I'll believe you are supertranny when you can also tell us how you fly a plane and flip a house.Quote:
Originally Posted by justatransgirl
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I'll believe you are supertranny when you can also tell us how you fly a plane and flip a house.Quote:
Originally Posted by justatransgirl
FUCK YOU too Phobum
It's men like you that make it so that so many transsexuals have to prostitute. You are insulting and I think maybe a little jealous that there are t-girls out there who ARE moving beyond the gutter - and that hurts your male control psyche.
Sheesh,
TS Jamie :-)
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Originally Posted by justatransgirl
AMEN!Quote:
Originally Posted by justatransgirl
The sad part is when most guys think about being in a relationship with aQuote:
Originally Posted by justatransgirl
TS all they think about is the hotness that goes down behind closed doors. When fantasy becomes reality they can't take the heat. Most people live their entire life for EVERYONE ELSE and avoid doing things that make them happy because of their concern of what others would think or say if they found out.
I'm not trying to judge anyone here, or start any shit, but I've been with 8 t-girls in my life, including my wife of five years, and have never paid for a single one of them. Don't get me wrong, I've paid for the date as I rightfully would with any woman, but it hasn't been an "arrangement" or anything of the type. Nor would I ever, ever pay for sex with a TG or GG.Quote:
i wonder whats the percentage of guys that wont sleep with a working girl
Like I said, not trying to judge anyone here, just expressing my opinion.
I HAVE HAD SOME VERY NICE FRIENDS WHO ARE TS.
Oh lighten up. A little tease about being "supertranny" and you respond this this sort of shrill, hypersensitive, almost paranoid vitriol. No wonder nobody took your thread here seriously:Quote:
Originally Posted by justatransgirl
http://www.hungangels.com/board/view...hlight=#625253
I met mine on Yahoo Messenger. They've got TG chatrooms there. Have you tried that?Quote:
I will add here that I could seriously love and marry a hung angel. It took a while to reach this point but I know that I could, its just not easy to find the right girl and I still have not...
Its funny how u guys have tg girlfriends yet still cruise this forum...... ?
It won't be too funny if their girlfriends find out.Quote:
Originally Posted by RubyTS
It's not like this place is Playboy with articles they could claim to be reading.
I suspect my girl fantasizes about other guys, but she doesn't act on it. Same for me with other Tgirls.Quote:
Originally Posted by RubyTS
Look but don't touch...
<<<< Still waiting for someone to tell me why these, "happily involved in long term COMMITTED relationships with hot TS women" gentlemen, still feel the need to cruise these TS Boards? I personally would feel betrayed
ok tru, but ur not only cruising porn, you're also interracting with some of the same girls u watch in film... If u caught ur girlfriend talking to.. John Holmes (god rest his soul) would u not feel betrayed? Offended? Hurt? distrusting?Quote:
Originally Posted by mikejones
because those trannies happily involved in long term COMMITTED relationships are not the most trustworthy individuals either in many casesQuote:
Originally Posted by RubyTS
thats a total generalization. Do u know MOST TRANNIES in long term committed relationships to jump to that conclusion?Quote:
Originally Posted by mbf
I understand your point, but for me, no I wouldn't be upset. Because it's only someone on a computer on the other side of the country. She is still with me and loves me. If she was out talking to the neighbor or some guy at the bar then that would bother me.Quote:
Originally Posted by RubyTS
I suspect everyone has a different level of tolerance for this though. It probably also has to do with the level of trust that I've developed with her too.
do you know MOST MEN in long term commited relationships with trannies? No? than your generalisation is just as bullshit. You started yours first tho.Quote:
Originally Posted by RubyTS
And I have just some experience missy, so....
Thats a gr8 answer, and just so u know im not trying to pick a fight i really enjoy debates so please dont take anything i say offensive or as am attack towards u. We're speaking in general here. Your case is specific an i think its gr8 if u and ur girlfriend have that level of trust. But i also know that I PERSONALLY would feel hurt. You could be cruising any number of TS sites and enjoy ur fantasies, but u choose to engage in conversations here. And most of the girls here escort and would be more than happy top fly across country to meet with a generous gentleman, if u catch my drift. A hot TS pornstar is a lot less limited in acces than a genetic female. I dont know if your girlfriend knows that u frequent this site or not, but i do hope that if she does find out she will be as open minded as uQuote:
Originally Posted by mikejones
Well im sorry to hear that. I dont generalize i speak from experience as well. But the majority of girls i know, would like nothing more than to be in a happy committed relationship and are very faithful. Even to the extent that they have quit escorting to make their relationship work. SEVERAL times, and have regretted it, because the guys they date make them feel cheaper than the guys who will pay to worshipQuote:
Originally Posted by mbf
Yes, she knows. I have posted some pics of her here also, and she knows that too.Quote:
Originally Posted by RubyTS
I enjoyed conversing with you on this Ruby. You are very civil when you disagree with someone and it makes your point stronger.
