now i know what to do. (more or less) :) :wink:

at the age of late 30's i'm quite sure who I am and what i want to become.
How I feel in daily life and I do feel, think and live as a female and not like a male.

Have one more question for you; do you think i'm allready to old for hormones etc?

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As a man I never enjoyed the moments before the orgasm. It was usually just a release. I guess now I feel it longer and it is deeper. More like a warm sensation in your groin that gets hotter and hotter and it just explodes. I am not sure I can describe it word for word of how much better it is. I guess deeper and stronger is the answer. I just layed there immobile for about 15 minutes after.

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sounds scary :!:

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Originally Posted by tsmandy

Do you like having your hair pulled?

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Do you like your hair pulled mandy?
i really want to know.

My latest question was answered via pm, thank you very much, and not from Danielle. Apparently the question "Did you walk to school or carry your lunch?" was a popular phrase in the 50's and 60's used to confuse kids who asked stupid questions. It worked on me, and I was in my teens during the late 80's at the time. Heh.

looks like her in box is getting fuller by the minute. Actually, that may be why she hasn't been on the forum lately. Of course, that would be a different sort of "in box" getting filled, I suppose.

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I have an online TS friend from the Philippines. She has just about saved enough for breast implant surgery and is contemplating taking a trip to Thailand for the surgery rather than having a filipino surgeon do the task. How does she go about finding the most reputable and/or gifted surgeons in Thailand? Any pitfalls to avoid?

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Are you asking about breast surgery or SRS?

Best breast doctor is Dr. Leonard Gray of San Francisco. Also did Jennifer Paris' boobies.

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and who did your vaginoplasty? i see a reference on another thread to Thailand but i do not see a Dr. listed.

i have a few friends here who are saving up for theirs, and they keep talking about going to the Pratunam Clinic in BKK, but that doc gets very low scores and is not board certified according to everyone but himself.

i do not want them to make a mistake that is for life.

thanks.

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I went to Dr. Suporn in Thailand, who does a 1 stage operation. He does offer free revisions at 1 year post op - which can be considered as a labia plasty I guess.

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Originally Posted by Odelay

I have an online TS friend from the Philippines. She has just about saved enough for breast implant surgery and is contemplating taking a trip to Thailand for the surgery rather than having a filipino surgeon do the task. How does she go about finding the most reputable and/or gifted surgeons in Thailand? Any pitfalls to avoid?

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Are you asking about breast surgery or SRS?

Best breast doctor is Dr. Leonard Gray of San Francisco. Also did Jennifer Paris' boobies.

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and who did your vaginoplasty? i see a reference on another thread to Thailand but i do not see a Dr. listed.

i have a few friends here who are saving up for theirs, and they keep talking about going to the Pratunam Clinic in BKK, but that doc gets very low scores and is not board certified according to everyone but himself.

i do not want them to make a mistake that is for life.

thanks.

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I went to Dr. Suporn in Thailand, who does a 1 stage operation. He does offer free revisions at 1 year post op - which can be considered as a labia plasty I guess.

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thanks for the info.

if you do not mind, i neglected to ask you before, what was the fee for the procedure? not what you paid for your entire trip as these girls live here in BKK.

if you do not wish to disclose that info i understand.


i will inform them about your good review and your new found ability. :D

Dear Danielle,
Why is my dick burning while I'm peeing?


Oh!

Nevermind. I just put the cigarette in the other hand. :lol: