My husband cheated on me with TS/TV

I wouldnt agree with such adultety

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Originally Posted by Upsetwife

I'm so upset to see my husband has commented on this post:

http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/sho...nd-ts-Amandada

and admitted he's cheated on me with ts. I have nothing against people doing these things and getting paid for it after all it's their bodies to do with what they like but when a man who claims he loves his wife and has regular sex (so can't say it's a lack of sex in the relationship) goes and pays for sex it ruins lives. It would be hard enough to deal with just knowing it's other females he's been cheating with but to find out he's been with other men (tv's are still men as they still have a dick!!!) And really enjoyed it!! I dont know how to deal with this :-( I can not compete with another man

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infidelity is never good, naturally. i'm sorry you have to go through this.

but then with respect, escorts won't stop because they cannot verify that their clients are married. most dont' care, since they want the money.

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Originally Posted by holzz

infidelity is never good, naturally. i'm sorry you have to go through this.

but then with respect, escorts won't stop because they cannot verify that their clients are married. most dont' care, since they want the money.

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Oh I know they wouldn't and at the end of the day they are just in it for the money or I'm guessing most of them are anyway
I'm not blaming the escorts although I don't agree with what they are doing it's non of my business what someone does with their body, it's their choice. It's the married men who do this that are in the wrong, if your single then you can please yourself, if your married then you took vows to stay faithful, simple in my eyes

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Originally Posted by Upsetwife

... and admitted he's cheated on me with ts. I have nothing against people doing these things and getting paid for it after all it's their bodies to do with what they like ...

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Originally Posted by Upsetwife

...I'm not blaming the escorts although I don't agree with what they are doing it's non of my business what someone does with their body, it's their choice.

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Consistent, not

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Originally Posted by rodinuk

Consistent, not

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I don't have anything personal against the escorts and just because I don't agree with ie it's not for me that doesn't mean I don't think tgey have the right to do what they want so how is that inconsistent?

i think in a little while, u will become an expert in escorts, lol! kisses sweet lady!

I'm not being harsh to you OP. But then are you here to just vent? This is an issue you should take up with your spouse. Clearly he likes trans women on some level,

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Originally Posted by holzz

I'm not being harsh to you OP. But then are you here to just vent? This is an issue you should take up with your spouse. Clearly he likes trans women on some level,

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I was here initially to vent as I didn't know what to do, never had yo deal with anything like before and life unfortunately doesn't come with an instruction manual, but now I find myself talking to some really lovely people and I have learnt quite a bit
Obviously still not happy that he cheated and doesn't seem like he is going to admit to anything and tbh I'm not surprised. I know it would be so hard for him to tell me what he's done and probably feels ashamed but we have spoken about other stuff in length over the last 2 days and we are experimenting more, joined a swingers club just waiting for the approval for membership then we will arrange a visit to the club one eve and see how we feel when we are there. Plus last night was amazing 😜 lol

I have made it quite clear to him that what ever has already happened we will leave in the past but he knows now I'm not happy with any sexual activity either in person with someone or via phone/text or internet chat as I class that as cheating. We can watch porn together and experiment between ourselves and be open about it then that's gotta be better than the sneaking about and worrying about getting caught and he totally agreed so we will just have yo see how it goes. He's very very happy about the swingers club but said just us and no one else joining in to start at least as he thinks that having other people watch us have sex will be a huge turn on for him and I have to agree altho I am very nervous naturally

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Originally Posted by holzz

I'm not being harsh to you OP. But then are you here to just vent? This is an issue you should take up with your spouse. Clearly he likes trans women on some level,

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I have offered him to invite a ts to join us but he declined saying he couldn't do that. Not sure if all his comments on here were just provardo and he hadn't actually gone through with any of it or he just too ashamed to admit it to me but 1 thing he said last night was he thinks that fantasies should stay as just that as in reality it's never as good as you imagine so maybe the whole ts thing was a fantasy of his and it's now out of his system

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Originally Posted by Upsetwife

I have offered him to invite a ts to join us but he declined saying he couldn't do that. Not sure if all his comments on here were just provardo and he hadn't actually gone through with any of it or he just too ashamed to admit it to me but 1 thing he said last night was he thinks that fantasies should stay as just that as in reality it's never as good as you imagine so maybe the whole ts thing was a fantasy of his and it's now out of his system

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Bullshit.