It never occured to me about asking a girl to get on an airplane for a "visit." But if that was a real option then yes, it might change things.
well thanx honey. i try, i know how quickly things can get ugly on here and i try to avoid bringing out the "bronx girl" in me lol. I think thats really cool and more power to u in your relationship. Sounds like u guys have a good thing going.Quote:
Originally Posted by mikejones
Ah phobun... you caught me in a hypersensitive paranoid moment after I'd just finished schooling that first guy. I'm sorry, you're OK, apology accepted. Now back to the entertainment at hand.Quote:
Originally Posted by phobun
I think maybe we all need to consider that every person and situation and relationship is different. Some people meet and fall in love, and some are rich are some aren't, but hopefully they are all happy. Others find or prefer their love by the hour for as many reason as there are people. Neither is necessarily better or worse than the other. It's just how it is so I guess we all (including me) just need to accept that everyone is different, and that's OK.
Hugs,
TS Jamie :-)
No, not really. If my girl was talking to him i wouldnt care less.Quote:
Originally Posted by RubyTS
The reason for that is because he was ugly and my gf wouldnt fancy him.
I dont care if he has some 12 inch dick. You seem to think that most real girls are cocksluts, this is not the case. Most real girls want a man who is good looking, funny, with a decent sized cock, who loves them. Someone they can have prospects with.
Most real girls do not fancy male porn stars, there are far better looking guys out there with much much more going for them than a pornstar.
This is what you have to understand. Now add in that a pornstar might be a frigging sex worker as well, how many educated girls from good backgrounds who's families have money and they have decent jobs would want to date a male escort who is also on camera fucking lots of women (or men)?
Be serious. Live in the real world.
If you said brad pitt who is a v good looking guy, an a list hollywood star, multimillionaire and probably has a regular sized dick, except he doesnt escort and he doesnt do porn, he just sells hollywood mega busters and gets paid 10-20 million dollars per movie. Then you might have had a point.
Conversely do you think that someone as succesful as brad pitt (lets take out the whole movie star part, because that is unrealistic) but lets say that you have the oppurtunity to go out with a guy you really really fancy. He treats you with lots of respect (he doesnt know you are a prostitute at this stage), he takes you on a few dates and doesnt try sexual advances because he has more respect for you than that. Respectful guys will not try to have sex with a date after the first or second date, they are dating because they respect women (or ts women as the case might be) and dating for a reason, to find someone they like and want to be in a relationship with.
Yet on the date (that he booked and paid for in a nice restaraunt) you say you need to go to the toilet, so he says 'oh hun, whilst you're up, can you get 2 drinks in please, i'll have a bud please, thanks hun, see you soon).
Yet you are appauled and shocked, you feel it is terrible behaviour, how dare he ask you to spend 12 dollars on a drink (when he is buying you dinner, paying for taxi and bar entrance, bowling, cinema etc), how dare he! How dare he ask you to buy the next round of drinks!!!
So are you saying that this would make you feel very upset?
He asked if you would buy the next round of drinks?
Some of the advice given to you on here is truly laughable.
One person in particular who is what, in her 50's, a sex worker, has a transexual gf. To that person, would you charge your transexual girlfriend money to take you on a date, or does she charge you?
The bottom line is that young ts girls (either sex workers or not) are attracted to men, they are not attracted to other trans or women (or maybe 10-20%, but they want a boyfriend). What boyfriend in their right mind would simply expect to put up with a greedy and selfish ts girl, when he has the goods to simply find another one or a real girl who will be kind and friendly and not see a relationship as some sort of money agreement.
This is what prostitution does. You have been tarnished now. You seem to think a relationship is an exchange between sex and money. It doesnt work like that in the real world. A proper relationship is about love, not about money. A relationship that works is one about companionship and about mutual love for each other.
