I'm black and "Nigger" and "Nigga" offend me no matter who says it.
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I'm black and "Nigger" and "Nigga" offend me no matter who says it.
I must say that despite it being a reductive and generalised argument (well it would have to be 1000 pages to not be) I saw some of my own behaviour in the categories Peggy described.
However, would it been seen as 'chasing' for a straight guy to go out and sleep with a girl on a Saturday night, and then not feel it necessary / want to date? Or indeed to do this habitually?
Men and women like sex. If you want to have it, you must meet those people you want to have sex with. There is no real shame in this, or problem with it amongst responsible, consenting adults. I have been to t-girl clubs, met t-girls and had sex. However, it is not up to me to then date them, or introduce them to my friends or anything else.
Also, the religious conotations / association while shame of the word sodomy are used in the article in the most pejorative way.
Same here. I have no desire to be topped...although I'll admit I've thought about it (as we all have).Quote:
Originally Posted by otherguy
show some fucking self respect and let the topic fall to the bottom , lmao
I have to say that I found this topic the most informative I have read on HA. Currently, I've been going through a spiral of drink, drug and sex addiction which has concerned me extremely. I have worries that I have many of the characteristics of the client type when I have been drinking and doing coke or meth which has been something of a vicious spiral recently.
I have to say that having read this article it has encouraged me to do what has been on my mind for a while and seeking some counselling on this issue.
I have had relationships with transgendered women but the thought of introducing them to family and friends has always led to me taking the cowards route out and subsequently only going to professional escorts.
All very worrying but I am on a massive comedown after drinking and doing drugs and escorts since Thursday night. Hopefully this will be a trigger to help me make the necessary steps in the right direction.
The piece was overly generalize and simplistic. Sounds like a mad at the world jaded girl who's mad at the game.
sticks and stones lil one.