I was right the first time.

What also doesn't make sense is why after discussing the subject with him, she has continued to post here about it, and he has not thought to search the forum. If they've discussed it why is she continuing to vent about it publicly and where is he...it really doesn't make sense.

I am also fascinated by her use of the word provardo to mean bravado...it's not often an American gets to make fun of a Brit for their use of language.

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Originally Posted by broncofan

If they've discussed it why is she continuing to vent about it publicly and where is he...it really doesn't make sense.

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And maybe I didn't cross-reference the posts right, but the person her posts indicate is her husband was on the forum 18 hours ago. Is it her logging on as him again, is it him but he hasn't yet found this thread despite her supposedly bringing up the subject of ts' with him in person? If everything she said were true, why is she continuing to post and where is he?

This was pretty clearly fabricated from the get go, I'm surprised it's gone on this long. Either OP is taking too many meds or not enough.

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Originally Posted by Upsetwife

Oh I know they wouldn't and at the end of the day they are just in it for the money or I'm guessing most of them are anyway

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Is your husband canveyfella and was he on here at almost the exact same time you were posting this? Almost like you logged off of one account and immediately posted in another?? It would have been 1:28 am in Britain. Where were you and where was he? Is your marriage so strained that you are separated at 1:28 am?

Hey Upsetwife, I'm upset that you completely disregarded my comment on here...yet your resolution of tapping into his fantasy was exactly MY suggestion.

He needs gets his ass fuct - I told you this. I know, I'm married too.

(So I had to come and say this because you ignored my 2c advice)

Grooby said it too. It's just all fantasy.

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Originally Posted by broncofan

Is your husband canveyfella and was he on here at almost the exact same time you were posting this? Almost like you logged off of one account and immediately posted in another?? It would have been 1:28 am in Britain. Where were you and where was he? Is your marriage so strained that you are separated at 1:28 am?

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That's who I thought it was as well. Interesting that Upsetwife has been back on line only an hour ago, but for once not commented...

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Originally Posted by Laphroaig

That's who I thought it was as well. Interesting that Upsetwife has been back on line only an hour ago, but for once not commented...

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I only come back on to answer my private messages as got a few really lovely people I'm talking to.
What's the point in me continuing to comment on here as I only get nasty comments and get called a troll or a liar of which i am neither so I'm just going to stick to pm's

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Originally Posted by Laphroaig

That's who I thought it was as well. Interesting that Upsetwife has been back on line only an hour ago, but for once not commented...

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Rodinuk made a good point several pages back which was to cross-reference the threads upsetwife commented on. After doing that I came to that canveyfella whose profile has been visited by upsetwife (whether upsetwife rated one of his posts to make this all seem plausible or whether she did it because she is a jilted wife I don't know for certain though I'm leaning towards the former).

Upsetwife said a few pages back on this thread that her husband's account was banned or blocked from the site which is why after more than a week of posting and after talking to her husband about ts' he did not find her comments. Yet, one does not have to be logged in to look at a limited number of posts, and canveyfella was active after she claimed her husband's account had been blocked.

It does not make sense that they'd have these conversations and he would not immediately make attempts to get on here and see what gave it away.

Given all that has been said and that the names are aliases, her reluctance to confirm which one was her husband's account seems peculiar. Doubly peculiar if it was Canveyfella and they were both on the forum at almost the same exact time at around 1:30 am several nights ago. I don't know the answer but it doesn't seem right...and none of my questions were rude either...

TS escort here. Where about are you, I might be the one that your husband has been fucking. O well.