It is because you love each other that you have sex, to make love, to feel something special, to have the connection with the person you love, with the guy you fancy and who makes you go weak at the knees. Its not about money, its not about 'oooh, does he have 9 inch dick or is it 11 inches?' It is about who you feel special with, if you fancy him, if he turns you on and you feel good together.
Otherwise you can expect never ever to get married and definately never to meet anyone who loves you for you and not for something between your legs because he sees you as a freak or something, his little pet freak that he will pay for sex in return to keep you quiet whilst he goes and marries a rich regular girl and has a family with her, is that what you want?
Love is not about money. Find a guy that you fancy (if he fancies you), go on a few dates with him, see how things go. If he treats you well, forget about who pays what or when, he will probably pay at least his half anyway, then if you feel the spark and the romance is there, that you get good vibes and slowly you can trust him, you know he is your man.
There are good men out there.
But expect your relationship to end as soon as he finds out you are a prostitute, thats for sure in 90% of cases.
Great discussion everyone thank you. I did not write that piece I had to use it. One of my best friends wrote that a long time ago to me when I was doubting myself in a previous relationship. My best friend just knew all the right things to say, she is absolutely the most amazing human being. Everyone can be an amazing human being in their own right. This best friend of mine was exceptional. Truly when she loves she gives everything with no reconsideration of her actions because her intentions remains the best for the relationship. She just always wanted me to work hard to maintain the relationship with my ex but I was the only one putting in all the effort and ended up being dumped for it. I'm not bitter and mate I'm not vengeful. I continue to smile because my best friend is looking out for me, reminding me that I have a large heart capable of loving someone completely.
Some of you made comments a lot about "if you got a gf already and you are still surfin on these sex sites", so on and so forth. You all know how I feel about that from my previous posts, I'm also psychotic about how I feel about that, how dirty it is even though its just look but don't touch (look don't act on the fantasies) etc. I just think why not go all the way, if you can fantasize what is stopping someone from going all the way. My (anonymous) best mate she (woops) best friend, pardon my English! She always reminded me to understand that that is simply everyone's fantasy (to explore and to be curious).
The most important thing to remember is that we all do it and its totally natural to be curious and to explore. Stressing the point (IF YOU ARE SINGLE). When you are involved, slowly ween yourself away from those past and teenager habits. That is all you have to do.
What is that saying? (What goes around comes around). No one can get away with anything anymore on line mate! Everyone can see or find out exactly what all you been up to, its easy mate I'm telling you the truth! Your GF or BF most likely knows about all of your activities online which you once thought were so secretive and wow I'm getting away with this yes! TSK TSK TSK no you are not mate.
Bottom line my best mate (best friend) reminded me of was (what you have is so special and so worth preserving, it is once in a life time in some cases, you only have this chance to love, to be so loved and you wanna blow it?)
Stay true to each other and be totally honest with yourselves. Get it all out of your system before you claim to be someone else's MR RIGHT or MRS RIGHT. Do your homework and finish your chores. Or remain single and enjoy all of this and more, it is your god-given-right mate. You ultimately make that decision NO ONE CAN make it for you.
Be faithful and honest in a monogamous-committed, long-term relationship or be single. You don't have to chose. Just be yourself. Seeking porn just simply suggests you have fantasies in your head either you are embarrassed to share, can't let go of, can't grow up out of, or worst of all can't be satisfied by your partner.
Is she worth it, is he worth it? So many GFs leave their BFs because BF still SEEKS out (this is the key topic people is SEEKS OUT) porn. No one just surfs porn, there are specific things, well, porn is specific no matter what it is still is porn.
Okay, if no one can trust each other and no one can be trusted. Just stay single and seeking. Or join a porn commune? Do those exist? Sorry mate thats another topic.
Thank you all of you mate.
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Originally Posted by phobun
thanks for the input
by the way off course im looking for a guy who likes a relationship with TS and not with GG, some guys are like that
and also i think "work" is not an issue if love is what we are talking about.
most of my friend who got married to their bf are the prostitute ones.
one of my TS friend works as showgirl/prostitute in a bar in Japan and met a guy there. they got married now she lives in USA with the guy.
my other TS friend met this guy while working as a prostitute and now they got married and happily lives in Germany. if you really love the person and serious why not?
ive tried dating for long term relationship with guys before when i was still very much a virgin jeje and work in the corporate world but most of the guys who said they are into LTR are so much bullshit. I just lost so much time,effort and money to them. they just want to have free sex claiming they marry after. so much bullocks jeje
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Multiposts aside :) this must be the most intelligent thread here by a lightyear or so. Thanks for the insight, all.
