GUYS: How do you keep a girl INTERESTED?

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Originally Posted by bezane

Hara. C'mon give me a break. We can always shop when the stores are open. But strolling a desolate area after midnite is great. Just an idea rather than staying home or going to a bar. It doesn't have to consume the entire evening. And it leads to sex outside jammed in the doorway of Agent Provocateur. But at those prices I'm actually glad the damn place is closed. Victoria's......anytime. Sexy, inexpensive.....perfect.

So I defend midnite shopping.LOL.

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LOL Be glad you don't live in ASIA cos over there they got midnight shopping hours! :lol:

~Kisses.

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Originally Posted by GrimFusion

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Originally Posted by OC-Guy99

as a guy who has had about 10 relationships both short and long term(ending on MY terms),, let me give you my short list of things that I have learned to KEEP a woman (a real one) .. some people will tell me I am full of shit on here.. I dont care.. this is the realistic list of things to do and not do...this has even worked with a Miss (some city in California) while I dated her.. worked like a charm until I got bored and booted her.

1. dont act needy--there is nothing worse to a girl than a guy who NEEDS her,, they want a man to be his own act,, to have confidence to tackle the world on his own. women want what they cant have.. if they feel like they just GOT you, youre done.. you have to keep a little independence about you.. women have to think that there is still a 5% chance that you may leave at anytime

2. never never talk about your own bad news--you have to act like your life is going GREAT,, I dont care if you just got fired from your job.. or your ex wife is selling off all your investments or whatever.. women want to suspend reality while they are with you.. you should be her get away fantasy -- she should want to come to you for happiness and excitement-- if you bitch and complain and moan and whine,, she may as well go talk to her best friend.

3. Be busy- stop always penciling her in FIRST... live your own life .. its ok to here and there go out with YOUR friends.. or take a drive alone somewhere

4. dont go overboard with buying her things and compliments .. as a matter of fact,, dont be scared to tell her something she is wearing sucks if it really does ect (that doesnt mean being a dick about it though) and its ok once in a blue moon to buy her something out of context, but that does nothing to keep her LIKING YOU.. all it will do is keep her USING YOU.. and all gifts do is tell her that "I am not a real man.. I am a scared little boy.. here is a gift to buy me more time"

5. always prop yourself better than you really are.... just little white lies.. like if you work at a grocery store. your not a checker.. youre an assistant manager.. or if you live in a crappy apt,, tell her that your company is providing it while you are living in the area to work .. stuff like that

ill add more to the list as I think of things ..

what women say and what they want are two different things.. what their brains tell them.. and their subconscious tells them (which the later is what my list is based off of) are two different things

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I agree with your first point (Don't be needy), but everything else is pretty much crap. That's shit some "player" dude would pull, and while I agree that a lot of women run the same type of game shiesty player dudes do, you can't expect a relationship to go anywhere if it's all based on little white lies.

I think you've done nothing but make it abundantly clear that you really like steady sex, and that's pretty much the only thing you're interested in out of a relationship.

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its not about running a game.. its about protecting your position .. remember obtaining and keeping a mate is not about what YOUR world is made up of.. its about being flexible and understanding HER world as well... and most girls want the same thing a "fantasy lover and mate" its all about keeping that apple in her eye over the period of time till she finds the "better" you or you find the "better" her if both are still wanting to taste life (no pun intended) and not wanting to settle down

sorry for being honest :)

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Originally Posted by DaLonelyGuyNJ

I'm fat, ugly, and bald....so i don;t have to worry about keeping them interested. I can't even attract them..lol.

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and I've been told that I'm very good looking with a fit body, (im a cyclist and work out regular) but I find it hard to attract or keep em too! Most are suprised when I tell them how long its been between relationships. That was one reason I went with escorts, but that has its downside, as Istated in other threads.

Thanks for the kind words Hara, and Peggy, affirmation from you is like being blessed by the Pope, I'm flattered.
I've been thinking about this all day, and talked to A about it on our way out tonight. Her answer was surprising. I'll paraphrase "You've never broken the trust I put in you. I know you love me with all your heart." She said some other very nice things that made my heart explode. We came home instead of going to the party, she's sleeping now, and I'm going to make some eggs and toast for us.

Thanks for helping to make this a great day Hara! :wink:

You're welcome Oli! :P

~Kisses.

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Show her my Tatoos and my gun collection. Oh, that's not it...it's the Corvettes!!! :shrug

Yes, but the real question here is how to keep Corvettedude interested.

Oooh tattoos too... now I really have to stalk you... :-)

Giggle,
TS Jamie :-)

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Originally Posted by justatransgirl

Yes, but the real question here is how to keep Corvettedude interested.

Oooh tattoos too... now I really have to stalk you... :-)

Giggle,
TS Jamie :-)

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Jamie...I love it when you talk dirty to me!!!

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Originally Posted by Hara_Juku Tgirl

Like the title says.. :P
How do you keep a girl INTERESTED?
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This is pretty simple actually, be the man that she expects you to be. Respect her, appreciate her, protect her and fuck her, really, really well and last long. If you can't last 30 mins to an hour with a chick then she is not likely to be happy in that department. Just make her feel like a woman should and she should return the mutual feelings in kind.

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Originally Posted by macfan

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Originally Posted by Hara_Juku Tgirl

Like the title says.. :P
How do you keep a girl INTERESTED?
~Kisses.

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This is pretty simple actually, be the man that she expects you to be. Respect her, appreciate her, protect her and fuck her, really, really well and last long. If you can't last 30 mins to an hour with a chick then she is not likely to be happy in that department. Just make her feel like a woman should and she should return the mutual feelings in kind.

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Sounds like a very good advice macfan! :P

;)

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