i have gone out with this girl and she took me to this gay bar a couple times. i had no problems plus not giving a shit always helps. even though there were other "girls" there , i never went back on my own.i also went once with my gf an friend to esquilita to see a drag show..no big deal. just a couple guys tried to buy me drinks but i just declined. if u are unsure of who u are i can see how it could be a problem.