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I could care less if I was with a guy in a LTR who posted or lurked here frequently.
What it boils down to, is trust. If you can't trust the guy enough to deal with him talking to other girls (gg's or ts) then the relationship is pretty much doomed to not work from the start. Our culture isn't all that sex segregated, so any guy (single or not) is going to have to deal with interacting with people of the opposite sex be it the cop who pulls him over, or the cute girl working a cash register at the grocery store.
What separates a guy that has LTR potential from someone who doesn't cut it- is the guy with LTR potential would be able to have that small talk "hi, how are you doing? Sorry to hear that/that's good, I'll see you next week when I come back in this store" with someone they find attractive without trying to go have a secretive affair with her.
I'll give an inverted scenario; everyone knows about those possessive guys who forbid their GF's/wives from talking to any other males (including former friends, neighbors, strangers in public, etc.) and we all know how stupid, abusive, and frowned upon that out of control possessive behavior can get. This girl (gg) I know had a husband who would beat the shit out of her if she said as much as "hello" back to a male cash register, because the guy was so paranoid that she'd fuck anyone who so much as said hi to her in public. An extreme example, with an excessively harsh reaction- but the logic is essentially the same.
People are going to have colleagues, coworkers, classmates, and friends of the opposite sex- that's unavoidable. Sometimes they'll even be (gasp!) single & attractive, but if your S.O. can't be trusted to deal with that- then it probably shouldn't be a LTR in the first place.
You missed the enire point.... The question was to guys who are in relationships with TRANNYS, so if u would have read the whole thread before posting u woulda saved yourself a lot of time writing such irrelevant nonsenseQuote:
Originally Posted by igotmacedbymimi:(
If you actually took heed of advice, that was neither supposed to be 'against' or 'buttlicking' you might actually learn something.Quote:
Originally Posted by RubyTS
But, youll carry on doing the same shit, listening to the same fools (look at the state of them in the whole scheme of things) and carry on dating the same idiots and expecting a beautiful male adonis with lots of money who will stay totally faithful to his transexual prostitute girlfriend :lol:
Come on, its about living in the real world.
Just think like a real girl for a minute. YOU ARE A WOMAN! So think like one!
If all these women can have regular relationships and get married, why can you not?
How many female prostitutes end up with great caring families and gorgeous husbands?
Be honest with yourself rather than try to attack me or pull off a snide remark.
You're a nice looking girl, save up for an education, when youve got it, you can get a nice regular job with nice regular people and get a nice relationship with a guy you fancy.
Yourself and others will end up with absolutely nothing in the long run, if you continue on self destruct mode. Im not trying to be rude, just writing advice.
Your choice whether you take it though. Anyway, maybe youll find the guy for you in the future, if/when he comes along...THINK...be normal!
Dont be 'hmmm this is a business transaction, you get to fuk me if you buy me things'...you want to date a guy, you dont want to be his dirty secret he has whilst he is secretly in a relationship with pretty real girl from a wealthy family, you dont want to be his little pet freak do you...you want to be his beautiful girlfriend, and the pair of you are faithful and in love...just think how true lovers act. Its got nothing to do with money or who pays for what.
Just some friendly advice. Love is far superior than money, it is also far harder to come by.
its not firendly advice, ur makins assumptions on what type of person i am and u dont even know me.
I dont feel a relationship is a business transaction, but if u really think about it, how many women lock men into relatiosnips by purposely getting pregnant? How many women do u know who would rather date a plumber over a doctor?
IF i were to involve myself in a relationship., YES he would have to be hott and hung, faithful, he would need a car, he needs to have a good well paying job. This is not up forr debate! its my own personal preference and its not gonna change.
Im not gonna date someone im not attracted to!
Im not gonna date someone who cant satisfy in the bedroom!