I would say 99% of my clients are married men. So I will give you an insight. I have regular clients that talk to me alot about why they come and see me. Its an adventure, something that they enjoy on there own. Its a thrill that they enjoy, they enjoy doing it behind the wifes back and not getting caught. More to the point of why they see a TS. Its because they like cock, not because they are gay. Gay men like other gay men. They like the females form and as every guy will say on here, we make more effort to be feminine. We are female btw, I am legally female so please do not refer to me as a man. The big part for any guy meeting a TS, is that they know when we have cum, they can see it. Its a turn on for the fact that they can see it without any doubt, its great for the ego.

I have an idea for you. Why dont you find yourself a bi TS escort and book her. I have had couple and single females book me in the past and not only do I love cock but I also love pussy. Experience what it is like to be with a girl like me, have the adventure and then maybe, just maybe you might understand.

A word of warning about your husband though, once you go TS and you enjoy it, you wont go back. He might say that he will give it up for you but I garantee 100% that he wont. Hes hooked.

Best of luck x

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Originally Posted by jacqui_jones

TS escort here. Where about are you, I might be the one that your husband has been fucking. O well.

I would say 99% of my clients are married men. So I will give you an insight. I have regular clients that talk to me alot about why they come and see me. Its an adventure, something that they enjoy on there own. Its a thrill that they enjoy, they enjoy doing it behind the wifes back and not getting caught. More to the point of why they see a TS. Its because they like cock, not because they are gay. Gay men like other gay men. They like the females form and as every guy will say on here, we make more effort to be feminine. We are female btw, I am legally female so please do not refer to me as a man. The big part for any guy meeting a TS, is that they know when we have cum, they can see it. Its a turn on for the fact that they can see it without any doubt, its great for the ego.

I have an idea for you. Why dont you find yourself a bi TS escort and book her. I have had couple and single females book me in the past and not only do I love cock but I also love pussy. Experience what it is like to be with a girl like me, have the adventure and then maybe, just maybe you might understand.

A word of warning about your husband though, once you go TS and you enjoy it, you wont go back. He might say that he will give it up for you but I garantee 100% that he wont. Hes hooked.

Best of luck x

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its true...

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Originally Posted by Upsetwife

I'm so upset to see my husband has commented on this post:

http://www.hungangels.com/vboard/sho...nd-ts-Amandada

and admitted he's cheated on me with ts. I have nothing against people doing these things and getting paid for it after all it's their bodies to do with what they like but when a man who claims he loves his wife and has regular sex (so can't say it's a lack of sex in the relationship) goes and pays for sex it ruins lives. It would be hard enough to deal with just knowing it's other females he's been cheating with but to find out he's been with other men (tv's are still men as they still have a dick!!!) And really enjoyed it!! I dont know how to deal with this :-( I can not compete with another man

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Sooo, it was the thread you attached that was proof of your husband having a TS affair? Then what drew you to this site to stumble across this thread? Oh I know, the need to post absolute bullshit! Stop wasting everyone's time!

I think there's men out there who r into genetic girls...and there's men out there who are into ts girls. Most men who are into ts girls settle for genetic girls because it's "normal" and "acceptable" but at the end of the day, she's right 100% he will never be faithful to you. He will always be back! You either need to divorce him or accept it.

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Originally Posted by melody mayheim

I think there's men out there who r into genetic girls...and there's men out there who are into ts girls. Most men who are into ts girls settle for genetic girls because it's "normal" and "acceptable" but at the end of the day, she's right 100% he will never be faithful to you. He will always be back! You either need to divorce him or accept it.

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...coming to this this late...but totally agree with you on this...

...that gay stigma is never going to go away ---for the laity--- but agree, it's fantasy, it's escape and interesting that you suggested it's the 'being able to see someone ejaculate' that helps the encounter...BUT the married man cheating on his wife for this is kinda frowned on...not judging, just lame...

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Originally Posted by jacqui_jones

TS escort here. Where about are you, I might be the one that your husband has been fucking. O well.