Im not gonna date someone who cant do things for me that i can already do for myself
Until then, im happy to remain single and an escort. And like this girl said earlier, its just as easy to fall in love with a rich guy. (not that in looking for a rich guy but it would be nice)
Oh get real, silly! Pretty Woman was a fucking documentary. Everyone knows gerbil boy was doing a reality show. And of course Disney edited out that Cinderella was a working girl too. But she ended up happily ever after!Quote:
Originally Posted by igotmacedbymimi:(
Much of your advice is just common sense if people just sit down and consider potential consequences over the long-term.Quote:
Originally Posted by igotmacedbymimi:(
My sense is that this ability gets lost the longer one is in the business.
The mark of a jaded prostitute, who has sort of lost touch, is that she begins to see every guy as a john, or at least willing to pay for sex. For too many prostitutes, their entire outlook and personality gets corrupted by this demeaning work, and it is a slow downward spiral. Listen to the tales from that choker Spitzer's whores... physical and emotional abuse is all too common, not to mention the fear from the danger of catching something (genital warts, herpes and the serious STDs); all this takes a toll, and it is surprising that drug abuse by prostitutes is not more common as a means of escape. All the emotional baggage is too much for most self-respecting guys (who would want it?), and they will almost always choose a less attractive girl, who is not a call-girl, as the better option.
Besides, there is such a cynical view about marriage anyways, that people are gold-diggers and such, so why would a guy choose a professional faker who sells herself for cash as a wife? I think most guys would perceive that option as a set-up for failure.
I've said it once and I'll say it again. American TS take on the WORST traits of an American Genetic Woman. Saying many woman would rather marry a doctor than a plumber. I guess she's just thinks "Joe The Plumber" is typical and only makes 30-35K a year. That would be false, because for ONE he's not an actual plumber he's a a Plumber In Training, my god the man was on Welfare once... He's WHITE TRASH, period.
The average plumber makes about 50K or more a year. Doctors don't make as much as they used too when you add in malpractice insurance.
Its seem all half way decent looking women feel they deserve the sexiest, richest man they can get. Good looking and Money bring a whole multitude of problems nobody even thinks about until its too late, nor does it automatically mean you'll have a happy and successful relationship.
Rich good-looking men beat their wives too...
Some people think I'm out of line for demanding any T girl I was involved with to sound, move and look like any other girl out there and I prefer post op contrary to many on this board, I don't have a "thing" for she-dick it does nothing for me.
Many providers have successfully married a "John" or some guy they met "off duty". In the case of the man they met off duty, many do not tell of their past life and often relocate to further distance themselves from their former lifestyle. That is concealing the truth, is it fair that the man your with or married doesn't know about your past life? Doesn't he have the right to know?
They are plenty of nice looking, faithful men that would date or marry a T-girl, even if they never considered it otherwise.
I also understand the desire to find a protector, somebody that will confront those people out there that have clocked you and resort to physical violence like they killed your mother and not just said "That's a Boy!". What's the saying "Sticks and Stones....." If you wanna date these pee-brained papi chulos and black thugs, go ahead. They'll more than likely end up in jail or dead as corp thugs don't exist, its a fabrication.
Nice men finish last but only until your a GG past her "best used before" date has 1 or 2 children from fair weather males/husbands and nobody wants an old T-Girl, but that's when dating Nice Men is finally acceptable...
I call that "Damaged Goods"
im worried that one wants to move in with me and i dont know if shes right for me
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Originally Posted by RubyTS
You dont have a relationship with a cock, a car or a job.Quote:
he would have to be hott and hung
he would need a car
he needs to have a good well paying job.
Thats just bonus.
The personality is the one and only thing important for a good, long relationship. I hope you realize that before you are old.
Yes i do realize that. If i were to simply fall in love with someone then what can i say? What will be will be. I dont see that happening through the means of which i meet people now. I would not invest my time in getting to know someone that im not physically attracted to.Quote:
Originally Posted by Teydyn
Awe Rubes talking about falling in love....Imma cut u if u do lol J.K Have fun in NJQuote:
Originally Posted by RubyTS
Good girl.... Your said Ruby... Some man find hard to believe this but we all have our perfect man in mind and love start in sight . Most guys here overrated us about we being whores even in our relationships and it's not completely true.Quote:
Originally Posted by RubyTS
We can find our true love in the average Joe, without this one to be a thug or someone who abuse us but instead a guy who may be supporting us all the way in every decision we make, that's love.
If a guy who is looking for love with a TS he better be ready to live with it and open up to society, family and more. It require a great level of maturity to carry a relationship with a TS woman and who escort for a living, unfortunately those men are hard to find.
Love...
Cinthya.