I would say 99% of my clients are married men. So I will give you an insight. I have regular clients that talk to me alot about why they come and see me. Its an adventure, something that they enjoy on there own. Its a thrill that they enjoy, they enjoy doing it behind the wifes back and not getting caught. More to the point of why they see a TS. Its because they like cock, not because they are gay. Gay men like other gay men. They like the females form and as every guy will say on here, we make more effort to be feminine. We are female btw, I am legally female so please do not refer to me as a man. The big part for any guy meeting a TS, is that they know when we have cum, they can see it. Its a turn on for the fact that they can see it without any doubt, its great for the ego.

I have an idea for you. Why dont you find yourself a bi TS escort and book her. I have had couple and single females book me in the past and not only do I love cock but I also love pussy. Experience what it is like to be with a girl like me, have the adventure and then maybe, just maybe you might understand.

A word of warning about your husband though, once you go TS and you enjoy it, you wont go back. He might say that he will give it up for you but I garantee 100% that he wont. Hes hooked.

Best of luck x

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Once a cheater always a cheater. I'd recommend divorcing him. Also, I'd marry Melody :D :D

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Originally Posted by jacqui_jones

More to the point of why they see a TS. Its because they like cock, not because they are gay.

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Look: this is categorically untrue.






Some of us like ass.

oh give it up already... either stay with him or go.... but if you stay you have to accept this is part of him, it will never go away. there is so much you can enjoy together if you just chill and live your life together enjoying the excitement that this can bring. if not split and start again

I think this is pretty simple, really. Most men are not monogamous by nature, so when they're in a marriage or committed relationship they make a conscious decision to be faithful to only one person, but that doesn't mean it's always easy. Temptation is always lurking, even when they're very much in love. What's more, some men fall somewhere in between the gender binary in terms of sexuality and sexual preference so it's quite possible to be attracted to gender fluidity even if their desire is predominantly heterosexual. The internet can really amp up such proclivities. Now add to the mix guys who are willing to cheat on their SO and you have a recipe for trouble. To me, none of that is hard to figure out or understand, but that doesn't make it alright. Your husband is a creep for cheating on you, and for being too lame to involve you in sorting this out. The question is, what are you going to do about it?

My taco ♡

Move on.

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Originally Posted by dhc

Look: this is categorically untrue.




Some of us like ass.

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Exactly, great oral and guaranteed anal

This is definitely bull shit. The critical clue is in the ‘wife’s’ claim that they met on Plenty Of Fish, but that they have a son together which stops them talking about stuff.

For them not to be able to talk in front of their son, he must be at least 10 or 11, otherwise he wouldn’t understand any of the context.

Plenty of fish only really took off in 2009, so you do the maths guys and girls.

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Originally Posted by TheBlueEyedKid

This is definitely bull shit. The critical clue is in the ‘wife’s’ claim that they met on Plenty Of Fish, but that they have a son together which stops them talking about stuff.

For them not to be able to talk in front of their son, he must be at least 10 or 11, otherwise he wouldn’t understand any of the context.

Plenty of fish only really took off in 2009, so you do the maths guys and girls.

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Yes we met on plenty of fish in August 2015. My youngest son is 11 almost 12 from my PREVIOUS MARRAIGE of which I also have a 19 year old.
Enough info for ya!!!!

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Originally Posted by KelliBlueEyes

Exactly, great oral and guaranteed anal

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He gets the best oral from me and Anal when ever he wants it.
Real women like Anal too!!!!

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Originally Posted by Upsetwife

He gets the best oral from me and Anal when ever he wants it.
Real women like Anal too!!!!

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mmmm glad to hear !

Hey UW, if you have a hairy pussy, you can cheat on him with me!

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Originally Posted by tslvr

Hey UW, if you have a hairy pussy, you can cheat on him with me!

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Lol thanks for the offer but I don't cheat
Plus I'm smooth down there just as he likes it lol

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Originally Posted by Upsetwife

He gets the best oral from me and Anal when ever he wants it.
Real women like Anal too!!!!

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That's a good thing.

Upset Wife, if you would like to talk about it over a few glasses of wine and see where things lead...., im more than happy to see you. im up in yorkshire.